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When should you end it?

So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.

Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!

Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!

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marklondonengland - 07 Nov, 2023 - 01:49PM

It depends. If you really do just want (and need) the sex then it is quite transactional anyway - finish and go. However, I think that what most people here really want is not just the sex itself, but the excitement and thrill of seeing that someone desires them. Seeing that a lover is excited to be with you is the passion that most here seem to be missing... so if your lover just finishes and then heads to the door it isn't going to work. I think if you reach the point where you no longer make an effort, are no longer excited to see each other, or you are getting too close and had promised to never let it affect a marriage - these are all reasons to end it...


Alexis162 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 10:26PM

It’s just companionship you want and some sex talk rubbish about life then go home no need to be clingy as we both know we need to go back to our lives


Alexis162 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 10:26PM

It’s just companionship you want and some sex talk rubbish about life then go home no need to be clingy as we both know we need to go back to our lives


Alexis162 - 27 Sep, 2023 - 10:26PM

It’s just companionship you want and some sex talk rubbish about life then go home no need to be clingy as we both know we need to go back to our lives


Paula99 - 21 Sep, 2023 - 09:23PM

Letsjusthavefun…

I agree with you in some ways but I don’t think it’s cut and dried as we think 😁


Let'sjusthavefun - 21 Sep, 2023 - 12:16AM

I've seen plenty of profiles saying they don't want to rock the boat in there current marriage or relationship or whatever it maybe.. so when you engage into an affair you both know that it will end at some point 👉 you both know the real reason why we are here is for the Sex and companionship, so why moan when either party gets up and leaves for work commitments harsh as it is this is what we signed up for right..??

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Seeking.something.exciting - 14 Sep, 2023 - 02:17AM

If it’s becoming like the norm then it should definitely end. We’re all on here for the same thing, to find that something that is missing at home. If you have to try and keep things interesting then it’s not fun, it should be mutual to want to have that bit of fun without it turning into a chore or a bore!

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Paula99 - 12 Sep, 2023 - 05:07PM

Sometimes things need to come an end …

If the relationship isn’t working for one/either of you then the result is inevitable…these types of relationships are designed to end whether it’s amicable or it’s destructive… we hope it’s not the latter but I do know of affairs that have come to a horrible conclusion and I know of others that are still going on after a decade…😁

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Malik69 - 12 Sep, 2023 - 10:58AM

Yeah


leggysheila - 07 Sep, 2023 - 11:25PM

I keep my encounter's short more on a one night stand basis XXX

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