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Let one's hair down

Full disclosure: I am genuinely a much happier person to be around since having an affair. I've laughed harder, and been more playful then I have in the last decade. Thanks IE for helping me let my hair down. 
Can anyone relate?

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Comments (158)

73forme - 10 Mar, 2024 - 03:35PM

Wow, I have never had one. True and faithful for 27 years. But now I feel the need, why is that?

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DavisJensen - 07 Mar, 2024 - 12:17PM

This is very interesting to read. Having the affair does not just hit sexual needs but it can be about intimacy, and connection. And showing up as your best self afterwards.


giggly hamster - 04 Mar, 2024 - 11:18PM

welcome to my world fluffy... welcome to my world


FluffyClouds - 04 Mar, 2024 - 03:53PM

*consistency....arghhh....😂

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FluffyClouds - 04 Mar, 2024 - 03:52PM

Blessed Tongue -

Totally agree, consistently and respect.


MyXBadguyX - 02 Mar, 2024 - 11:53PM

I've played the other guy role, how does this keep happening. Not that I'm complaining, the women have always blossomed. I just wish I could connect with someone right now


1645560 - 02 Mar, 2024 - 10:05PM

A great IE connection is like skimming a stone on a lake. If you have respect for each other and meet up frequently enough, it rises back up and keeps going and going, further than you thought possible

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Life is a beach - 02 Mar, 2024 - 09:04PM

I agree with most of you.
Yes, we women go through menopause, it is tough, thankfully HRT makes a massive difference to us all.
I do think men do find it hard too.
So many of us have our spouses who are our best mates but we all lack that spice in our lives.
Yes there could be a short lasting honeymoon period with our new lover, however, I strongly believe if you take the time to know someone then that honeymoon period could be everlasting.
I joined this site because something was missing. I didn't expect much. I found someone who makes me happy. We have now been together for a while. Trust me, honeymoon period can last for a long time. Going from strength to strength.
Yes, it is amazing to be able to fall in love and lust again. I wouldn't change it for the world.

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1645560 - 02 Mar, 2024 - 08:22PM

Christian Horner is that you 😁😁

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Octavio Paz - 02 Mar, 2024 - 07:21PM

My wife and I decided to open our marriage about a month ago after I caught her sexting with a celebrity. We are at the perimenopause stage. We are both more happy now the pressure is off to provide satisfaction on every level. Our own sex life ahs become more exciting and our communication has increased immensely. We are both looking forward to relationships outside of our marriage. However we realise that most people in our age group are probably married, We weren't in a sexless marriage but we had dropped to a routine Saturday night performance. Looking forward to meeting ladies who feel trapped in a sexless or stale marriage, if only to compare notes.

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