When should you end it?
So, you have been seeing your perfect affair partner for a few months and then you notice that what was once a steamy affair with both parties being really into it, is now just like your relationship with your OH with you trying your best to keep them interested and constantly wondering if you are actually ‘one of many’ after-all.
Yes, they show up for their ‘once per week’ as promised, but whereas before they would stay a while, they are out the door straight away due to ‘work commitments’!
Is now the time to part ways? This is exactly what is missing, necessitating the need for an affair in the first place!
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Paula99 - 20 Jul, 2024 - 04:58PM
Happy Joe …
She gave you a reason …be happy with it …she could have just disappeared…clearly she wasn’t the one for you ..just move on … I am sure the right person is out there 🤗
Pink Eiga - 19 Jul, 2024 - 08:01PM
HappyJoe46 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 03:37PM
Had you agreed exclusivity?
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Beckysharp - 19 Jul, 2024 - 06:11PM
I so agree with that Luminescent 🥺
But happy Joe- you’d only met her once? Next time meet sooner and see how it develops.
ExoticOrchid - 19 Jul, 2024 - 05:13PM
HJ46 - 03:37PM
As an adult, you manage that attachment to a realistic level.
Re that old chestnut "trying again with husband" ... at least she has given you a reason and didn't just ghost you so be glad about that.
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1682268 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 04:34PM
HappyJoe
It is so hard to not get attached to someone, whether its a short term or long term relationship, most humans will develop feelings for each other and start to care. Thats the danger of an affair, when it crashes and burns it can leave you devastated, especially if you really invested in that person.
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EmnEm123 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 03:48PM
HappyJoe46
I think that the I'm trying again with my husband excuse was probably a way to let you down gently.
She wasn't the one for you, chalk it up to experience and move on.
The next one maybe the right one, maybe not.
Try not to get too invested, especially at the beginning, I think most here would say they've had similar experiences.
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HappyJoe46 - 19 Jul, 2024 - 03:37PM
I was in dialogue with a lady for 3 months met her once and we had sex. The proximity of where we lived meant we just couldn’t meet up. Last week she dumped me. I am gutted.
She is trying again with her husband.
I guess my question is how do you not get attached? I am not the type to just want sex. Any advice please
Amandi1712 - 09 Jul, 2024 - 07:33PM
I would say this and from experience. There are phases to this.
1. Connecting - 3 months
2. Exploring - 3 months
3. Passion - 6 months
4. Enjoying each other 12 months
After two years you either stay together because you enjoy each. The sex on its own will not it together. If you are not feeling it then leave
Happyhooker27 - 09 Jul, 2024 - 06:13PM
Why has it become stale, do you not share interests out side of the bedroom.
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