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UK’s Sexiest Over 60’s Women 2021 Revealed

The key findings

* Jane Seymour tops annual list of UK’s sexiest women over 60 

* Followed by Susan Sarandon and Julie Christie

* Joan Collins is the oldest sexy over 60 at 88 years old

* 1 in 3 men prefer to date someone older than them

* Poll comes from 1000 members on llicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading married dating site
 

The late and great Bette Davis was once quoted saying ‘Old age ain’t no place for sissies’ and she was right. Smouldering good looks get you places when you’re young – especially in Hollywood. But what about as you get older?
 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Aging gracefully is no mean feat and to reach the 60 plus milestone and still look fabulous? Well that deserves accolades of its own. Which is precisely why IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, polled 1000 men to find out who they find sexy over 60, and here are the results.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni has compiled and commented on the results below:


British-American actress and Hollywood icon Jane Seymour comes in first place with 18% of the vote. Former Bond girl Solitaire in Live and Let Die (1973) alongside James Bond (Roger Moore). You would be forgiven for mistaking Jane Seymour as somebody a lot younger than her youthful 70, she entirely defies the hands of time and continues to be a sex symbol even now.

Close runner up is 75 year old award winning American actress Susan Sarandon (16%). Known for her roles in movies such as Thelma & Louise (1991) and Dead Man Walking (1995).This hot red-headed beauty once quoted as saying ‘Sex – that’s good for your skin, right?’ must sure have had a lot of it in her lifetime as her envious appearance has entirely evaded any serious signs of ageing. 

At 81 years old and third place, with 13% of the vote, is the beautiful British actress Julie Christie. A celebrity icon from the sixties known for her roles in movies such as Darling (1965), Doctor Zhivago (1965) and more recently as Madam Rosmerta in Harry Potter and the Prisoner of Azkaban (2004). 

The legendary British actress Helen Mirren comes in fourth place at 76 years old (11%). Critically acclaimed for her role as Queen Elizabeth II in The Queen (2006) as well as her breakthrough role as detective Jane Tennison in television series Prime Suspect (1991–96, 2003, and 2006). Not only is she insanely gorgeous for her age – she has impeccable style to boot. No wonder British men are besotted by her.

Fifth place goes to 63 year old American actress, the sensational Michelle Pfeiffer (9%), regularly recognized as one of the most attractive women of all time since the eighties.

The Kardashian’s mum, 65 year old Kris Jenner comes in at sixth place (7%).

English actress and author Joan Collins, the oldest over 60 to make the cut at 88 years old, takes 6% of the vote. It’s fabulous to see a woman pushing 90 make the top 10 and in a very honourable seventh place.

The fabulous blonde bombshell Britt Ekland, Swedish actress and singer, is in eighth place (4%) at 79 years old.

Second to last is another English actress Julie Andrews in ninth place (3%) and at 86 years old.

Last place and just about scraping the top 10 sexist over 60’s is the international supermodel, actress and singer from England, Lesley Lawson known by the nickname Twiggy (1%) at 72 years old. 

Out of the respondents surveyed a whopping 34% of men also agreed that they prefered dating somebody older than them. 

 
Results

Jane Seymour –  18%

Susan Sarandon –  16%

Julie Christie – 13%

Other 12%

Dame Helen Mirren –  11%

Michelle Pfeiffer –  9%

Kris Jenner – 7%

Dame Joan Henrietta Collins – 6%

Britt Ekland – 4%

Julie Andrews – 3%

Lesley Lawson ‘Twiggy’ – 1%

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr
Username: pr
Password: openthel0ck4me

About the research

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

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UK’s Sexiest Politicians For 2021 Revealed

The key findings

* Johnny Mercer and Dehenna Davison top annual list of UK’s sexiest politicians 

* Conservatives Sajid Javid and Theresa Coffey voted least desirable 

* Conservatives are the overall sexiest male and female politicians 

* Poll comes from 2000 members on IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading married dating site 


When it comes to political opinions we’ve all got one, but what is hard to tell is what is truly right or wrong. One thing is for certain though and that’s who is crowned sexiest politician in the UK 2021.

The recent survey was conducted with 2000 adulterers, split equally by male and female respondents, on IllicitEncounters.com, the U.K’s leading dating website for married people. 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni has compiled and commented on the results below:

In the men’s sexiest category, new entry Johnny Mercer comes in first place with 22% of the vote, dethroning last year’s heartthrob Dishy Rishi Sunak who has toppled down to second sexiest. There is no denying it, Johnny Mercer has smouldering good looks and charm – in fact with Daniel Craig stepping down from the Mr.Bond franchise – some may be forgiven to think that Mr. Bond, Johnny Bond has a good ring to it – especially with his military background.

Close second with 20% of the vote is Conservative Rishi Sunak. Since replacing Sajid Javid as chancellor last year he has quickly become a household name earning himself the nickname Dishy Rishy. Not only is he a very good-looking candidate, the country simply trusts him to get the job done – and boy does Rishi deliver. No wonder women all over the UK are pining over him.

In third place is our prime minister, Conservative leader Boris Johnson (17%). British women just cannot make their mind up about BoJo – circa ‘19 he’s hot, circa ‘20 he’s not and now he’s back to bedable in 2021. It’s not easy to appease everybody as leader of the country and the pandemic really hindered dear Johnson’s reputation for a while, however, he’s turned it around and become a hit with the ladies once again. 

In fourth place, down from third last year, is Conservative Tobias Ellwood with 13% of the vote. Ex-army captain in the The Royal Green Jackets, I can imagine many women picture Tobias Ellwood in uniform – a real life action man. Indeed, he does scrub up well in a suit too. Refined, polite and possessing a very British sophistication – no wonder the nation adores him.

Fifth place goes to the mayor of Manchester and the only Labour candidate to make the hot list this year Andy Burnham (10%). A mayor of the people affectionately dubbed ‘King of the North’ Andy Burnham won the hearts of Manchester locals as he fought for funding last year during the coronavirus pandemic.

Last but not least is the deputy prime minister, Conservative, Dominic Raab (8%). 

Participants of the survey were also asked to vote for the least sexy politicians. With our Secretary of State for Health and Social Care, Sajid Javid Conservative MP, selected as the least desirable male with an overwhelming 31% of the vote. He may have given us our freedom in the pandemic but sadly he has not been repaid in votes regarding his sex appeal.

Second least sexy is Labour’s Ed Miliband (19%) and Labour’s Sadiq Khan (17%) in third. 

Liberal Democrat Ed Davey came in fourth least desirable (15%).

The only remaining politician from last year’s least sexy list, although dethroned from last year’s number one spot, is Conservative’s Michael Gove in fifth with 6% of the vote. Last year satirical show Spitting Image did him an honour of creating a puppet in his name – which Gove said he was ‘incredibly flattered’ over – though we cannot imagine what is so flattering about a face made out of genitals. Suffice to say, the ladies aren’t all that interested in going clubbing with Gove at the Bohemia nightclub in Aberdeen any time soon.

Last but not least in the least sexy male politicians is Jacob Rees-Mogg (4%) in sixth position overall. If he can fall asleep on the frontbench at the commons perhaps he would do the same on a date, not very impressive – hey?

For the female entrants in the most sexy politician poll the overall winner is new entry Conservative Dehenna Davison (29%) knocking last year’s winner – Labour’s Lisa Nandy off the podium.

Labour’s Dr Rosena Allin Khan, Shadow Secretary of State for Mental Health, holds firm second place two years in a row, up 1% since last year at 21% of the vote. Dr Rosena Allin Khan took upon herself to pull 12 hour shifts in St Georges Hospital in Tooting to help with the covid-19 crisis last year – and absolutely deserves recognition, it’s wonderful she is being noticed by the public for her selfless acts of care and duty.

Last year’s winner Lisa Nandy, Labour MP, drops down to third overall sexiest female politician with 17% of the vote. What’s not to like? Lisa Nandy is clearly popular, sporting that girl-next-door, could do no wrong look – no wonder British men are attracted to her. 

The former care minister, Conservative’s Helen Whately places fourth sexiest female politician (16%). Perhaps coming onto this year’s list as a sympathy vote for the bullying she endured from Piers Morgan on Good Morning Britain.

First minister of Scotland Nicola Sturgeon is the fifth sexiest female politician (6%). She is firm but kind and really gives the impression that she cares about her people.  

Conservative Victoria Atkins, Minister of State for Prisons and Probation, comes in sixth place with 5% of the vote. 

In the female category, the least sexy politician award goes to Conservative’s Thérèse Coffey (23%). If Thérèse Coffey’s mortifying duet with Matt Hancock of “Don’t Stop Me Now” by Queen is anything to go by – then we are really not that surprised. Although not crowned the Karaoke Queen at least she has come first in one competition. 

Another Conservative, Home Secretary, Priti Patel comes in second least sexy female politician (19%) – bumped up from fourth least desirable last year. Let’s be honest, Priti Patel or ‘the wicked witch of the south’ is actually not that bad looking but has some pretty unpopular and often controversial views which could contribute to her votes as least desirable. Some of which include her heartless stance on immigration and criminals. Once quoted as wanting the death penalty introduced – you can be forgiven for not wanting to date her.

Remaining in third least desirable two years in a row and with 18% of the vote is Labour’s Shadow Secretary of State for Women and Equalities Anneliese Dodds.

Fourth place is Labour’s Angela Rayner (14%), followed by Anne-Marie Trevelyan in fifth (10%) and lastly Liberal Democrat Wera Hobhouse takes sixth place (3%)


Sexiest Male Politicians

Johnny Mercer 22% 

Rishi Sunak 20%  

Boris Johnson 17% 

Tobias Ellwood 13% 

Other 10%

Andy Burnham 10% 

Dominic Raab 8%  

Least Sexy Male Politicians

Sajid Javid 31% 

Edward Miliband 19% 

Sadiq Khan 17% 

Ed Davey 15%

Other 8%

Michael Gove 6%  

Jacob Rees-Mogg 4% 

Sexiest Female Politicians

Dehenna Davison 29%  

Dr Rosena Allin Khan 21%  

Lisa Nandy 17% 

Helen Whately 16% 

Nicola Sturgeon 6% 

Other 6%

Victoria atkins 5% 


Least Sexy Female Politicians

Thérèse Coffey 23% 

Priti Patel 19% 

Anneliese Dodds 18% 

Angela Rayner 14% 

Other  13%

Anne-Marie Trevelyan 10% 

Wera Hobhouse 3% 

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr

Username: pr
Password: openthel0ck4me

About the research

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: [email protected]

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Biggest Spike in Autumn Affairs in Eighteen Years as Kids are back in School

The key findings

*The biggest autumn affairs spike in 18 years now that kids are back in school

* Bored housewives account for 59% of the registration surge 

* More than half of adulterers have been faithful over the summer, though 70% of them suffered a total summer sex drought

* Study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading dating site for married people

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people has seen an exponential growth in married people seeking affairs during the last three weeks as bored husbands and wives look to engage in illicit activity now that kids are back in school.

The autumn affairs spike is observed each year that kids go back to school, however 2021 accounts for the biggest rise in September registrations since records began 18 years ago, with a 44% increase in the first three weeks of September. 

Bored housewives account for 59% of the registration surge – suggesting that more of the child care burden belongs to mothers – who after a summer of sacrifices are finally able to use September as an opportunity to unwind with an illicit lover. It seems that once the kids are back in school, mums go back to bed with other people’s husbands.

The extra-marital dating site surveyed 600 recently active members and found that more than half of married couples (54%) had been faithful over the summer, but not from lack of trying as a phenomenal 84% of those who didn’t cheat said they wanted to have an affair but found it impossible to engage in one during the summer holidays.

Out of the 46% of members that were loyal during the school holidays, a whopping 70% said they hadn’t even had sex with their spouse – this summer sex draught is notorious for sowing the seed of the autumn affairs rise.

Henrietta, 55, London 

‘I could walk through the house naked and my husband wouldn’t even notice. I’ve accepted that our relationship is no longer physical and that’s okay. Otherwise he is a great partner and father to our kids and we really like to focus our attention on the family during the school holidays. We were actually lucky enough to go to Greece this year. We’ve had a nice summer. Now the kids are back in school and I’m looking my best with a tan – I am ready to pounce haha on some new fling for this quarter.”

Sylvia, 40, Suffolk

I save most of my annual leave for the school holidays as me and my husband both work and need to make sure that childcare is covered. I love spending time with the kids but the summer really steals away any real adult time left. My husband is constantly stressed and complaining. It’s nice to just forget about it all with someone who can relate. I don’t intend to ever leave my family, I just need a bit of a release.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, said “We’re seeing a phenomenal spike in autumn affairs now the kids are back in school. It can also be assumed that the surge is higher than normal due to covid and lockdown fever – people need an escape, they need a release from the mayhem of the last 18 months.

Having said that, autumn is always cesspit for infidelity. Schools reopening allow parents much more freedom. I’m not surprised adulterers have been faithful during the summer – there’s been little to no chance to get away. Now daddy can drop off the kids to daycare and engage in a dalliance of his own.

Look – we all know summer is adventure time for our children – but autumn is when stressed out spouses are finally allowed to go out and play.”

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr

Username: pr
Password: openthel0ck4me

About the research

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: [email protected]

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

You know what they say about men with big feet? They’re more likely to cheat!

The key findings


* Men with big feet are more likely to cheat

* Shoe size 10-10.5 is the size most likely to be unfaithful

* Men with shoe size 7.5 and under are the most faithful in Britain

* The findings come from IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

It was once rumoured that the size of a man’s feet meant they had big… socks!

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, surveyed 2000 of their male members and found a direct correlation between a man’s shoe size and adultery.

A man who is well endowed has big feet – or so they say. Now the proof for that particular myth is in the pudding, what is certainly true though is that men with big feet are more likely to cheat, whereas men with teeny tiny tootsies are tons more trustworthy. 

The results found that only 4% of cheating men have a shoe size of 7.5 and under, followed by 8% shoe size 8 – 8.5 and 22% of men with shoe size 9 – 9.5.

Now on the larger scale, over a quarter of adulterous men have shoe size 10 – 10.5 (27%) – making this the most common shoe size of a cheating casanova! 

18% of cheating men have a shoe size of 11-11.5, followed by 15% between 12 – 12.5, lastly 6% have a shoe size of 13 and over. 

Collectively 66% of male love rats have a shoe size 10 or over, with 10-10.5 being the most popular sizes for adulterous men.

The results of the study also correlate with various celebrity cheats, Tiger Woods, Hugh Grant, Lamar Odom and Arnold Schwarzenegger all sporting a shoe size of 10 and over.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni, said ‘Whilst some may argue that there is more to an affair than a man’s shoe size, the data doesn’t lie. 66% of male love rats have a shoe size of 10 or over. 

Why do men with big feet cheat? Perhaps because men with bigger feet tend to also be tall – so they’re likely to get more attention than their shorter counterparts. Big shoes equals big everywhere right? Women fancy Mr.Big – doesn’t mean they should marry him though!

Well now you know – shoe size really does matter when looking for a faithful partner.’

Shoe SizePercentage of Cheating Men

7.5 or under       4%

8 – 8.5                8%

9 – 9.5                22%

10 -10.5             27%

11 -11.5             18%

12 – 12.5            15% 

13 and over       6%

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr

Username: pr
Password: openthel0ck4me

About the research

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: [email protected]

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

2 out of 3 adulterers have a happy marriage – but cheat anyway

The key findings

* 2 out of 3 adulterers have a happy marriage
* British loverats claim  ‘An affair improved my marriage’ 
* A cheating husband or wife would be heartbroken if their spouse was also unfaithful – and would be unlikely to forgive them
*Results from a survey of 800 adulterers from the UK’s leading married dating site IllicitEncounters.com

Unhappy people cheat – wrong! Infidelity strikes in happy marriages. 

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, surveyed 800 people currently having an affair to discover what led them to cheat in the first place and the results will shock you. 

Turns out that a marriage does not have to be a trainwreck for cheating to be prevalent as 67% of men and women admit they are actually happy in their marriages. 

77% of the respondents claim an affair has even improved their marriage.

79% of those polled said they would never consider leaving their partner even if they met somebody they really liked.

94% of people currently cheating on their spouse would feel heartbroken if they discovered their husband or wife was also cheating on them, and a whopping 82% said they could not forgive the transgression. 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, said ‘I’m not entirely shocked that happy people cheat, if you’re unhappy your mind is elsewhere – there’s no way you could compartmentalise an affair. People in unhappy marriages usually lack confidence, they can be stressed and depressed – not really first date material. 

Often our members come from happy homes where the spark may have gone out – they still get on with their husbands or wives and enjoy their marital lives. Adulterers don’t want to leave their partners, they just want some extra spice and adventure in their lives.’

Members of IllicitEncounters.com speak out below: 

Natalie, 40, Sussex

‘My husband and I have built the perfect life together. I adore my husband. He is good-looking, successful, a great father – and totally devoted to our family. Jack’s the polar opposite, he keeps me on my toes. He’s flirty, cheeky and kinky. At home I have love, safety and stability. With Jack I have lust, adventure and spontaneity. I think it’s natural for us to be curious and crave variety. Jack is my lover, nothing more, he is not husband material. I wouldn’t trade my husband for the world.’

Jamie, 55, Manchester

‘Me and my wife get on really well, we have a strong connection and lots in common, the same morals and values – well, besides my affair, which if she found out would destroy her. I have had a number of affairs over the years because our sex life is non existent. We still sleep in the same bed, kiss, cuddle. It’s rare it goes any further than that. I’m fit and healthy and I’m not ready to give up on sex.’
 

Results:

Are you happy in your marriage?

67% Yes
33% No

Has an affair improved your marriage?

77% Yes
23% No

If you met somebody you really liked – would you ever consider leaving your spouse?

21% Yes
79% No

Would you be heartbroken if you discovered your spouse was cheating on you?

94% Yes
6% No

Would you forgive your spouse if you discovered that they were unfaithful?

18% Yes
82% No

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr

Username: pr
Password: openthel0ck4me

About the research

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: [email protected]

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Don’t get mad, get even – how a third of women cheat in revenge after their partner strayed previously, according to a new survey

The key findings

* A quarter of men ‘revenge cheat’ after discovering their lover has been unfaithful;

* The vast majority of revenge cheaters (82%) feel justified in having an affair to ‘get their own back’ on lover’s betrayal;

* Big rise in revenge cheating since the end of lockdown as new freedoms spark a surge in affairs;

* Results are from a new survey of 2,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading affairs site

A third of women cheat in revenge after their partners previously strayed, according to a new survey

Slightly fewer men (26%) also ‘revenge cheat’ to get their own back from an earlier betrayal.

The vast majority of revenge cheaters (72%) said they felt justified in having an affair because their partner erred first.

More men (54%) than women (48%) are likely to own up to a revenge affair to show their partner the error of their ways.

The most common way that people revenge cheat is through meeting a new partner on a dating website or app, chosen by 42% of respondents, followed sleeping with a former lover or friend (28%), contact through social media (12%), a work romance (10%) and a pick-up at a bar or club (8%).

There has been a 12% rise in revenge cheating since the end of lockdown as the new freedoms sparking a surge in affairs. The results are revealed in a new survey of 2,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading affairs site.

Being caught did not stop 44% of cheats from carrying on seeing a lover, despite telling their partner the affair was over.

The survey found that less than a quarter of people (23%) end their relationship after discovering an affair.

Far more (30%) stay with their partner and then get their revenge by having an affair of their own.

The survey found that a third of couples (32%) used lockdown to make a fresh start while stuck at home together for 18 months.

That involved confessing to a past fling for 13% of women and 10% of men.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

IllicitiEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said: “Revenge cheating has never been more popular.

“More people are taking the view: don’t get mad, get even, and concluding that the best way to get over an affair is not by being a doormat and accepting it but by getting out there and avenging it.

“The last two months have seen a surge in revenge cheating as people who have discovered past betrayals during lockdown and used the new freedoms to get their own back.”

IllicitEncounters has enjoyed its busiest month for new registrations in a decade as unhappy spouses use the end of lockdown to have some fun.

Another factor in the surge has been Health Secretary Matt Hancock’s affair, with men in particular encouraged by him cheating on his wife to seek a new relationship.

Every day around 30,000 people are having an affair on IllicitEncounters and more than a million people have registered with the site since it was launched 18 years ago.

Top 5 ways people revenge cheat

1 Seeking new partner on a dating site or app

2 With a former lover or friend

3 Connecting with a new partner through social media

4 Work romance

5 Pick-up in pub or club

Case Study

“Sex with the ex was even better the second time round:” rampant bar manager Chloe bedded the boy she lost her virginity to 15 years later

* The randy pair were reunited after meeting on IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading affairs site

A rampant bar manager has told how she bedded the boy she lost her virginity to 15 years later – after they were reunited on a cheating site.

Chloe, 30, from Stevenage, Herts, was keen to have an affair after the sex in her long-term relationship went stale after the birth of her two sons.

And she was stunned when she went looking for a ‘bit on the side’ on IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading affairs site, to discover her first love Paul, 31, was also trying to cheat at the same time.

Chloe said: “I messaged him immediately and said: ‘Fancy seeing you here! What a small world.’

“He got back to me in minutes and within an hour we were arranging to meet up at a hotel for sex.

“We were both curious to see how we had each changed and whether the sex would be as good the second time around.

“Well, I can confirm that it was even better – we had both learned a few new tricks since we were at school!

“It was great seeing Paul again after all these years and we slept together a few more times after that first encounter but we split up the first time for a good reason and we knew we didn’t want to leave our partners for each other.

“Having an affair was much more fun and had no consequences for our partners and our children.”

Chloe had settled down with security manager Ian, 34, the man she dated after splitting with Paul.

She said: “Paul was my first love and we fell in love at school and were both virgins when we first made love.

“After that, we were rampant for the next two years and I had the best sex of my life with him.

“We split up after leaving school when Paul went to university and I pursued a new career working in pubs and clubs.

“Paul moved abroad and I thought I would never see him again.

“I met Ian and decided to have a family.”

Everything was fine with Ian for ten years before things got boring after they started a family.

Chloe said: “The relationship became a bit of a slog and we both stopped making the effort.

“Ian put on weight and I stopped fancying him. I didn’t want to split up the family but I did want the excitement of a new relationship.

“I went on IllicitEncounters the first time a couple of years ago and ended up having a year long affair with an insurance manager.

“He was stuck in a sexless marriage, too, and we had a lot of fun.

“I took a bit of break when we split up and Covid happened and then went back on the site to discover Paul was back in the UK and looking to cheat.

“Since we split up the second time, I have been seeing another man who works in IT. It suits me to have affairs and not get heavy with anyone.”

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr


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Brits Vote on the World’s Sexiest Foreign Accents 

The key findings

* Britain votes French the sexiest female foreign accent in the world for women and Italian for men

* 5 out of 6 Brits think an accent makes someone more (or less!) attractive

* More than half of us have broken up with someone we fancied just because we didn’t like their accent

* The results come as part of a survey of 1200 people on lllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

You’ve probably heard of love at first sight, but what about love at first sound? Turns out a person’s voice can be a massive turn on as Brits find some accents more attractive than others.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, polled 1200 men and women to discover Britain’s favourite foreign accents. Sex and relationships expert for the website, Jessica Leoni has compiled and commented on the results below:

83% of the respondents agreed that a person’s accent can make them more or less attractive.

The saying ‘you were so attractive until you opened your mouth’ – rings true when it comes to accents. As a whopping 53% of men and women have actually broken up with someone they fancied because they did not like their accent.

40% of people have consciously toned down their accent when dating. 

In first place for sexiest female foreign accents, as voted by men, is the ‘language of love’ French with 26% of the vote – très bien. Everything about the French exudes romance – the dialect has that mysterious je ne se quois that leave men falling into hopeless devotion. Take famous actress Léa Seydoux for example – set to return to the screens as Madeleine Swann a love interest of Mr. Bond, James Bond – Léa Seydoux french accent is absolutely mesmerising. 

Spanish comes in close second sexiest female foreign accent (23%), such as the award-winning Spanish actress Penelope Cruz, and actress Úrsula Corberó best known for her role in Money Heist as Tokyo.

Third place goes to Poland (13%), with Polish being the highest non-British population residing in the UK it comes as no surprise they would fare well.

Fourth place goes to Italian with 11%, fifth place is Dutch (8%) and sixth place is German (6%).

Second to last is Swedish in seventh place (4%)  and Irish eighth and last place (2%).

In the men’s category, Italy scores yet again following their euro victory, British women found Italian to be the number one most desirable accent on a man with 24% of the vote. There is a plethora of famous Italian men, from designer Giorgio Armani, to footballers Andrea Pirlo or Gianluigi Donnarumma – the list goes on, even Italian names sound sexy on the tongue. 

Second sexiest male accent is Spanish (20%). Famous Spanish men include actors Miguel Silvestre, famed for his portrayal of villain Franklin Jurado in Narcos, or Alvaro Morte, El Professor, in Money Heist.

Irish comes in third place for sexiest male accents (12%) – such as the likes of actors Liam Neelson, Cillian Murphy and Colin Farrel. 

Fourth place sexiest male accent is Canadian (11%), followed by South African in fifth overall place (9%).

French is dethroned as the language of love for men coming in 6th place (7%). Famous male French celebrities include actor Vincent Cassel or footballer Kylian Mbappé.

Seventh place goes to Greek (6%), second to last is Portuguese in seventh place (5%)  and lastly Australian in eighth overall sexiest male accents (2%). 

Results

Women Sexiest Foreign Accents

French 26%
Spanish 23%

Polish 13%

Italian 11%

Dutch 8%

German 6%

Swedish 4%

Irish 2%

Other 7%

Men Sexiest Foreign Accents

Italian 24%

Spanish 20%

Irish 12%

Canadian 11%

South African 9%

French 7%

Greek 6%

Portuguese 5%

Australian 2%

Other 4%

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr


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You’re Caught! Top 10 Apps that Bust Affairs

The key findings

* Wives catch husbands cheating on Whatsapp more than any other app
* Apple users are in second place – being busted via iMessage
* Third and fourth most popular apps to catch a male loverat are Facebook and Instagram
* Less cheats are caught via Skype than any other app – making Skype the safest for sneaky liaisons!
* Survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extramarital dating site

Has your husband got a phone addiction or are they being unfaithful?


IllicitEncounters.com surveyed 600 of its female members who have previously caught their husbands cheating on apps.

Turns out you’re most likely to get caught cheating via Whatsapp (20%), followed by iMessage (17%) and Facebook (15%).

The safest app for sneaky liaisons is Skype as only 0.5% of affairs have been busted via Skype!

Whatsapp

Whatsapp may seem like a good place to have illicit chats – keeping conversations segregated from your normal mobile text messages, however a whopping 20% of women have caught their partner cheating this way. If you don’t securely password protect your phone or switch off notifications and hide your apps – a quick Whatsapp stalk and any naughty messages can easily be discovered.

iMessage

Apple users beware – the second biggest app to bust affairs is the iPhone’s iMessage app – which is often linked to multiple devices such as iPads, MacBooks or even an Apple tv. Apple fans need to take note of where their messages are going to – and how easily these can be accessed. 17% of women have caught their partners cheating via iMessage.

Facebook

Facebook is a minefield for infidelity, with 15% of women catching their husbands out via Facebook. Leaving your Facebook logged in and unattended can be a grave mistake around suspicious partners. Disclaimer – login details automatically save onto the Facebook messenger app – so unless you delete your messenger account from a suspecting partner’s handset – they can easily switch between their own account and yours.

This type of infidelity is opportunistic and convenient – and more often than not is with somebody you already know. 64% of women who caught their partners cheating on Facebook admitted to personally knowing their husband’s lover.

Instagram

Adultery on instagram is ripe, with 12.5% getting caught this way. Not only is it easy to spot when your partner has been liking other women’s pictures, it has an inbuilt chat interface that can get you in trouble.

Gmail

Adulterers might think they’re being discreet when pinging emails back and forth with their lovers – but unless their notifications are switched off a wife might spot a sexy message over her husband’s shoulder if she’s in the right place at the right time. A whopping 10% of love affairs have been busted by popular email app Gmail!

Tinder

Tinder is the obvious app to catch a cheat, with 7.5% of affairs being busted by Tinder – having this app on your phone when you’re in a committed relationship is a cause for concern. Perhaps a smaller number of people get caught this way because they hide the app well in secret folders and have good password security on their phones.

Snapchat

Messages on snapchat may seem discrete, one minute they are there, next minute they are gone! Snapchat allows users to send pictures or videos which once viewed will self-destruct and disappear off your phone forever – that is, unless you screen grab them. Some husbands just can’t help themselves, and several wives have found shots of ladies on their phones from snapchat.

Snapchat also has a snap maps feature that can track your partners location, another sure fire way to catch them cheating. You can even check who your partner has been snapchatting with the most with friends’ emojis – if it’s regularly with an unfamiliar lady this is sure to set off alarm bells. 5.5% of affairs have been busted by snapchat.

Kik

Kik is the favourite app for adultery, a previous study on IllicitEncounters.com confirmed that over half of users (57%) have downloaded Kik to chat to their lovers. Surprisingly only 4% of men have been caught cheating on Kik by their wives.

Find my friends

Find my friends is a tracking app – used to easily locate your friends or family. A favourite for parents wanting to keep tabs on their teenage kids, it’s also one of the top apps for finding cheating husbands. 2% of men have actually been caught in the act this way.

Skype

A very small number of philanderers have had their love affairs exposed via Skype (0.5%). A popular video and chat app – Skype also allows you to disguise your phone number by giving you the option of changing the digits – meaning calls to an illicit lover are also harder to track down.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

IllicitEncounters.com sex and relationships expert Jessica Leoni said “Every Tom, Dick or Harry is on Whatsapp – just because it isn’t your mobile devices inbuilt messaging app does not mean it’s top secret Sherlock!

Apple users need also to be extra careful when chatting to their mistress via iMessage – messages can show up on multiple devices – which really puts you in the danger zone. 

The killer reason men are getting caught out cheating is due to notifications being switched on. Just switch them off lads! Be more discreet, password protect or hide apps and use aliases for your lovers instead of their real names.

If you want to have an affair it’s also best to just keep it off social media – friending your lover online is a sure fire way to getting caught.”

Percentage of Affairs Busted by Apps

Whatsapp 20%

iMessage 17%

Facebook 15%

Instagram 12.5%

Gmail 10%

Tinder 7.5%

Snapchat 5.5%

Kik 4%

Find my friends 2%

Skype 0.5%

Other 6%

It’s Frisky Friday – Peak Day of the Year for Affairs!

The key findings

*Peak day for affairs is Frisky Friday (23rd of July) – as bored mums and dads cheat one last time before school’s out for summer! 

* Affairs are ripe when the weather is hot – as more people cheat in the warmer months of the year

* More adulterers look to cheat in the first three weeks of July than any other time of the year

* Second most popular month for affairs is June

* Other peaks are in September and January as loverats return to their lovers after long holidays with their family

Sunshine is a recipe for adultery. Brits cheat more when the weather is hot!

The peak day for affairs is today (Friday, 23rd July) as the schools break up for the summer holidays, according to a new study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people.

The whole week before the big summer getaway is the busiest of the year for extra-marital activity. 

It reaches its peak on ‘Frisky Friday’ with adulterers eager to cheat one last time before school’s out for summer!

The first two weeks of July saw a 32% increase in activity, increasing significantly to 67% by week three. The affairs site predicts a 75% overall rise on Frisky Friday, the most popular day of the year for affairs.

July is the top cheating month of the year followed by June. Other peaks are in September and January as loverats return to their illicit activities after holidays with their families. 

Cassandra, 32, Margate ‘We’ve been locked in our homes for far too long and it’s been tough coming up with excuses to have an affair. I’ve had more fun in the last fortnight dating married men than I have all year. Are people more aroused in the summer? I think so, yes. People seek out romance in the summer whether they’re single or married.’

James, 50, Manchester ‘The woman I’m seeing, aside from my wife, I met in January this year. We were suffocated at home over the winter with all the restrictions and it’s been nothing but relief since we met. Our affair is just for us and we’re good at disassociating it from ‘real life’. We’ve decided to have a break over the school holidays though to focus on our partners and kids. We’re meeting up one last time for lunch this Friday and I’m really looking forward to it.’

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com said ‘Let’s face it, everybody gets the holiday horn. Not only are people much more cheerful when the sun’s out, they’re sun kissed and show off a bit more skin – it’s the ideal time for romance. It’s been a crazy busy July for affairs as expected – even more so with less restrictions and freedom day giving people the confidence to date again. Everybody just wants to have a bit of fun and those in unhappy marriages are no different. 

We all want to feel valued and admired – so why shouldn’t adulterers get their last kicks this Friday before sacrificing the rest of the summer to their families. At least their priorities are straight.’

Top months for cheating

1. July

2. June

3. September

4. January

5. May

6. August  

7. March

8. February

9. October

10. December

11. November 

12. April

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr


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The Itty Bitty Cheating Titty Committee – Women with Smaller Breasts Cheat!

The key findings

* More than half of women who cheat have a cup size between AA and C
* B Cup is the most common bust size of a cheat – with 32B the most popular of the B’s 
* Adulterous women buy sexy lingerie for their lovers not their husbands
* Female loverats vote Marks & Spencer top choice shop for illicit lingerie 
* Results from a survey of 800 affair seeking ladies from leading married dating site IllicitEncounters.com

Know your ABC’s when it comes to cup sizes? It may help you spot a loverat! 

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, surveyed 800 of its female members to discover a few eye-opening facts about cheating and the size of a woman’s bosom.

The results found that over half (52%) of female loverats have bra size between AA and C cups – making women with smaller breasts more likely to cheat compared to their faithful counterparts or rather bigger busted ladies.

The number one cup size of an adulterer is a B cup with a whopping 27% of women claiming to be a size B – with 32B being the most popular.

Famous celebrities with cup size 32B who have had affairs include Kristen Stewart (32B) and Sienna Miller (32B). Other famous celebrity cheats with a smaller bust size include Meg Ryan (34A) and Amanda Holden (32C).

Husbands beware if your wife buys sexy underwear! The results also found that out of the 800 women surveyed only 11% buy sexy lingerie to wear for their husbands however an enormous 73% have bought lingerie to impress their affair-partner.

Marks and Spencer has been voted the number one place British cheats buy sexy underwear (37%) followed by Ann Summers (23%) and Victoria’s Secret (18%). 

Yasmin, 40, London, a member using IllicitEncounters.com said ‘Since starting an affair 6 months ago I’ve lost a ton of weight and I’ve never felt sexier. I regularly buy lingerie when I’m doing a food shop in Marks and Spencers and love to get dressed up for some steamy sessions with my lover. My husband doesn’t realise the purchases are for underwear on our joint account as it just shows up as Marks and Spencers – I just tell him I had to restock on detergent or wine.’

Another member, Georgina, 55, Liverpool, said ‘My lover has always said I have incredible breasts, more than a handful is a waste he says. I’ve been on diets all my life to remain petite. Small and slender was really popular in the 90s and that’s the kind of look I go for.’

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, said ‘32B or not a B? That is the question! Turns out a small bust size can get you busted, whereas knockers won’t get you nicked! 

Of course affair-seekers aren’t getting sexy for their husbands – it’s their husbands who have made them lose confidence over time by taking them for granted. Women all over are reclaiming their sexual prowess by getting dressed up for their lovers. 

Why do cheats shop for lingerie at Marks and Sparks? It’s pretty obvious isn’t it? A woman juggling a household and a lover simply doesn’t have the time to shop around. Kill two birds with one stone by doing food and lingerie shopping at the same time. It’s also a great way to not raise any questions from suspecting husbands!’

Results

What is your cup size?

Cup Sizes AA – 1%

Cup Sizes A – 7%

Cup Sizes B – 27%

Cup Sizes C – 17%

Cup Sizes D – 12%

Cup Sizes DD – 19%

Cup Sizes E – 5%

Cup Sizes F 3%

Cup Sizes FF 2%

Cup Sizes G 3%

Cup Sizes GG and over 4%

Do you buy sexy lingerie for your husband?

11% Yes

89% No

Do you buy sexy lingerie for your lover?

73% Yes

27% No

Where do you buy your lingerie from?

Marks and Spencer 37%

Ann Summers 23%

Victoria’s Secrets 18%

Agent Provocateur 7%

Boux Avenue 6%

Other 9%

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Check out what our users are saying to each other in our live Lockdown Forum: www.illicitencounters.com/lockdown/pr


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Password: openthel0ck4me

About the research

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: [email protected]

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer