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Tis the season to be jolly....

So I have been seeing someone from IE for a few months now and we have an
emotional connection, as well as fantastic sex. So I have started looking
at my Christmas shopping list and it suddenly dawned on me... Do we do
Christmas presents? 😬

Has anyone had an affair over Christmas and what dis you decide on?

Many thanks x

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Comments (23)

are you for real - 01 Nov, 2019 - 10:22AM

Joke remember them?

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Secondhand Rose - 31 Oct, 2019 - 04:58PM

@ Moriarty

Sounds more like sarcasm, to me.
No wonder she lost interest!

Moriarty - 30 Oct, 2019 - 08:54PM

One lady I knew had a profile which said she was a non-smoker and she drank only a little. I sent her two virtual pesents of an empty cigarette packet and a half-full bottle of Merlot. She did not speak to me again. Sometimes you can't win.

Sandy22567 - 18 Oct, 2019 - 01:29PM

Personally I would just get à cd òf à singer he likes

are you for real - 08 Oct, 2019 - 08:47AM

Ask if it would be questioned at home, I always do gifts at anytime (I say I bought for myself)or that it was a gift from a work client as an extra thank-you. If you can not think of a reason for a gift , how the hell do you manage to make up lies for time away for an affair?

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Temping - 26 Sep, 2019 - 11:03AM

I have always given, and received, gifts at Christmas, birthdays and any other time!
All depends on individuals and also what they can get away with at home.

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Cliff Booth - 25 Sep, 2019 - 01:12PM

They're ribbed for your pleasure .

Lavender Fields - 23 Sep, 2019 - 02:43PM

Just needs to be a small token gift, box of chocolates for example, something you can get away with by saying it was from a work colleague or won in a raffle etc
I once got a special christmas sexy outfit to wear for my IE and he loved it

1332648-Deleted - 22 Sep, 2019 - 11:05AM

If you want to give them a Christmas present that do it. I was fortunate to find a truly amazing lady who I can't see at the moment because of her home situation, but whom I miss every single day. We have always done Christmas presents and still do. Give them something from your heart.

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Hannypenny - 19 Sep, 2019 - 09:47PM

Something small like a nice coffee with a mug and some biscuits that they can have in work and doesn't need to go home.
Book a spa hotel day rate and spend the day together enjoying the facilities and throw in a naked cuddle.
A bottle of their favourite tipple that you can pretend your sharing together while messaging one evening over Xmas.

GoldenJourney - 16 Sep, 2019 - 09:21PM

Home Bargains have their Xmas decorations out now !! Noooooooo.

needmore123 - 14 Sep, 2019 - 03:11PM

I was given a Apple Watch!! Just told wifey i won it in a raffle "wink"

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Borderline847 - 13 Sep, 2019 - 02:18AM

I have never received a present at Christmas but I have given. Nothing really special but something that could be easily explained.

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Secondhand Rose - 12 Sep, 2019 - 01:49PM

We decided to buy one another sexy underpinnings for Christmas, and at our last meeting before "the day" we had great fun wearing them, (and even more, after removing them)...but all good things must come to an end.

Before we left the hotel, everything was carefully placed into a bag, and dropped off, in a safe place.

I would have loved to have seen the expression, on the faces of the Charity Shop volunteers, who unpacked that parcel.

Maybe, (I kinda hope so), someone else got a lot of sexy fun, out of them too!! LOL

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SeekingYou77 - 11 Sep, 2019 - 12:04AM

We both agreed to exchange gifts at Christmas.
Nothing special a small token that can easy be hidden or said it was from co-worker(Secret Santa)

589389-Deleted - 10 Sep, 2019 - 04:55PM

My IE brought me a gift on our first Xmas although we had only been seeing each other a few weeks (it was an Ann Summers basque). We exchanged gifts every xmas (and birthdays) every year afterwards. I would buy him something that I knew he would buy for himself so there was no need for him to explain where it came from.

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SecretSt - 10 Sep, 2019 - 09:18AM

A special Christmas romantic rendez-vous works well; make an extra special effort for each other and give each other extra fuss and attention. Presents, flowers etc... at any time of year can rarely be truly appreciated and enjoyed within the bounds of discretion.

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1328681-Deleted - 10 Sep, 2019 - 07:57AM

If you've ever been a parent, planning for Christmas starts in January ha ha ha

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gemzippy - 09 Sep, 2019 - 08:06PM

I seem to remember this was discussed in a previous letter?

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Foxy_79 - 09 Sep, 2019 - 06:56PM

I think you need to ask or have a discussion I bought a lover a present once (something cheap fun and sexual) and it freaked them out massively , I think it’s a lovely gesture but not everyone agrees .

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Iamgoingsupernova - 09 Sep, 2019 - 06:31PM

Part of the decision needs to factor in how would you explain where the gift came from! Other than that, like everything else in an affair, open and clear communication would be key to coming up with an agreement. Personally, I'd steer clear of it... remember that aunt who got you a terrible Christmas gift and you swore never to talk to her again...! 😂

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Blossom Reborn - 09 Sep, 2019 - 02:11PM

Hear Hear!

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Cuteness73 - 09 Sep, 2019 - 01:06PM

It's September, stop it with the Christmas talk.

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