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“I’m just not ready for commitment yet” – most popular line women use to dump a partner, according to new research

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“I’m just not ready for commitment yet” – most popular line women use to dump a partner, according to new research

* Second most popular is “This is going too fast for me” and “We’re just not a good match” is third;

* The top answer men use for ending a relationship with a woman is the much more brutal: “It’s just not working;”

* Women are more concerned about softening the blowing and not hurting their partner’s feelings;

* Men are more likely to highlight poor sex and lack of physical compatibility in their answers;

* The answers are from a new poll of 1,000 people by Britain’s biggest extra-marital dating site, IllicitEncounters.com

Women have revealed their ten favourite lines for telling a partner a relationship is over and the top answer is: “I’m just not ready for commitment yet.”

The second most popular line is “This is going to fast for me” and the third is: “We’re just not a good match.”

The results show that women are far more sensitive then men when it comes to ending a relationship.

The top answer for men ending a relationship with a woman is the far more brutal: “It’s just not working.”

In second place for men is “I’ve met someone else” and “I’m not attracted to you any more” is third.

The results are revealed in a new survey of 1,000 people by Britain’s biggest extra-marital affairs dating site, IllicitEncounters.com.

Women are more concerned about softening the blow and coming up with reasons for the break-up which hide their lover’s failings.

Men are far more likely to tell it straight and say exactly why they want to end it, even if that involves admitting they have met someone else.

Poor sex and lack physical compatibility were far more important to men than women in the reasons they give for ending a relationship.

Women are more likely than men to end a relationship face-to-face but both sexes are increasingly using email and even text to tell a lover they are history.

Just over half of women (52%) would meet a partner to say the relationship is over, while fewer than half of men (43%) would break the news in person.

A third of women prefer to end a relationship over the phone (27%), 15% have done it by email and 8% have done it by text.

Men are more likely to give the bad news electronically – 21% of men have dumped a partner by email and 19% have done it by text, while just 17% prefer to do it on the phone.
llicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said that increasing numbers of online daters jump quickly from one relationship to the next.

He said: “They meet someone they like, have some fun and then quickly moved on. If you are going to be a success dating online you have to learn how to end a relationship without causing too much fuss.

“Men could learn a lot from women in the art of letting a partner now gently. Women far more likely to find euphemisms to sweeten the pill – saying it is a ‘relationship’ failure rather than being down to the man’s failings.

“Men have much less imagination and just tell women straight what has gone wrong.”
Every week, around 20,000 people in the UK are having affairs on IllicitEncounters.com.
The average income of the men on the site is £54,000 a year, with most working in professional jobs.

The most popular answers for ending a relationship

Women

1 I am not ready for commitment yet.
2 This is going too fast for me.
3 We’re not a good match.
4 We want different things.
5 I need to concentrate on my career.
6 I don’t like your friends or family.
7 It’s just not working.
8 You are not mature enough.
9 We have not got enough in common.
10 I don’t trust you.

Men

1 It’s just not working.
2 I’ve met someone else.
3 I’m not attracted to you any more.
4 We’ve lost that sexual spark.
5 It’s not you, it’s me.
6 I need to concentrate on my career.
7 We want different things.
8 I don’t want to see you any more.
9 I am not ready for commitment yet.
10 We have not got enough in common.

How to tell a partner they are dumped

Women

1 Face to face – 52%
2 Over the phone – 27%
3 By email – 15%
4 By text – 8%

Men

1 Face to face – 43%
2 Email – 21%
3 By text – 19%
4 Over the phone 17%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: [email protected]
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

What time is Sex O’Clock? 10.24pm on a Saturday night – that is when most couples are having sex, according to new research

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* Peak time comes just six minutes before Match of the Day – suggesting sex is more important than football or men don’t last very long!
* We actually desire sex most at 5.35pm on Saturdays – but it is far trickier to make love at that time;
* 55% of couples are so busy they need to ‘schedule’ sex in their diaries;
* Most popular activities before sex are a romantic meal and watching TV;

* Findings come from a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s biggest dating site for married people
Sex O’Clock – the time of the week when most couples are having sex – is 10.24pm on a Saturday night, according to new research.
It was the peak time for love-making and usually followed a romantic meal and a spell watching TV.
The busiest time for sex comes just six minutes before the start of Match Of The Day – suggesting sex is more important than football to most couples or men don’t last very long in bed!
Saturdays are by far the most popular day for sex – chosen by 42% of couples, followed by Sundays (26%) and Fridays (22%).
However, the time when couples most desire sex and when they actually do it differs by almost five hours.
The time when we are most aroused is 5.35pm on a Saturday – but clearly there are fewer opportunities to have sex in the late afternoon.
The survey showed that our sex lives are a constant battle between desire and opportunity.
A third of us are most aroused first thing in the morning – yet just 12% make love at that time because of work pressures.
We desire sex far more in the summer – named as the sexiest season by 62% of respondents, followed by winter (20%), spring (14%) and autumn (4%).
The findings come in a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s biggest dating site for married people.
Around half of couples (45%) are so busy that they ‘schedule’ sex with their long-term partner or their lover in a diary.
Six out of ten couples have booked a hotel getaway specifically to get some time alone for sex and intimacy.
Alcohol is not a key component of most couples’ foreplay – with 60% saying they rarely drink before having sex. Less than a quarter (22%) said they often boozed before love-making.
The most popular activity prior to sex was a romantic meal, followed by watching TV, talking intimately, going to the pub and a night out with friends.
IllicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said that while Saturdays was also by far the most popular day of the week for sex, Friday was the most popular day for affairs.
He said: “People cheating on their partners prefer Fridays to Saturdays for illicit encounters for the very simple reason that they can use work as a cover.
“Having a few drinks with colleagues is by far the most popular excuse love cheats use to cover up for their affair. Obviously that is easiest to do on a Friday than a Saturday.
What this new research shows is that cheaters are getting the best of both worlds at weekends when it comes for sex – Friday nights with their lover and Saturday nights with their spouse!”
IllicitEncounters.com has more than one million members seeking affairs with around 20,000 couples active on the site each month.
Most members are white collar professionals with an average income of £54,000 a year.
 
What is your favourite day of the week for sex?

1 Saturday (42%)
2 Sunday (26%)
3 Friday (22%)
4 Wednesday (4%)
5 Thursday (3%)
6 Tuesday (2%)
7 Monday (1%)

What are you most likely to be doing before having sex?

1 Romantic meal
2 Watching TV
3 Talking intimately
4 Going to the pub
5 Out with friends

Over Half of Wives Want More Sex from their Husbands

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  • 57% of women (who have been married for over 5 years) are “dissatisfied” with the amount of sex they are getting
  • 62% are unhappy with their partner’s performance in bed
  • Half of women want to get intimate at least twice a month
  • 60% felt that a lack of intimacy has led them to want to have an affair
  • The survey comes from IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

Women across the UK are moaning and groaning, but it’s for all the wrong reasons. That’s according to IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, who surveyed nearly 2000 female members who have been married for over 5 years to find out how satisfied they were with the intimate side of their marriage.

57% of respondents reported a “dissatisfaction” with the amount of sex they were getting, while an even greater number, 62%, were unhappy with their husband’s performance between the sheets.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, said: “It doesn’t make for good reading. You’ll often find that, as a relationship goes on, the spark slowly starts to fade, and getting intimate can become more of a chore or force of habit. Evidently however, for many women that simply isn’t enough, and you can’t really blame them.”

As to how much counts as ‘enough,’ IllicitEncounters.com’s survey found that 50% of respondents felt that getting intimate at least twice a month was sufficient. 27% felt that once a month was enough, while 10% want to have sex three times a month. Of the remaining 13%, 5% want to get intimate 2-3 times a week, with 3% stating that more than once a week was enough.

The survey also showed that a lack of intimacy could potentially lead to many women cheating on their husbands, with over half (60%) of respondents touting the poor physical side to their relationship as their main reason for joining IllicitEncounters.com.

“Needless to say, a lack of passion in a relationship, whether that’s down to quality or quantity, could very easily prove to be a major stumbling block,” adds Grant.

“Saying ‘hey honey, you’re not quite good enough where it counts’ isn’t an easy thing for any woman to say to her husband, but at the same time, very few people will sit around and refuse to act on their instincts – they’re only human, after all.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: [email protected]
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

IllicitEncounters.com To Acquire Private Island for Adulterers

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For any couple, finding the perfect romantic getaway can be hard. For adulterers, it’s even harder. That’s why IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, are in advanced negotiations to acquire their very own island, which will provide the perfect location for a quick getaway for affair-seekers.

The island, currently dubbed as Illicit Retreat, is situated about 100 miles from Portsmouth, and will be equipped with private apartments, containing all the basics and amenities that one would expect, including a dining room, bedrooms, cooking facilities and a jacuzzi.

Needless to say, the island also sports various natural attractions, including several beaches.

IllicitEncounters.com also plan to provide transportation by helicopter to ensure that their members won’t get caught on public transport or add a suspiciously large amount of mileage on their cars.

IllicitEncounters.com’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, says: “You don’t need a passport to travel – you’re avoiding public transport entirely, in fact – and without the need for a car, your tracks are completely covered. All you need to do is sneak out for a ‘business trip’ and the rest is taken care of for you.”

That’s not all, as the site have also drafted up a non-disclosure agreement that every visitor to the island must sign, ensuring that no one is at risk of being outed.

“What happens on the island stays on the island,” says Grant.

“If only we’d thought of this before, we could have saved the likes of Vernon Kay and Jeremy McConnell, to name just a couple, quite a bit of hassle.

It would be quite apt if we could get the likes of Gordon Ramsey to cook for our members, but admittedly that’s probably a bridge too far,” Grant joked.

Illicit Retreat is currently scheduled for an official opening sometime in 2017, but you can now begin to officially register your interest onIllicitEncounters.com/retreat

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

Revealed: Why People Cheat!

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Revealed: Why People Cheat!

• 58% of men have an affair in search of intimacy, compared to 40% of women
• 65% of women have an affair in search of a meaningful relationship
• Almost two thirds of men are jealous of an intimate affair, while over half of women are jealous of an emotional affair
• The results come from IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

Men are lustful, while women want something more. IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed over 1000 of their members and found that 58% of men have an affair for sex, compared to 40% of women, while 65% of women have an affair in search of a deeper, more meaningful relationship.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, explains: “Typical men, right? Maybe, maybe not. The average man on IllicitEncounters.com is a high earner and a hard worker. As it stands, he just about has enough time to juggle his current daily routine, balancing his work and familial responsibilities.

There simply isn’t any room for him to meet a second woman and delve into a deep and meaningful relationship. A quick fling however, now that’s an entirely different story.

The women on the other hand are the ones who find themselves on the receiving end of this kind of a relationship. Their husbands work long hours, sacrifice time spent at home for time spent at work, so they’re yearning for some companionship.

Women want what they can’t have at home; they can’t be wined, dined and experience something meaningful.”

Maria, a 42-year-old estate agent from London, said: “One of the big compromises of having a successful career is inevitably a lack of time spent in other areas. In my marriage, I am that other area. While I love my husband, I can’t remember the last time we spent any sort of meaningful, quality time together – even something small.”

But what happens when the tables are turned? IllicitEncounters.com found that almost two thirds of men were jealous of an intimate affair (63%), while over half of women (54%) were more likely to be jealous of an emotional affair.

Grant explains: “For a lot of men, the idea that another man is able to satisfy his wife’s needs better than they can is a demoralizing and emasculating thought. Women, meanwhile, are more concerned with their husband’s being emotionally unfaithful. Sex might not even come into the equation – it’s more so the idea that their man prefers being in the company of another woman.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: [email protected]
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

The Affairs Guide to the Budget

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  • George Osborne’s budget is likely to lead to an increase in adulterers in the UK
  • This is as a result of the extra time and ease of travel brought about by a longer school day and investment in new transportation links
  • This is predicted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

Every politician, economic analyst and British citizen up and down the country is beginning to analyse and dissect George Osborne’s latest budget. But while they worry about the potential economic implications, very few, if any, are focusing on the impact that it’ll have on the adulterous behaviour on the average British citizen.

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, predicts that Mr. Osborne’s latest budget will only seek to increase the number of affairs, and affair-seekers, across the country in the years to come.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, explains: “When it comes to an affair, nothing beats convenience, and the new budget offers just that. Let’s start with the obvious – longer school days. It’s an adulterer’s dream.

It can sometimes be difficult to squeeze in a long-term affair with the already hectic responsibilities one has at home, so an extra hour, or more, of not having to worry about picking up the kids from school is an extra hour browsing sites like IllicitEncounters.com, or an extra hour to play away from home, so to speak.

When you begin to factor in the extra funding that is to be provided for after-school activities, you’re simply adding to the free time that an affair-seeking parent has to sneak out for a secret tryst.

And speaking of time, travelling across the country is about to become much quicker. With rail lines such as Crossrail 2 in London and HS3 between Leeds and Manchester being greenlit, along with a cut in the tolls on the River Severn crossings, freedom of movement is becoming quicker, easier and cheaper. It’s the perfect opportunity for affair-seekers to broaden their horizons and search a little further afield, with their partner none the wiser.

Needless to say, should the Chancellor of the Exchequer grow the economy as he forecasts, it’s all the more money in people’s pockets. More money to travel, more money to spend on their secret lover.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: [email protected]
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Over 60’s Shades of Grey: Adultery Is Rife Among Pensioners

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Over 60’s Shades of Grey: Adultery Is Rife Among Pensioners

  • IllicitEncounters.com has seen a 10% year on year increase in the number of over 60’s signing up in the last 12 months
  • 37% of over 60’s said that a lack of sex at home was the main reason for their desire to have an affair
  • 24% said that they were no longer attracted to their partner
  • IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading dating website for married people with over 1,000,000 members

People marry young, grow old, retire, and spend their remaining years together. It’s innocent and romantic, but it could also be more fantasy than reality, as IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, has reported a 10% increase year on year in the number of over 60’s signing up to the site in the last 12 months.

There are a myriad of reasons for the increase, as IllicitEncounters’ spokesperson, Christian Grant, explains:

“Remaining committed and faithful to one person over a period of many years, or in this case decades, is one of the hardest things someone can do. It’s made even harder when growing old, and the changes that come with it begin to take their toll.

For one, people change and grow apart; the person you marry at 30 isn’t necessarily going to be the same person at 60, and your tastes could change, too. At that age, the last thing you want to be worrying about is going through a complicated divorce.

And, while not exclusive to this age bracket, there’s the very real possibility that a number of health issues can inhibit and cripple a couple’s sex life. Whether it’s erectile dysfunction, or other sexual dysfunctions that can affect both men and women, a loss of virility, intimacy and passion can often be the biggest stumbling block for a relationship of any age – those over 60 are certainly no exception.

While many people might still enjoy spending time with their opposite number, a sexless marriage is often the final straw for any relationship.”

In fact, in a survey of over 1000 IllicitEncounters.com members over the age of 60, 37% said that a lack of sex at home was their main reason for joining the site.

24% said that they were no longer attracted to their partner, 15% wanted to experience something new, while 10% wanted to feel young again.

Tom, 63, who uses the site, commented: “I haven’t been intimate with my wife in many years. We get along fine, but there’s very little excitement or passion in our relationship anymore. There’s a youthful thrill in meeting someone new for the first time in decades.”
Top 5 Reasons Over 60s Look for Affairs

1.       Lack of sex at home 37%

2.       No longer attracted to their partner 24%

3.       Wanted to experience a new relationship 15%

4.       Other 14%

5.       Rediscover their youth 10%
NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: [email protected]
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

 

‘Cheating map’ Reveals Britain’s Top 140 Towns for extra-marital Affairs!

* High Wycombe in Buckinghamshire is Britain’s cheating capital with 2,119 men and women having affairs;
* Brentwood in Essex is the most faithful town – shattering the myth that Essex girls (and boys) are promiscuous;
* High proportion of wealthy commuter towns in the top 10;
* New interactive Infidelity Index lists the number of people having affairs in Britain’s 140 towns leading towns;
* Infidelity Index has been put together by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s leading dating website for married people

The most adulterous town in the UK is posh High Wycombe in Buckinghamshire, according to a new table of the country’s 140 cheating hotspots.

The middle class commuter town has been officially named as the place where a husband or wife is most likely to have an affair.

Wealthy High Wycombe has 2,119 people cheating out of a population of 120,256.
The interactive Infidelity Index allows users to search a town to discover how many people are having affairs in any locality.

Click here to find your local figure – http://www.infidelityindex.co.uk.

High Wycombe came out highest, with 2.12% of the population cheating.

In second place was another middle class commuter town, Guildford in Surrey, with 1,250 cheats (2.05% of the population) and Aldershot in Hampshire came third.

Cumbernauld, fifth in the overall UK table, was Scotland’s cheating capital. Wrexham, a lowly 55 in the UK table, was Wales’s cheating capital – suggesting that couples in the Principality are having fewer affairs than elsewhere in the UK.

Many of the towns with the highest numbers of cheats are wealthy areas in the south of England.

The most faithful town, perhaps surprisingly, was Brentwood in Essex – shattering the myth that Essex girls (and boys) are promiscuous. Brentwood is where many of the cast of the TV show The Only Way Is Essex live or socialise.

Famous people from High Wycombe include the TV chef Heston Blumenthal, comedian Jimmy Carr, actor James Corden and TV presenter Fern Britton.

With an average house price of £269,681 – far above the national average of £188,270 – it is one of the most desirable places to live in the UK.

The figures were compiled by IllicitEncounters.com, Britain’s leading dating website for married people.

They are based on its own extensive data on the numbers of Britons cheating.

Since its inception 13 years ago, more than 1 million people have registered with the site.
IllicitEncounters.com has seen a 20% surge in registrations in the last five years because many couples simply cannot afford to divorce due economic pressures and ever-rising house prices.

Increasing numbers of couples are trapped in unhappy marriages but they are reluctant to divorce and are using IllicitEncounters.com to inject to some excitement into their lives with like-minded married men who also have no intention of leaving their partners.

llicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said: “We are increasingly popular in commuter towns like High Wycombe, Guildford, Maidenhead and Ashford. They are doing a lot more than just twitching curtains in Acacia Avenue.

“Spiralling house prices have made divorce increasingly difficult for many couples. They are struggling along unhappily because they simply cannot afford to set up two homes.

“IllicitEncounters.com provides an outlet for men and women who would have an affair whether we were there or not. In coming to us, they can be assured of meeting a like-minded partner seeking some added excitement in their life who doesn’t want to upset things at home.”

Every week, around 20,000 people in the UK are having affairs on IllicitEncounters.com.
The average income of the men on the site is £54,000 a year, with most working in professional jobs.

Infidelity Index – top 140 towns
Town Rankings
Rank Town % of town pop (affairs)
1 High Wycombe 2.12 (2119)
2 Guildford 2.05 (1250)
3 Aldershot 2.03 (729)
4 Beeston 2.00 (939)
5 Cumbernauld 1.91 (841)
6 Maidenhead 1.86 (1660)
7 Runcorn 1.78 (1099)
8 Ashford 1.75 (1180)
9 Taunton 1.75 (1056)
10 Newcastle-under-Lyme 1.58 (1186)
11 Livingston 1.57 (1002)
12 Bracknell 1.57 (1211)
13 Farnborough 1.56 (1017)
14 Loughborough 1.49 (894)
15 Royal Tunbridge Wells 1.39 (527)
16 Gosport 1.37 (979)
17 Widnes 1.36 (835)
18 Stevenage 1.35 (1211)
19 Gravesend 1.35 (750)
20 Tamworth 1.33 (986)
21 Rochester 1.30 (819)
22 Weymouth 1.28 (696)
23 Harrogate 1.27 (932)
24 Hamilton 1.26 (671)
25 Crawley 1.23 (1319)
26 Christchurch 1.22 (660)
27 Bootle 1.20 (615)
28 Shrewsbury 1.20 (858)
29 Margate 1.17 (718)
30 Chatham 1.17 (898)
31 Chelmsford 1.15 (1276)
32 Rugby 1.11 (783)
33 Bury 1.11 (855)
34 Stourbridge 1.11 (705)
35 Clacton-On-Sea 1.10 (554)
36 Bamber Bridge 1.10 (743)
37 Gillingham 1.09 (1139)
38 Altrincham 1.08 (565)
39 Cannock 1.05 (709)
40 Redditch 1.01 (824)
41 Macclesfield 0.99 (561)
42 Bedford 0.98 (858)
43 Halesowen 0.98 (572)
44 Royal Leamington Spa 0.95 (527)
45 Eastleigh 0.95 (745)
46 Kettering 0.94 (527)
47 Grays 0.91 (610)
48 Burton upon Trent 0.91 (660)
49 Maidstone 0.90 (966)
50 Crewe 0.90 (642)
51 Scarborough 0.90 (558)
52 Walton-on-Thames 0.90 (599)
53 Stafford 0.89 (606)
54 Mansfield 0.87 (671)
55 Wrexham/Wrecsam 0.84 (516)
56 Blackburn 0.83 (984)
57 Bognor Regis 0.83 (531)
58 Weston-super-Mare 0.80 (673)
59 Reading 0.79 (1719)
60 Aylesbury 0.78 (563)
61 Walsall 0.78 (527)
62 Folkestone 0.77 (396)
63 Littlehampton 0.77 (430)
64 Esher 0.74 (376)
65 Lowestoft 0.74 (525)
66 East Kilbride 0.73 (543)
67 Sale 0.73 (977)
68 Wallasey 0.73 (439)
69 Hemel Hempstead 0.72 (687)
70 Bebington 0.71 (405)
71 South Shields 0.70 (529)
72 Corby 0.68 (376)
73 Chesterfield 0.67 (594)
74 Batley 0.67 (536)
75 Ellesmere Port 0.67 (410)
76 Willenhall 0.67 (347)
77 Barnsley 0.66 (599)
78 Blackpool 0.66 (972)
79 Darlington 0.66 (608)
80 West Bromwich 0.66 (484)
81 Kidderminster 0.66 (369)
82 Nuneaton 0.65 (563)
83 Neath/Castell-Nedd 0.65 (327)
84 Keighley 0.65 (345)
85 Southport 0.64 (583)
86 Ewell 0.62 (320)
87 Paisley 0.60 (464)
88 Dudley 0.60 (473)
89 Castlereagh 0.60 (336)
90 Colchester 0.59 (702)
91 Slough 0.59 (914)
92 Scunthorpe 0.57 (459)
93 Grimsby 0.57 (507)
94 Woking 0.57 (606)
95 Solihull 0.56 (696)
96 St Helens 0.56 (581)
97 Luton 0.55 (1168)
98 Cheltenham 0.55 (635)
99 Halifax 0.54 (480)
100 Hastings 0.54 (489)
101 Stockton-on-Tees 0.53 (441)
102 Burnley 0.53 (432)
103 Oldham 0.52 (498)
104 Harlow 0.52 (423)
105 Swindon 0.50 (918)
106 Crosby 0.49 (246)
107 Dewsbury 0.48 (304)
108 Rayleigh 0.47 (446)
109 Poole 0.46 (718)
110 Eastbourne 0.46 (502)
111 Atherton 0.45 (318)
112 Huddersfield 0.44 (718)
113 Basildon 0.42 (446)
114 Rochdale 0.41 (444)
115 Bolton 0.41 (801)
116 Warrington 0.41 (684)
117 Milton Keynes 0.41 (702)
118 Washington 0.40 (266)
119 Ipswich 0.39 (565)
120 Telford 0.39 (558)
121 Worthing 0.39 (423)
122 Birkenhead 0.39 (563)
123 Southend-on-Sea 0.38 (675)
124 Doncaster 0.38 (419)
125 Tynemouth 0.36 (241)
126 Hartlepool 0.36 (318)
127 Paignton 0.35 (225)
128 Wigan 0.35 (358)
129 Stockport 0.33 (349)
130 Newtownabbey 0.33 (219)
131 Sutton Coldfield 0.32 (354)
132 Northampton 0.32 (691)
133 Rotherham 0.31 (342)
134 Gateshead 0.27 (327)
135 Watford 0.26 (345)
136 Middlesbrough 0.24 (421)
137 Barry 0.23 (126)
138 Craigavon 0.19 (52)
139 Bournemouth 0.16 (304)
140 Brentwood 0.15 (98)

Revealed: Where Adulterers Meet to Cheat!

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  • Coffee houses and restaurants are the most popular locations for adulterers to meet for a first date as they provide a good alibi should you spot someone you know
  • 10 miles away from your house/work is the best distance for adulterers to meet if they live or work in a city, 15 miles in small villages or towns
  • 65% meet during work hours, while 24% meet up on the weekend and 11% on weeknights
  • The most popular hours to sneak out for an affair during the working day are between 12-3pm and 4-6pm.
  • The research comes from the UK’s leading dating website for married people, IllicitEncounters.com

Arranging to meet with an adulterer for a first date? Your safest bet might be a coffee shop, just make sure it’s a way away from home, so says new research.

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed over 1500 members to find the locations where adulterers meet for a first date. 38% of adulterers meet at a coffee house, 25% at a restaurant, 20% at a bar, 10% at a pub, and 3% at a hotel (4% chose ‘other’).

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, explains:

“Needless to say, the general idea here is not only to have an exciting date, but to not get caught. A coffee house not only provides a decent stop for a first date, but a good alibi too. If you get spotted, it’s not exactly improbable for someone to believe that you just got talking to a random stranger in a packed coffee house.

The same could be said of a bar or a pub; it might not be someone’s idea of a romantic first date, but when you’re just getting started, it provides some much needed security.

However, some people skip the pleasantries and just meet at a hotel. Each to their own.”

The research also found that adulterers in bigger cities meet, on average, 10 miles away from their home and/or workplace, while those in smaller, rural locations stray slightly further from home, with an average of 15 miles.

“Don’t defecate where you eat, so they say,” says Grant.

“Meeting in a neutral location is key; you don’t want to be looking over your shoulder for the entire date in fear that you’ll bump into someone you know. It’s even more important for those in smaller towns – news travels fast in small areas.”

65% of adulterers admitted to meeting during work hours, while 24% meet up on the weekend, and 11% on weeknights.

The most popular hours to sneak out for an affair during the working day were between 12-3pm and 4-6pm.

“Those ‘meetings’ that your manager attends out of the office at random hours during the day? Maybe they’re not the sort of meetings that you think they are,” says Grant.

“With familial responsibilities during evenings and weekends, the working day is the least suspicious and easiest time to sneak out for an affair.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: [email protected]
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

They Cheated Emissions, Now Their Drivers Cheat Too – VW: The Car of the Adulterer!

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They Cheated Emissions, Now Their Drivers Cheat Too – VW: The Car of the Adulterer!

  • 22% of affair-seeking men and 18% of affair-seeking women in the UK drive Volkswagens
  • English men and women prefer VWs, while Scottish men and women prefer Audis and Volkswagens respectively
  • Men think that an expensive car will impress their date, while women aren’t as concerned
  • The car you drive can reflect your personality and status, hence the popularity of luxurious saloons
  • The research comes from the UK’s leading extramarital dating website, IllicitEncounters.com

Volkswagens are the most commonly driven cars among affair-seekers in the UK, new research has found.

Volkswagen received 22% of the male vote and 18% of the female vote.

In fact, the Germans were dominant, with Mercedes and Audi coming in 2nd and 3rd in the male vote (19% and 14% respectively), and Audi and BMW coming in 2nd and 3rd for women (14% and 12%).

The research also found that VWs were the most popular cars for both men and women in England, while Scottish men opted for Audis, and Scottish women for Volkswagens.

The results come from the UK’s leading dating website for married people, IllicitEncounters.com, who surveyed 1000 of their members.

Spokesperson Christian Grant explains: “It’s a match made in heaven. VW recently became infamous for cheating emissions tests, and it turns out the people who drive their cars aren’t averse to a bit of cheating themselves – it’s all very fitting. VW is no longer the car of the people, but the car of the adulterer!”

Of the top 5 most popular makes, the most popular models were the Volkswagen Scirocco, Mercedes C-Class, Audi A4, BMW 3-Series and Jaguar XKR for the men, while women preferred the VW Golf GTE, Audi Q4, BMW 1 Series, Ford Ka and Mini Cooper.

The research also found that nearly two thirds of men (61%) felt that having a luxurious car would impress their date, while only 25% of women cared about their dates’ choice of car.

“A car is a statement; your wealth, job status, intelligence – you can gauge a lot about a person just by the car that they drive, so it’s hardly surprising to see that a lot of our members are driving expensive German makes,” says Grant.

The least popular car makes for affair-seeking men were Skoda, Nissan and Fiat, with 0.5%, 0.8% and 1.4% of the vote respectively. Meanwhile, Hyundai, Skoda and Toyota were the least popular cars for women, with 0.4%, 0.9% and 1.6 % of the vote.

The Skoda Fabia, Nissan Micra, Fiat Panda, Seat Mii and Kia Soul were the least popular makes for the men, while the Hyundai i10, Skoda Fabia, Toyota Prius, Smart fortwo and Vauxhall Astra were the least popular makes for women.

“We can’t all drive nice cars,” says Grant. “But on the plus side, if you do find yourself driving a Skoda, at least your partner won’t suspect you of cheating.”
The results are as follows:
Most Popular Cars Driven by Affair-Seeking Men

1. VW 22.22%

2. Mercedes 18.71%

3. Audi 14.33%

4. BMW 10.81%

5. Jaguar 6.2%

 

Most Popular Cars Driven by Affair-Seeking Women

1. VW 18.15%

2. Audi 14.46%

3. BMW 12.17%

4. Ford 9.3%

5. Mini 5.1%

 

Least Popular Cars Driven by Affair-Seeking Men

1. Skoda 0.5%

2. Nissan 0.8%

3. Fiat 1.4%

4. Seat 1.8%

5. Kia 2.2%

 

Least Popular Cars Driven by Affair-Seeking Women

1. Hyundai 0.4%

2. Skoda 0.9%

3. Toyota 1.6%

4. Smart 2%

5. Vauxhall 2.55%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: [email protected]
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer