Chelsea SCORES ahead of the FA Cup Final Vs Liverpool as the Sexier Football Team!

The key findings

*Chelsea’s Édouard Mendy wins top 10 sexiest football player out of the Chelsea and Liverpool teams ahead of the FA CUP final

* Second sexiest is Liverpool’s Mohamed Salah followed by Chelsea’s Jorginho
* Chelsea is the overall sexier team in the top 10

* 2 out of 3 people think Liverpool manager Jürgen Klopp is sexier than Chelsea manager Thomas Tuchel

* Poll comes from 1200 female members on IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading married dating site 

In advance of the FA Cup final match this weekend between Liverpool and Chelsea, IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, polled 1200 female members to determine who the nation finds the sexiest out of the players from the Liverpool and Chelsea football teams.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni, has compiled and commented on the results below:

Chelsea’s goalkeeper, Édouard Mendy, comes in first place with 17% of the vote. Mendy’s is the story of the underdog, who went from nearly quitting football and having to go on the dole, all whilst expecting his first child, to being at the top of his game. His rise to football stardom is admirable. Tall, dark and handsome, paired with a sexy french accent – no wonder Brits are entranced by Édouard Mendy.

A close second with 16% of the vote is Liverpool’s Mohamed Salah. Salah is undeniably sexy, the beard, the hair, abs so firm you could literally grate cheese off – graphic but accurate. Indeed, Brits are besotted by this Egyptian God.

In third place (13%) is Chelsea’s Jorginho, whose real name is Jorge Luis Frello Filho. Last year Jorginho won the award for Best Fifa Men’s Player and the UEFA Player of the Year. This young, gorgeous Italian stallion has stolen England’s hearts with his undeniable football skills, along with his chiseled physique and cheeky smile. 

Fourth place is Liverpool’s Andrew Robertson (11%).

Fifth, sixth, seventh, and eighth, are all Chelsea players – Timo Werner (9%), Kai Havertz (8.5%), Reece James (6.5%) and Mason Mount (6%).

Second, to last is Liverpool’s Alisson Becker with 4%. Last place and tenth is the Liverpool player Trent Alexander Arnold (2%). 

The respondents were also asked to vote on the sexiest manager from each team. A whopping 68% voted Liverpool’s Jürgen Klopp sexy compared to only 32% voting for Chelsea’s Thomas Tuschel. 

Jürgen Klopp is a grey-haired German hunk who looks strong and manly, a force to be reckoned with, top this off with a sexy pair of specs and the man exudes intelligence and confidence. 

Thomas Tuchel, also German, on the other hand, is just not that sexy. How can the nation be a fan when his own team hates him for ruining their day off recently – he gives me strict teacher vibes putting Chelsea in detention like that!

Top 10 Sexiest Men 

Édouard Mendy – Chelsea – 17%
Mohamed Salah – Liverpool – 16%

Jorge ‘Jorginho’ Luiz Frello Filho – Chelsea – 13%

Andrew Roberston – Liverpool 11%

Timo Werner – Chelsea- 9%

Kai Havertz – Chelsea – 8.5%

Reece James – Chelsea  – 6.5%

Mason Mount – Chelsea – 6%

Alisson Becker – Liverpool 4%

Trent Alexander Arnold – Liverpool 2%

Other 7%

Who’s the sexier manager?

Jürgen Klopp – Liverpool – 68%

Thomas Tuchel – Chelsea – 32%

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Brits Vote on the World’s Sexiest Accents

The key findings

* Britain votes French as the sexiest female accent in the world, followed by Italian and Norwegian

* Sexiest male accent goes to the Irish, followed by South African and French

* 81% of people agree that accents play a major part in a person’s datability

* The results come as part of a survey of 2000 people on lllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

Have you ever found someone sexy until… they opened their mouth? We’ve all been there. Attraction isn’t just based on looks and Brits get turned on by an accent.

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, surveyed 2000 members to find the foxiest twang in the world for vocal chord victory. 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Sex and relationships expert for the website, Jessica Leoni, has compiled and commented on the results below:

81% of people agree that accents play a major part in a person’s datability, but what accent is the sexiest? 

Parlez-vous français? Oui? Très magnifique! French is crowned the language of love with nearly a quarter (24%) of all men finding this to be the sexiest language of them all! The French speak in a breathy and husky tone, with pronunciation that is delivered poetically, it’s enchanting. If that’s not hot, I don’t know what is. Notable French celebrities, whose accents are as seductive as anything, include award-winning actresses Marion Cotillard and Juliette Binoche, as well as the most recent Bond girl Léa Seydoux.

In second place is the irresistible Italian accent with 16% of the vote. Notable Italian celebrities include Sophia Loren, one of the greatest female stars of classical Hollywood Cinema, her accent is so inviting and seductive, even at the grand age of 87. Another prominent Italian fashion model and former Bond girl is Monica Belluci, let’s be honest, if the Italian accent is good enough for James Bond – who are we to argue.

The third place for female accents goes to Norway (13%). Brits are obsessed with Nordic countries since series such as Vikings and The Last Kingdom have boosted their popularity. A Scandinavian accent on a gorgeous blonde and blue-eyed woman gives us those Viking vibes, no wonder men are captivated.

Fourth place goes to Irish accents with 11.5%, fifth to Australian (8.5%), and sixth to Spanish (7%).

Next, in seventh place is the Dutch accent  (6.5%), followed by Portuguese eighth (4%). 

Second, to last place is Scottish (3.5%) and last but not least is American (1%).

In the men’s category, the lucky Irish accent is the sexiest of them all! A whopping 21% of British women find Irish to be the most desirable accent on a man. Such as the likes of actors Liam Neelson, Cillian Murphy and Colin Farrel.

The second sexiest male accent is South African (20%). The South African accent has unique tones, very approachable and friendly, no wonder women are drawn to it. 

Honorable third place goes to men with a French accent (16%) – ooh la, la! French-speaking, french-kissing, Frenchman? Enchanté! Take Emmanuel Macron the French president, for example, love him or hate him, his accent definitely makes the news more riveting. 

The fourth-place sexiest male accent is Scottish with 10.5% of the vote, followed by Canadian in fifth (7%). Italian comes in sixth sexiest accent (5.5%), followed by Welsh in seventh (4%) and New Zealand in eighth (3.5%).

Spanish ranked second to last in ninth place (2.5%) and finally Polish in tenth overall sexiest (2%).

The respondents were also asked if they have ever rejected someone on the basis of their accent and more than half said they have (59%). A further 30% of people admit they’ve been on a date before with someone whom they didn’t understand because of a strong accent.

It’s apparent that accents play a highly critical role in how attractive we find people. It can make or break the beginnings of a romantic rendezvous. If their voice doesn’t feel like music to our ears then listening to them speak could become a massive turn-off. 

Accents which are from a foreign country can be especially seductive. They make your date exude an air of sophistication, and feel exotic and worldly, which is sexy in its own right. 

We as humans are inherently attracted to people who we deem to have lots of ambition and life experience. Somebody who speaks English with a foreign accent gives the impression they have seen the world, they are interesting and they are smart – of course we will find that unbearably sexy. 

Results

Sexiest Female Accents

French 24%

Italian 16%

Norwegian 13%

Irish 11.5%

Australian 8.5%

Spanish 7%

Dutch 6.5%

Portuguese 4%

Scottish 3.5%

American 1%

Other 5%

Sexiest Male Accents

Irish 21%

South African 20%

French 16%

Scottish 10.5%

Canadian 7%

Italian 5.5%

Welsh 4%

New Zealand 3.5%

Spanish 2.5%

Polish 2%

Other 8%

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Hear, Hear, Lawyers, Win the Sexiest Profession of the Year! 

The key findings

* Lawyers have been voted the sexiest profession in annual survey
* Doctors and CEO’s round off the top 3, followed by Builders and Firefighters
* Estate Agents rank last with only 2% of women finding them sexy
* Results come from a study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed 2000 women to discover which male profession is the sexiest in 2022. 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Sex and relationships expert for IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni has compiled and commented on the results below:

Will the defendant please rise – the verdict is… guilty! Lawyers are the sexiest profession of the year. Accounting for a whopping 20% of the vote – women find men in the courtroom the sexiest of them all, case closed. 

What’s up Doc? We’ve run the diagnostics and the results confirm second sexiest profession are the men in white – Doctors – with 18% of the vote. 

CEO’s turn heads with 15% of the vote and in honourable third place.

Can he fix it? Yes, he can! Builders are hot property in fourth sexiest jobs with 12%. 

Turn up the heat!  Firefighters come in fifth sexiest (9.5%). On a primal level, a Firefighter is in every woman’s fantasy. The masculine physique, the muscle and sweat combined with raw unbridled passion… okay, a little carried away there, but what’s not to like?

Women think Footballers are fit, scoring sixth place (7%). It’s plain to see that fame and fortune help with sex appeal.

Teachers score seventh sexiest profession (5%), seems the ladies are up for a little bit of detention, naughty. 

On the less sexy scale are Financial Advisors with only 3% of the vote in eighth place. Economics? Boring. With everything getting more expensive and people are scrimping for cash – seems we’ve all had enough of talking about money. 

999, call the Police! Or don’t for that matter… we’d rather avoid a copper as only 2.5% of women find the five-o sexy. Cops have had a bad rep over the last few years in Britain, with overall confidence in the police dropping year on year since 2017, as reported by the ONS*, it’s clearly had an effect on their desirability. 

In last place with 2% of the vote, it seems Estate Agents are a bit of a turn-off. These notorious charmers often misinterpret the facts to get a quick sale, and with rent and house prices continuing to go up it’s no wonder we’re not the biggest fans of these smooth-talking salesmen. 

It’s not just ripped, topless men that make the cut, attraction is so much more than that. Sure the physical is important, but women want more than a hunk – and this list makes that fact indisputable.

Lawyers and Doctors coming out on top suggest it takes more than a beefcake to turn a woman on. Confidence, intelligence, philanthropy, and wealth – are more important qualities that make up a man’s sex appeal, and what men do for work speaks volumes.

Results

Sexiest Professions 2022

Lawyer 20%

Doctor 18%

CEO 15%

Builder 12%

Firefighter 9.5%

Footballer 7%

Teacher 5%

Financial Advisor 3%

Policeman 2.5%

Estate Agent 2%

Other 6%

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

The Grass isn’t Greener: Married Men Cheat with Exes and Regret Splitting Up!

The key findings

* 34% of married men regret breaking up with their ex!

* ‘I miss them’ number one reason for cheating with an ex-missus, followed by the claim that the sex is better and it’s an easy lay!

* 24% of male love-rats have cheated on their current spouse with an ex

* Results are from a new survey of 800 men by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

The grass is always greener on the other side… not!

The USA celebrates National Ex-Spouse Day tomorrow (Thursday, April 14th), would you believe it? In jest of this farcical holiday, IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading website for extramarital affairs, surveyed 800 married men (married in the last 3 years) who have supposedly moved on, to find out what they truly think about their exes! Do men who are cheating on their wives cheat with an ex? Still, miss their ex? Regret breaking up?

It’s every woman’s fear that they won’t live up to their partner’s ex. Turns out you are right to be worried as 34% of adulterous men actually regret splitting up with their ex-partner. With nearly a quarter (24%) admitting to being unfaithful to their current partners with an ex. Over half of those who had not cheated with an ex said they would if they were given half the chance (52%). These stats suggest the doors are never truly closed on an old flame even if you marry somebody else. 

The respondents who had cheated with an ex gave reasons as to what motivated them. The number one reason male love-rats cheat with an ex is that they miss them (39%). The second most popular claim is that the sex is better with their ex than with their current spouse (26%) followed by, it’s an easy lay that requires minimal effort (19%). A further 8% admit to cheating on their partner with an ex as a way of fulfilling a sexual fantasy or kink.

We also asked the respondents if it’s possible to be just friends with an ex and an overwhelming 73% of the adulterous men agree that it is absolutely impossible. 

Furthermore, we asked the men if they were ever caught slipping by calling their current wives by an ex’s name and a staggering 39% said yes! Probably the last thing you want to do if you’re having an affair with your ex.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, said “It’s risky business marrying a man that’s already been in a serious relationship or worse, a divorcee. A man with an ex-missus is a man with baggage and a shocking amount haven’t gotten over their ex. 

Why do men regret breaking up with their exes? Perhaps it’s taken marrying someone else to find the grass only looked greener from the other side. 

Either way, it’s easy to slip under the covers with an ex when things aren’t going so well at home, old habits. They know to satisfy you, how to push the right buttons.

If both parties are game it can be a very safe and fulfilling affair, but if one person wants to get back together then you’re treading dangerous territory. Oh and be careful to not call your spouse by your ex’s name, especially when having sex, that’s a big no-no!”

Case Study

Pete, 43, London

‘My ex Georgie and I were never a good match. We fought constantly, couldn’t agree on a damn thing. I was happy with my new wife Sam for a time. We’re more compatible, but the chemistry isn’t there the same way it was with Georgie.

Six months ago I hooked up with Georgie. We bumped into each other at a mutual friends’ and one thing led to another. It’s happened a handful of times since. We have fantastic sex and I miss her very much. I hate that it’s so good. We’re like magnets that are drawn to each other. I do sometimes wonder about getting back together.’

Top reasons for cheating with an ex

I miss them 39%

The sex is better than with my current partner 26%

It’s minimal effort/easy to rekindle sex with an ex 19%

It’s a sexual fantasy/kink cheating with an ex 8%

Other 8%

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986

Twitter: @cheatsafer

You’re more likely to be a love rat if you own a cat!

The key findings

*  Women who own cats are the most likely to cheat!
* The second most adulterous pet parents have fish at home
* Those that own dogs are the most loyal
* Study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people in search of affairs


Turns out dogs are man’s best friend, as women who own cats are nearly twice as likely to stray!

A recent survey of 1400 female members of IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating site for married people, has shown the link between pet ownership and infidelity. 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert for IllicitEncounters.com, has compiled and commented on the results below:

It may be an idea to vet what pet your partner owns to avoid being cheated on! 

The cat is out of the bag. Feline friends are the most unfaithful bunch with a whopping 22% of cat owners cheating on their husbands compared to any other pet parent, be warned.

And if you think something fishy is going on when your wives aren’t at home you’re probably right. The second most unfaithful pet parents are women who own fish (19%).

Female love rats that own rodents such as guinea pigs, rats and hamsters, come in third place with 16.5%.

You would be forgiven if you took your wife for a snake, as many as 15% of cold-blooded adulteress’ own reptiles such as snakes, geckos, turtles and lizards. 

Chicks who cheat that own birds at home make up 13.5% of pet parents. 

Last but not least are dog owners (12%). A woman with a canine companion is least likely to stray out of all the pet parents. The beloved pooch is renowned for its loyalty and so it seems are their doggy mums. Oh yes, you’ve been a very, very good boy Fido.

These days you need to beg the question, when dating, are you a dog or a cat lady?


Case Study

Camilla, 42, Turbridge Wells

Cat owner using IllicitEncounters.com said:

“We’ve always owned cats. I couldn’t deal with a dog they’re too high maintenance. Cats are independent and easy to take care of – does that leave more time for an affair? In a way, I suppose it does. I am a freedom seeker – I cannot stand feeling suffocated.

It’s not that I don’t love my husband but I sometimes feel trapped. Having a lover and secret life gives me that adrenaline buzz I need to feel alive.

I guess me and my cat have that in common – a life outside of the house that nobody knows about”

Results

Cats 22%
Fish 19%
Rodents 16.5%
Reptiles 15%
Birds 13.5%
Dogs 12%
Other 2%

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.
 

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Mobile: 07824 353986
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Does he drink Tetley? He’s having an affair!

The key findings

* 2 out of 3 affair-seeking men prefer tea over coffee
* Tetley is beloved by men who betray their wives 
* Men that love a Scottish Blend brew are the most faithful in Britain
* A quarter of men actually prefer sober dates that involve zero alcohol! 
* The results come from a brand new survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people


Beware of a man that drinks tea instead of coffee – he may be cheating on you! 

IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed 1000 members to discover the top brew drunk by unfaithful men. 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Sex and relationships expert for IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni has compiled and commented on the results below:

You can now spot a cheat by a hot mug of tea as 66% of male love rats prefer tea over coffee.

Affair-seekers are in favour of Tetley over any other brand of tea (23%), making Tetley the number one cuppa for cheating British men! Perhaps they should change their ad campaign to ‘For the love of extramarital affairs, for the love of Tetley!’

Second place goes to the quintessentially English tea Twinnings (21%). Holder of a royal warrant – which means that this tea supplies her majesty Queen Elizabeth and those that dwell at Buckingham palace. History is rife with scandalous No surprise there then! Royal romances and sordid affairs go hand in hand – all the way from Henry VIII to Prince Charles. 

Affair seekers don’t monkey around when it comes to a hot cuppa PG Tips – coming in at a respectable third (16%) favourite tea! 

Fourth place goes to Pukka tea (8%), followed by Typhoo (6.5%) in fifth and Lipton (4%) in sixth.

Seventh and eighth place go to Clipper (2.5%) and Whittards (2%) – both on the rather low end of preferences.

Last but not least, a partner that drinks Scottish Blend tea is the most likely to be faithful out of the top 10, with only a meagre 1% of love rats enjoying this Scottish brew.

26% of the men surveyed said they actually much preferred going on dates that involve no alcohol. Out of these 90% said not drinking meant they won’t have any beer goggles and 67% said not drinking meant they wouldn’t make a fool out of themselves. 

The great English musician Sting, known to have had an affair on his ex-wife Frances Tomelty with actress Trudie Styler, once sung the lyrics ‘‘I don’t drink coffee I drink tea, my dear…’, let’s just leave that one there. The proof is in the Tetley!’

Favourite Tea

Tetley 23%
Twinings 21%
PG Tips 16%
Yorkshire 12.5%
Pukka 8%
Typhoo 6.5%
Lipton 4%
Clipper 2.5%
Whittards 2%
Scottish Blend 1%
Other 3.5%

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.
 

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Mobile: 07824 353986
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Meat Eaters are Selfish Lovers, whilst Vegans have the most Sex!

The key findings

* Meat-eaters have the least amount of sex and are selfish in bed

* Vegans get down and dirty way more than meat-eaters, pescatarians, or vegetarians, not only that – they’re the most satisfied in their sex lives!

* Study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading dating site for married people

IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s leading dating site for married people polled 1200 members (married in the last five years) split equally by meat-eaters, pescatarians, vegans and vegetarians on their bedroom antics to ascertain whether there is a correlation between the things that we eat and the sex that we have. 

The study found that meat-eaters have the least amount of sex compared to their fish and veggie-eating counterparts, with the majority of meat-eaters (51%) getting down and dirty only 1-2 times a week. Famous meat-eaters include Rihanna, Megan Fox, Angelina Jolie, Channing Tatum and Matthew McConaughey.

The majority of pescatarians (39%) and vegetarians (43%) tied on how often they enjoy the act of love, with the bulk of each attesting to having sex 3-4 times a week.

Vegans are the raunchiest lot with a whopping 36% claiming they have sex 5-6 times a week. Famous vegans include Ariana Grande, Brad Pitt, Russel Brand and Miley Cyrus. 

A gleeful 81% of vegans reported that they are very satisfied in their sex lives, compared to a miserable 57% of meat-eaters. 

Vegetarians were pretty happy too with 77% saying they are very satisfied with their sex lives. 

Pescatarians were somewhere in between meat-eaters and vegans with an honorable 68% very satisfied.

Vegans (63%), vegetarians (55%) and pescatarians (51%) claim they are givers in bed rather than takers, only 41% of meat-eaters describe themselves as givers – suggesting that meat-eaters are selfish in bed.

The respondents were also asked how adventurous they thought they were in sack on a scale of 1 to 10. 1 being vanilla and not wanting to try out new things in bed and 10 being extremely adventurous, open to new experiences and kink! 

Vegetarians are by far the most adventurous scoring on average 8 out of 10 on the kink-o-metre. Joint second are pescatarians and vegans scoring a 6 on average. Lastly are the meat-eaters, who only saw themselves as medium kinky with 5 on average for bedroom adventurousness.

Katie, 50, Devon said “If you eat crap you’re going to have rotten sex, really. You are what you eat and ain’t nobody is interested in sleeping with someone who lives off quarter pounders and sausage rolls!”

Georgette, 31, London said “I didn’t have a very high sex drive when I still ate meat. I quit 2 years ago and not only do I want to have sex more but I actually enjoy it better. I don’t feel so heavy, I like my body and I have tons more energy.’ 

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com said “Plant-based eaters might scorn one sausage over another, wink wink, but they do indeed make the best lovers and have the most sex!

Our relationship with food has been pivotal to our sex lives since the dawn of time. Food affects our libido, stamina and perhaps even what type of hanky panky we choose to have. 

We’ve all been there – out with our partner enjoying a mixed grill platter, wagyu beef, mutton chops, you name it. You get home and you’re getting hot and sweaty for all the wrong reasons. Sex is the last thing on anybody’s mind. Probably why meat-eaters are selfish in bed – the food coma means all their capable of is receiving pleasure rather than giving it!”

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.
 

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986
 

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You’re more likely to get DUMPED today than any other day of the year! 

The key findings

* The Tuesday before Valentine’s day is the day you’re most likely to get dumped – compared to any other day of the year!

* 38% of people have broken up with their partner in the week leading up to Valentine’s Day

* The most popular day to get dumped is Red Tuesday!

* The number one most popular way to dump someone is by text
* Results come from a new survey by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

You’ve been warned! More couples split in the week leading up to Valentine’s day than any other day of the year with Red Tuesday (Tuesday 8th February) the most popular day to get dumped. Will your relationship survive?

38% of people have broken up with their significant other in the week leading up to Valentine’s day. With a whopping 46% of those ditching their partners on Red Tuesday. A further 8% have actually called it quits on Valentine’s day itself – savage.

Results come from a new survey of 1800 members of IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

The most popular way to throw in the towel was by text message 30% followed by breaking up in-person 26%. 

Put your phone on do not disturb mode today as the third top method of contact to dump your partner is by calling them 23% 

You only really need 140 characters to break someone’s heart as 14% claim to have ditched their partner via social media.

4% of people didn’t even deliver the news themselves. Opting instead to get a friend or relative to do it on their behalf – don’t shoot the messenger.

Best to avoid the postman today, as 3% of people send a letter to break the news that they no longer want to be together.

Florence, 35, Devon, a member using the site said ‘I think there’s a lot of pressure leading up to the day that makes you question whether you even want to celebrate your relationship, least of all be in it. With it being so early on in a new year I think you start having revelations about each other as early as January and any doubts increase in intensity leading up to February reaching that crescendo a week before.’

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, said ‘Love is in the air! But not for everyone. The lead-up to Valentine’s day can be tense – it’s likely we’ve all either dumped or been dumped this week in the past so a little anxiety today is only natural. It’s better to pull that band-aid quickly than delay hurting someone. You’ve got to be cruel to be kind. As many of us revel in the romance of the week ahead, spare a thought for the hordes of people mending broken hearts today.’

Method of breaking up

Text message 30%
In person 26%

Phone call 23%

Via social media 14%

Through a friend or family member 4%

By post 3%

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.
 

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986
 

Has your partner lost weight? They could be cheating on you!

The key findings

* 62% of married couples feel that a relationship entices them to overeat

* 76% of adulterers believe an affair has helped them lose weight

* In the first 3 months of having an affair – men lose on average 7 pounds and women lose on average 11 pounds
* Research conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading authority on infidelity

Forget the diet – have an affair! Adulterers skip counting calories and cheat their way slim instead.

IllicitEncounters.com surveyed 1200 adulterers (split equally by men and women) and found that weight loss is a sign your partner may be cheating you. 

We’ve all heard of the heartbreak diet, but what about the infidelity diet? 76% of adulterers claim an affair has helped them lose weight. 

62% of married couples felt their relationship was a catalyst for overeating with 59% blaming their partners for encouraging bad food choices. 

70% said feeling comfortable in their relationship made them lose the motivation to diet.

The average amount of weight loss occurring in the first 3 months of cheating for a man is 7 pounds and a woman is 11 pounds.

A plethora of research supports the notion that relationships trigger weight gain. A study by market research firm OnePoll, surveyed 2000 couples and found that the average poll participant gained 17 pounds in the first year of marriage.*

‘I’m going to the gym’ is the top excuse love rats use to cheat on their spouse with a collective 45% of men and women citing this reason as their top alibi to sneak out for secret affairs.** It’s no wonder weight loss comes into play – you can’t expect your partner to believe you’re doing tons of exercise without slimming down a little.

Jenny, 49, Brentford, a member using the site said ‘We both got fat. I blame takeaways and eating out. We egg each other on to eat unhealthy snacks, gosh especially with the kids. You know, we’ve gone through spells of changing our lifestyle but on the whole, I do feel we got fatter since we married.

I started having an affair in August last year and I’ve gone from a size 14 to a size 10. I put it all down to the affair. I wanted to look and feel sexy to impress my date and I had this buzz from all the sneaking around that made me feel more conscious about what I was eating. What’s great actually is it has made my husband notice me. As if he came out of this daze and realised his wife of 15 years is a hot commodity. I’ve stopped cheating now but I wouldn’t hesitate in having an affair again if I needed to shed some pounds.’

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, said ‘Want a monogamous relationship? Expect some fidelity fat to come with the safety and security of chastity. And should your partner be down the gym and getting fit I’d be worried he’s pumping more than just iron.

Married couples get way too comfortable together as time goes on. You’re more likely to cosy up on the sofa with a takeaway on the weekends than go out on the town – so who cares if you don’t fit in that party dress anymore? 

Adulterers are losing weight and having fun. The party doesn’t have to stop when you’re married, just keep the cake and don’t eat it! ’

* 2018 OnePoll Study of 2000 married people on behalf of the weight-loss program Jenny Craig

** 2021 study of 800 members on IllicitEncounters.com

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.
 

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986
 

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Spicy New Year Bucket List

The key findings

* Hotel sex is the number one sexual adventure we’d like to try in 2022

* Phone sex is the least desirable fantasy for both men and women

* Men say yes to sex in public, no to bondage

* Women say no to threesomes, but yes to foreplay

* Survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extra-marital dating site

We’ve heard it all before – lose weight, save more, drink less – it’s the same old resolutions every year.

Rather than focus on the obvious, IllicitEncounters.com put the vote to 1000 of its users with a slightly different kind of poll – what sexy bedroom adventures would they most like to explore in 2022.

500 men and 500 women were questioned on whether they would like to try out any of the following sex-capades in 2022 and here are the results.

The top sexual adventure for men and women to explore in the bedroom is hotel sex, in first place for men with 95%, and second place for women with 81%. A combined total of 88% makes it the top adventure to tick off people’s bucket lists in the upcoming year. 

Close second adventure for men is sex in public with 89% of the vote.

The top sexual adventure for women to explore in the bedroom is foreplay (97%).

Men (28%) and women (17%) would least like to try out phone sex, a stark contrast to a poll conducted pre-pandemic when phone sex was the top sexual fantasy for both men and women (80.5% favoured this bucket list fantasy in January 2020). Perhaps we’ve all had enough of virtual sex over the course of covid and lockdowns. 

Spicy New Year Bucket List

Hotel Sex

Men – 95% said yes

Women – 81% said yes

Booking a hotel to have some romantic adventures with your significant other is the best way to enjoy some one-on-one adult fun. Spending the night getting hot and sweaty in freshly laundered sheets and then ordering room service? It doesn’t get much better than that.

Sex in Public

Men – 89% said yes

Women – 37% said yes

Usually explored in the honeymoon period of a relationship when you simply cannot keep your hands off each other. It’s naughty and risque, not to mention subject to nudity and decency laws – not one for the fainthearted! My recommendation is to find somewhere isolated and discreet for those wanting to try sex in public for the very first time, before you join the expert level mile high club.

Threesome

Men – 88% said yes

Women – 18% said yes

Some may say that three is in fact – the magic number. Inviting a third person into the party can be exhilarating, fun, and full of discoveries. Make sure that you have some boundaries and rules laid out with your partner before giving this one a shot, and if everybody is game, this bucket list must-have guarantees a night of racy fun.

Dress up and Striptease

Men – 86% said yes

Women – 77% said yes

The Full Monty? Yes, please. Dressing up and performing a striptease is going to get anybody’s pulses racing. Invest in some erotic clothing or lingerie and step outside of your comfort zone – not only does playing dress up build your confidence, it’s a sure way to turn your partner on.

Sex in Shower

Men – 80% said yes

Women – 68% said yes

Getting down and dirty while you’re soaking wet is undeniably sexy. Shower sex can be very sensual. Soaping eachother up and touching slippery wet bodies – it’s a fantasy many of us want to fulfill! One word of advice – it’s an idea to invest in a nonslip matt to avoid any accidents,

Foreplay

Men – 79% said yes

Women – 97% said yes

None of this wham, bam, thank you, mam. Foreplay is essential for good sex! Spending more time playing beforehand and getting each other aroused creates anticipation and sexual energy that is bound to make the act of lovemaking a whole lot more satisfying.

Role-play

Men – 60% said yes

Women – 40% said yes

Getting involved in role-play is the ultimate way to express yourself in the bedroom and acting out any adventurous sexual fantasies you may have. Decide on a scenario and roles prior. Play dress-up to make the experience more authentic, think doctors and nurses, coppers and robbers – whatever tickles your fancy.

New Sex Positions

Men – 40% said yes

Women – 65% said yes

Kama Sutra – why not? If you always rely on missionary, mixing it up a little will add so much more to your sex life. It can be very rewarding trying out new stuff – there are some pretty wild positions out there worth giving a shot, that can really bring couples closer together. 

Bondage

Men – 34% said yes

Women – 74% said yes

A great way to explore your kinkier side. It’ll get you communicating better in the bedroom and discovering all sorts of thrilling things you may have not even realised you were into. Rihanna got it right in her S&M track – “sticks and stones may break my bones, but whips and chains excite me.”

Phone sex

Men – 28% said yes

Women – 17% said yes

Nothing beats this old time classic. Imagine a long night ahead of you apart from your lover, what better way to close the distance than a naughty call? Dirty talk is an art, and a timeless sexy adventure. Now you can turn up the heat by switching on the camera too, to add that extra dimension to this fantasy.

Expert comment from Jessica Leoni

IllicitEncounters.com sex and relationship expert Jessica Leoni said “A new year signifies new opportunities and why shouldn’t that extend to our bedroom fantasies. Whether you’re in a stale relationship that needs some extra spice, or single and ready to mingle – giving the sexy New Year bucket list a try this year is a must!”

About the research

NOTES TO EDITOR
IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people and the leading authority on infidelity. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 12 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

We’re always more than happy to talk about IllicitEncounters.com – please contact Christian Grant through the details below – but we’re not willing to speak publicly about SaraHartley.net at this moment in time.
 

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
 

Mobile: 07824 353986
 

Twitter: @cheatsafer