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Malonal - 06 Jul, 2025 - 04:20PM

I think I would need a bit of both. The sex can only be better if you know the person better, what they like etc.
Having said that sex with a total stranger could give you total freedom?

87athleticbrown7size - 05 Jul, 2025 - 06:13PM

Your interpretation is what a meaningful affair is all about.

Contact when needed. And don't contact until both of you wish again.

Purple dreamer - 04 Jul, 2025 - 01:02PM

Casual has a lot of different interpretations If some contacts you that has that in their profile just ask not saying you'll get a truthful answer but at least you will have an answer

Enigma.. - 04 Jul, 2025 - 11:20AM

Unfortunately a lot of members, both male and female, do not make it very clear what kind of “casual” meets they are looking for on their profiles 🤷🏼‍♀️.
Which means it’s a guessing game as to what said member is actually looking for 🤔.

If you are looking for a “casual relationship” then state it in your profile… 😃.
A “casual relationship” is meets on a fairly regular basis, communication in between and both members have equal input as to when, where, etc… 😃😉.

If you are just looking “casual sex” then state it in your profile…
“Casual sex” being ONS, hook ups and you are not interested in meeting up or continuing anything with said person/member again 🤷🏼‍♀️.

If you are a a member who “casually” want’s “casual whatever” but all on your own “casual” terms,… when, where etc… 🙄🥱…
Then do all of us other members a favour and beggar off the site… we other members are not here to waste our time, money or sp

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Here we go 693 - 04 Jul, 2025 - 08:16AM

DC

Absolutely, I don't want to be running around to someone else's schedule and I wouldn't expect them to do it for me. Whilst I take it that people don't want another relationship, but that's exactly what it is! It's different from the one you have with your spouse, but a relationship non the less.

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Seductive Scott - 04 Jul, 2025 - 07:49AM

My understanding was casual meant occasional, no major commitment but regular, I didn’t think this would mean ONS.

Paula99 - 04 Jul, 2025 - 05:22AM

DC….

Your post is right on the nail…some operate in that way and it is all one sided ….if there is no effort by both sides then walk away …😑

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GolfBeachBeer - 03 Jul, 2025 - 08:13PM

Gonna say from my point of view, pretty sure there are a million different ones lol

When I say casual Im personally saying I dont want another relationship with all the stress of doing things that need to be done rather than one I want to put that extra effort in!

Not having to make sure you send a message, rather WANTING to send that message. Not stressing about having to meet up but WANTING to meet up and being stupid excited about the meets.

But thats just me :D

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Delicious Chaos - 03 Jul, 2025 - 06:43PM

I definitely steer clear of those that put casual ad what they are looking for.

Most recently I was chatting to a profile in the morning and by the afternoon I was meeting him for drinks as I happened to be in town and not that far from him.
I didn’t really take much notice of his profile, I was meeting him that day so I was like let’s just see what this guy was like. Yes there was chemistry and yes we went on to do a couple more dates but yep his looking for was casual, for him that meant meet when it suits him, meet where it suits him yada yada…
Lesson learnt for me, read the profile and stay away from casual unless you’re quite happy to be doing all the work

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Kingkal - 03 Jul, 2025 - 04:04PM

Great