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National Adultery Awards 2016 – And the Winners Are…

  • Scott Disick has been crowned Cheater of the Year for 2015 at the National Adultery Awards, a.k.a. The Cheaties
  • Cristiano Ronaldo took the crown of Sports ‘Player’ of the Year 
  • Channing Tatum and Michelle Keegan were voted as the two celebrities that we’d most likely cheat on our partner’s for
  • Sally Bercow won the “What Were They Thinking?” award
  • Bill Clinton scooped both the National Adultery Awards Fellowship Award and the Most Iconic Affair In History thanks to his (alleged) 36 affairs, most famously with Monica Lewinsky
  • The National Adultery Awards are hosted and organised by the UK’s leading dating website for married people, IllicitEncounters.com

Scott Disick, Michelle Keegan, Cristiano Ronaldo and Sally Bercow are just some of the famous faces to be awarded at the National Adultery Awards 2016, a.k.a. The Cheaties.

Taking place in an invitation-only event in London on Sunday 29th May, the event was organized and hosted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

Scott Disick took home the evening’s most prestigious award, the 2015 Cheater of the Year, for his repeated acts of infidelity, betraying his now ex-girlfriend, Kourtney Kardashian.

He fought off stiff competition from Gwen Stefani’s ex, Gavin Rossdale, and actor Ben Affleck, who both had an affair with their childrens’ nanny, while Sally Bercow, who cheated on husband John Bercow with his cousin, and rock star Ozzy Osbourne completed the list of nominees for the main award.

“This was tough, but the right person won in the end,” said IllicitEncounters.com’s spokesperson, Christian Grant.

“Cheating on what many would consider to be a beautiful woman, and to do it several times too, is brave… or stupid, I can’t quite tell.

What’s more, the rumours say that he cheated on her with her sibling Kendall Jenner, among others. Low blow, Scott.

It was also interesting to see that the main category was dominated by men, with just one woman, Sally Bercow, making the list of nominees. Whether that says something about the cheating habits of men and women, I don’t know, but it’s an interesting thought.”

Meanwhile, Michelle Keegan took home the We ALL Would award, for the woman all married men (and gay women) would cheat on their partner’s for.

The honour of being the man that all married women (and gay men) would cheat for went to, unsurprisingly, Channing Tatum.
In the sports category, Cristiano Ronaldo won the Sports ‘Player’ of the Year after having alleged affairs with Andress Urach, Daniella Chavez and Badr Hari.

Stephanie Drew and Ali Bear of Ex On The Beach were crowned as the best reality TV cheaters, while the best TV affair was given to Holly Cunningham and Robbie Roscoe of Hollyoaks.

Sally Bercow, who cheated on her husband with his own cousin, romped to victory in the “What Were they Thinking?” category, while the NAA Fellowship Award was given to Bill Clinton, who has allegedly had affairs with 36 different women.

Speaking of Clinton, he was, in fact, a double award-winner, as he also claimed the Most Iconic Affair In History thanks to his notorious relationship with Monica Lewinsky.

Grant added:

“Unfortunately, and perhaps rather understandably, the winners could not be there in person to collect their awards, but rest assured that these have since been sent to them. We hope that they take a pride of place in the winners’ homes.”

The full list of categories, winners and nominees are as follows:

JUDGES CATEGORIES

Cheater of the Year
Gavin Rossdale
Ben Affleck
Scott Disick – WINNER
Sally Bercow
Ozzy Osbourne

Sports ‘Player’ of the Year

Marcos Rojo
Cristiano Ronaldo (allegedly)- WINNER
Neil Lennon
Thanasi Kokkinakis and Donna Vekic

Punching Above their Weight

Noel Biderman – WINNER

Worst Kept Secret

Gavin Rossdale and Mindy Mann – WINNER
 
NAA Fellowship Award

Bill Clinton (allegedly 36 affairs and counting) – WINNER

Most Iconic Affair In History

JFK and Marilyn Monroe
Charles II and Nell Gwyn
Hugh Grant and Divine Brown
Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky – WINNER
Prince Charles and Camilla Rosemary
Prince Phillip and several women (allegedly)

PUBLIC CATEGORIES

We ALL Would – Given to the celebrities that we’d all cheat on our partner’s for

Channing Tatum – WINNER
Michelle Keegan – WINNER

Best Movie Affair 

Aloha
By the Sea
Carol – WINNER
Anomalisa

Best TV Affair 

Alya Nazir and Jason Grimshaw (Coronation Street)
Robert Sugden and Aaron Livesy (Emmerdale)
Tony Stewart and Tracy Barlow (Coronation Street)
Holly Cunningham and Robbie Roscoe (Hollyoaks) – WINNER
Pablo Escobar and Valeria Velez (Narcos)

Best Reality TV Affair 

Sam Thompson (Made In Chelsea)
Stephen Bear and Ali Drew (Ex On The Beach) – WINNER
Tiffany Watson (Made In Chelsea)
Marnie Simpson and Aaron Chalmers (Geordie Shore)

“What Were They Thinking?” 

Scott Disick
Cristiano Ronaldo (allegedly)
Sally Bercow – WINNER
The Super-injunction Award

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[REDACTED] – WINNER
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The “Don’t Sh*t Where You Walk” Award – Given to the adulterer who had an affair a little too close to home…

Sally Bercow, for cheating with her husband’s cousin
Gavin Rossdale, for cheating with his children’s nanny – WINNER
Ben Affleck, for cheating with his children’s nanny
Most Iconic Affair In History

JFK and Marilyn Monroe
Charles II and Nell Gwyn
Hugh Grant and Divine Brown
Bill Clinton and Monica Lewinsky – WINNER
Prince Charles and Camilla Rosemary
Prince Phillip and several women (allegedly)

NOTES TO EDITOR 

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

New bawls please! Sex is like tennis – women are far noisier than men, according to a new survey


* 88% of women said they were louder than their partners during love-making;
* 64% of men said their women were noisier, too;
* Most couples say sex is much better when it is noisy;
* Married men and women are quieter when having sex with their spouse than they are with their lover;
* Findings come from a new poll of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, Britain’s leading dating website for married people

Women are far noisier than men when they are having sex, according to a new survey.

A whopping 88% of women admitted that they were louder than their partners during love-making, and 64% of men polled also confirmed that their female lovers drowned them out when they were getting intimate.

The findings were revealed in a poll of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, Britain’s leading dating website for married people.
With Wimbledon just weeks away, the survey found that sex is like tennis – with women making all the noise.

Making a racket in the sack adds to the fun for most couples: seven out of ten men (71%) said they liked it when their partner made noise during sex. Almost as many women (62%) said they enjoyed it when their men audibly expressed pleasure during sex.

The survey found that 59% of men and 57% of women had been overheard having sex because they were making so much noise.
A further 65% of men and 63% of women had heard other couples during love-making.

Married men and women who are unfaithful are quieter when making love to their spouse than they are with their lover.

Six out of ten women (62%) and 72% of men said they did make more noise in bed when they were cheating.

Scientists say there is no reason why women should be noisier than men – either in bed or on the tennis court.

IllicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said:

“Noisy sex tends to be an individual thing. Some people scream the house down at a concert, others watch without making a sound; it doesn’t mean they’re not enjoying it as much!

One theory might be that since women fake it more often than men do, perhaps they feel obliged to provide ‘evidence’ that they’re enjoying themselves?

It is interesting that people having affairs make more noise when having sex with their lovers than they do with their married partners. All of IllicitEncounters.com’s evidence suggests that this is because the sex is more exciting when you’re having an affair.

Most people who stay in a marriage while cheating on their partner say they end up straying because their sex life at home has become staid and boring.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Football Widows Join Up to Extra-Marital Dating Site on Cup Final Day!

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  • More than 1,000 women joined married dating website, IllicitEncounters.com, on FA Cup Final day
  • 80% of those women joined between 2 hours before kick-off and 30 minutes after the final whistle
  • Over 20% of all female registrations on Saturday originated from Manchester and Greater Manchester areas
  • With only 25.8%* of women following football, more and more are finding themselves second best to football every week

For thousands of ‘football widows,’ Saturday’s FA Cup Final between Manchester United and Crystal Palace was the final straw, with thousands signing up to the UK’s leading dating website for married people, IllicitEncounters.com.

There was a largely irregular spike of female registrations throughout Saturday, which peaked ten minutes into kick-off, and maintained its momentum until later in the evening.

IllicitEncounters.com’s spokesman, Christian Grant, said:

“At that time on a Saturday afternoon, we very rarely see numbers on this sort of a scale. After nine months of neglect, Saturday’s cup final proved to be the final straw for many women, and with a summer of football still to come, it wouldn’t surprise me to see something like this happen again.”

The site saw over 1,000 female registrations on Saturday alone, with 80% of those signing up between 3:30 (2 hours before kick-off) and 8:30pm – half an hour after the game’s conclusion.

Over 20% of those registrations were from women situated in the city of Manchester and surrounding regions in Greater Manchester, including Bolton (3%), Bury (2.2%) and Stockport (4.8%).

But while only 90,000 football fans occupied the seats of Wembley stadium, many more neutral supporters watched the game with friends, choosing to ignore their significant other.

“It’s not the first time this has happened,” said Grant.

“In every relationship, compromise is needed. While attending a football match once, twice, maybe even three times a week, can be tolerated, watching every match, especially those that don’t directly involve your team, need to be sacrificed, with more time spent with the wife and kids instead.

If not, it’ll only be a matter of time before women find something, or rather, someone, else.”

According to recent studies*, only 25.8% of women follow the sport, leaving a huge proportion of them stranded at home while their husbands’ attend matches around the country most weeks of the year.

Amanda was one of those who registered to the site on Saturday, stating:

“My husband’s been a season ticket holder at Manchester United for several years. While I don’t want him to not have a hobby, it’s reached the stage where I’m second best to a football club week in, week out.”

*http://uk.kantar.com/consumer/leisure/2015/female-football-fan-data/

NOTES TO EDITOR 

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Butland’s Hot, Rooney’s Not – England’s Sexiest Footballers Revealed!

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  • Stoke goalkeeper Jack Butland has been voted England’s sexiest footballer, closely followed by Liverpool’s Adam Lallana and Jordan Henderson
  • On the other hand, Wayne Rooney was the least sexiest footballer, receiving just 0.3% of the vote, and the ‘I Don’t Care How Rich You Are, It’s Still A No’ award
  • James Milner won the Gazza’s Tears Award for the footballer most likely to cry after sex
  • 21-year-old John Stones won the You Know You Shouldn’t, But You Probably Would award
  • Chris Smalling won the Least Likely to Last the 90 Minutes award

England’s lions are raring to disappoint go in this summer’s European Championships, and while sports journalists up and down the country are ready to analyse, criticise and eulogise their performances, there are more important questions that are yet to be answered: who is England’s sexiest footballer?

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed almost 2,000 of their female members, who voted Stoke goalkeeper Jack Butland as England’s sexiest footballer with 13% of the vote.

He was closely followed by Tottenham Hotspur midfielder Eric Dier (11%), Liverpool midfielder Adam Lallana (10%), and his fellow teammate and Liverpool captain, Jordan Henderson (8%).

But while it was relatively good news for England’s midfield, their strikers, who are used to scoring on the pitch, have had their ability to do the same off of it seriously questioned, with Golden Boot winner Harry Kane, Premier League winner Jamie Vardy and England captain Wayne Rooney occupying three of the bottom five positions, with 1.3%, 0.8% and 0.3% of the vote respectively.

While many are hopeful that this could finally be England’s year on the pitch, the general consensus was that this year’s crop was relatively underwhelming compared to years gone by, when it comes to sex appeal that is.

IllicitEncounters.com’s spokesperson, Christian Grant, explains:

“No Becks, no Gerrard, no Ashley Cole – there are many fan favourites who won’t be pulling on that England top again, and their replacements, although talented, have left a lot to be desired.”

There were several special awards given, too.

Wayne Rooney won the not so coveted ‘I Don’t Care How Rich You Are, It’s Still A No’ award, finishing rock bottom (although, in truth, it’s an award that could be shared by many).

Given the relatively young average age of this England squad, the special You Know you Shouldn’t, but you Probably Would award was handed to Everton defender John Stones (21), who edged out the PFA Young Player of the Year, Dele Alli (20), and fellow Everton midfielder, Ross Barkley (22).

The Least Likely to Last the 90 Minutes award was given to Manchester United defender Chris Smalling for, er, yeah, while Liverpool midfielder James Milner won the Gazza’s Tears award for the player most likely to cry after sex.

And, while technically retired from international duty, John Terry won the Lifetime Achievement award due to his track record of playing away.

The overall sexiest England XI (4231 formation) is as follows:

Goalkeeper:

Jack Butland – 13% of the vote – 1st place overall

Defence:

Kyle Walker – 2.5% – 9th

John Stones – 4% – 6th

Gary Cahill – 1.9% – 10th

Ryan Bertrand – 1.1% – 11th

Midfield:

Eric Dier – 11% – 2nd

Jordan Henderson – 8% – 4th

Adam Lallana – 10% – 3rd

Dele Alli – 3.4% – 7th

Ross Barkley – 2.8% – 8th

Striker:

Andy Carroll – 6.5% – 5th

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Love at first spy – 64% of us have tracked our first love on social media to see who they are with now, according to a new survey

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* A quarter of us are STILL with our first love;
* 75% of people experience first love by the time they are 21;
* 41% of people enjoy the best sex of their lives with their first love;
* One in six of us have slept again with our first love after reconnecting with them online post-break up;
* Results are from a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com, Britain’s leading dating website for married people

Most people have looked up their first love on social media to check out who they are dating, according to a new survey.

It found that 64% of people had searched for pictures and updates on the life of the person who first captured their heart on websites such as Facebook and Twitter.

More than a quarter of those surveyed have got back in touch with their first love after looking them up online.

And around one in six people (15%) have slept with their ex after reconnecting online, and a further 21% have thought about having sex with them.

The results were revealed in a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s leading dating website for married people.

The poll found that love truly is all around: 99% of us have fallen in love at least once in our lives by the age of 40.

For most people (55%), this happens between the ages of 15-18, a fifth (20%) fall in love between 19-21 and 8% between 22-25.

The first serious relationship lasts between one and five years for 40% of people.
A quarter of respondents (25%) are still dating their first love now, and a further 24% are still in touch even though they are no longer together.

Less than half of people (41%) said they enjoyed the best sex of their lives with their first love.

Roughly the same number (42%) still talk about their first love with their current partner.
Interestingly, this was one of the answers where there was the biggest difference in the responses of men and women.

Whereas 45% of women talk about their first love with their current partner, just 38% of men do the same.

Half of women said they had been contacted by their ex and had ignored them – whereas this has happened to just 28% of men.

Just over a quarter of us (28%) still reminisce fondly about our first love – men (31%) slightly more than women (27%).

IllicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said: “Anyone’s first love will have a profound effect on their lives.

With so many of us on social media, it is far easier to secretly track how they are getting on and it is not surprising that most people have done this.

The survey shows clearly that women are far keener than men to talk about their experiences with previous lovers.

I think this is because they want to make sure they don’t repeat previous mistakes and are generally happier talking about their feelings.

Men are much more likely to contact a former lover directly. They also reminisce more fondly about their ex-lovers than women.

I think we can safely say that these two findings are connected: men are much keener on having sex again with their first love than women who are more prepared to move on with their lives.”

IllicitEncounters.com has more than one million members in the UK.

The average income of male members is £54,000 and there are more than 20,000 people online looking for affairs each month.

NOTES TO EDITOR 

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

We All Know What Counts As Cheating, but Here’s What Doesn’t…​

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  • Flirting, a drunken kiss and attending a strip club are just some of the things that DON’T count as cheating
  • Nearly two thirds of men and over half of women would forgive their partner if they caught them sending intimate messages to someone else
  • However, 89% of men and 93% of women would end their relationship if they caught their partner getting intimate with someone else
  • The results come from a survey of over 2,500 members from IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people

There are no hard and fast rules as to what constitutes cheating. Or at least there weren’t.IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, have written the rule-book on cheating, compiled from suggestions and responses of over 2,500 of their members.

Cheating includes:

  • Sexting
  • Sexual intercourse
  • Other sexual activities (e.g. oral sex)
  • Dating someone outside of your relationship
  • All of the above, even if the relationship isn’t ‘official’

Cheating doesn’t include:

  •  Flirting
  •  Romantic and intimate thoughts about someone other than your partner
  •  Kissing someone while drunk
  •  Holding hands with someone other than your partner
  •  Denying being married / in a relationship
  •  Sleeping in the same bed with a friend of the opposite gender
  •  Dancing with a member of the opposite gender
  •  Going to a strip club
  •  Liking or commenting on someone else’s photo on social media
  •  Remaining close friends with an old flame

However, despite there being an overall consensus, the numbers did differ slightly depending on gender. 82% of men felt that flirting with someone didn’t constitute cheating, compared to 60% of women. And while 68% of men didn’t think that lying about their relationship status counted as being unfaithful, a little over half (53%) of women felt the same way.

83% of men felt that going to a strip club didn’t constitute cheating, and a surprisingly high number of women (77%) agreed. A high number of both men and women, 96% and 93% respectively, felt that liking or positing flattering comments on someone else’s photo on social media also didn’t cross any lines.

The survey also found that 65% of men and 54% of women would forgive their partner if they caught them sending intimate messages to another person, while 89% of men and 93% of women would break off their relationship if they caught their significant other getting intimate in any way with someone else.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, explains:

“While sex or sexting might be the obvious lines in the sand, it’s quite surprising to see the things that don’t fall under the bracket of cheating.

It seems that many people are willing to forgive a kiss, so long as it’s while under the influence of alcohol, while flirting and even going to a strip club don’t cross any lines.”

Emily, 37, explains:

“For me, cheating is all about the intent behind it. If the man I was seeing cared for someone more than me, and expressed those emotions by sexting or dating her behind my back, that’s not ok.

But a drunken kiss, the odd bit of flirting… look, we’ve all made mistakes, and context is important. Remaining monogamous is incredibly difficult – I don’t believe that all of us haven’t had an inappropriate thought about someone else at some stage, that doesn’t make us all adulterers.”

NOTES TO EDITOR 

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Prime Real Estate – the Building Blocks of Infidelity

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  • There’s a positive correlation between the value of the property someone lives in, and the likelihood that they are a cheater or have been cheated on themselves
  • People marry for money, not love, which leads to an unhappy marriage once the charm of living a luxurious lifestyle wears off
  • The most adulterous town and borough in the UK are unsurprisingly two very affluent areas (High Wycombe and the Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea)
  • The research was conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

If you’re looking on enviously at your friend’s semi-detached house in a leafy suburb, here’s a silver lining for you: they’re more likely to be cheated on (or be a cheater themselves).

That’s according to IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, who surveyed over 1500 of their members. From their research IllicitEncounters.com were able to conclude the following:

  • 4% own a property worth between £200,000 – £300,000
  • 11% own a property worth between £300,000 – £400,000
  • 11% own a property worth between £400,000 – £500,000
  • 13% own a property worth between £500,000 – £600,000
  • 18% own a property worth between £600,000 – £700,000
  • 20% own a property worth between £700,000 – £800,000
  • 10% own a property worth £800,000 or more
  • 13% don’t own a property

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, explains: ”Under the right set of circumstances, anyone can have an affair, and while an affair is wealth agnostic, there’s certainly some key links between a person’s disposable income, specifically the property they own, and the likelihood of them having an affair.”

One of those links is the proportion of people who marry for money and not love.

“While the terms ‘sugar daddy’ and ‘gold digger’ can come across as derogatory, when you dig a little deeper, you’ll find that there are some nuggets of truth in there,” says Grant. “The lure of money can be hard to resist, but there’s only so much that it can do,” he adds. “While the initial charm of living a comfortable or luxurious lifestyle wears off, you’re left with one person in the relationship, if not both, unhappy with the situation that they’ve found themselves in.”

It’s an idea that’s corroborated by the Infidelity Index. Released last month, the Infidelity Index revealed the most adulterous towns in the UK, with High Wycombe and the Royal Borough of Kensington and Chelsea topping the list for the most adulterous town in the UK and most adulterous London borough respectively.

“It was of little surprise to us to see that two very affluent areas topped the Infidelity Index this year,” adds Grant.

“Money can buy a lot of things, but love and happiness? Maybe not.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email:presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

“I’m just not ready for commitment yet” – most popular line women use to dump a partner, according to new research

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“I’m just not ready for commitment yet” – most popular line women use to dump a partner, according to new research

* Second most popular is “This is going too fast for me” and “We’re just not a good match” is third;

* The top answer men use for ending a relationship with a woman is the much more brutal: “It’s just not working;”

* Women are more concerned about softening the blowing and not hurting their partner’s feelings;

* Men are more likely to highlight poor sex and lack of physical compatibility in their answers;

* The answers are from a new poll of 1,000 people by Britain’s biggest extra-marital dating site, IllicitEncounters.com

Women have revealed their ten favourite lines for telling a partner a relationship is over and the top answer is: “I’m just not ready for commitment yet.”

The second most popular line is “This is going to fast for me” and the third is: “We’re just not a good match.”

The results show that women are far more sensitive then men when it comes to ending a relationship.

The top answer for men ending a relationship with a woman is the far more brutal: “It’s just not working.”

In second place for men is “I’ve met someone else” and “I’m not attracted to you any more” is third.

The results are revealed in a new survey of 1,000 people by Britain’s biggest extra-marital affairs dating site, IllicitEncounters.com.

Women are more concerned about softening the blow and coming up with reasons for the break-up which hide their lover’s failings.

Men are far more likely to tell it straight and say exactly why they want to end it, even if that involves admitting they have met someone else.

Poor sex and lack physical compatibility were far more important to men than women in the reasons they give for ending a relationship.

Women are more likely than men to end a relationship face-to-face but both sexes are increasingly using email and even text to tell a lover they are history.

Just over half of women (52%) would meet a partner to say the relationship is over, while fewer than half of men (43%) would break the news in person.

A third of women prefer to end a relationship over the phone (27%), 15% have done it by email and 8% have done it by text.

Men are more likely to give the bad news electronically – 21% of men have dumped a partner by email and 19% have done it by text, while just 17% prefer to do it on the phone.
llicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said that increasing numbers of online daters jump quickly from one relationship to the next.

He said: “They meet someone they like, have some fun and then quickly moved on. If you are going to be a success dating online you have to learn how to end a relationship without causing too much fuss.

“Men could learn a lot from women in the art of letting a partner now gently. Women far more likely to find euphemisms to sweeten the pill – saying it is a ‘relationship’ failure rather than being down to the man’s failings.

“Men have much less imagination and just tell women straight what has gone wrong.”
Every week, around 20,000 people in the UK are having affairs on IllicitEncounters.com.
The average income of the men on the site is £54,000 a year, with most working in professional jobs.

The most popular answers for ending a relationship

Women

1 I am not ready for commitment yet.
2 This is going too fast for me.
3 We’re not a good match.
4 We want different things.
5 I need to concentrate on my career.
6 I don’t like your friends or family.
7 It’s just not working.
8 You are not mature enough.
9 We have not got enough in common.
10 I don’t trust you.

Men

1 It’s just not working.
2 I’ve met someone else.
3 I’m not attracted to you any more.
4 We’ve lost that sexual spark.
5 It’s not you, it’s me.
6 I need to concentrate on my career.
7 We want different things.
8 I don’t want to see you any more.
9 I am not ready for commitment yet.
10 We have not got enough in common.

How to tell a partner they are dumped

Women

1 Face to face – 52%
2 Over the phone – 27%
3 By email – 15%
4 By text – 8%

Men

1 Face to face – 43%
2 Email – 21%
3 By text – 19%
4 Over the phone 17%

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

What time is Sex O’Clock? 10.24pm on a Saturday night – that is when most couples are having sex, according to new research

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* Peak time comes just six minutes before Match of the Day – suggesting sex is more important than football or men don’t last very long!
* We actually desire sex most at 5.35pm on Saturdays – but it is far trickier to make love at that time;
* 55% of couples are so busy they need to ‘schedule’ sex in their diaries;
* Most popular activities before sex are a romantic meal and watching TV;

* Findings come from a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s biggest dating site for married people
Sex O’Clock – the time of the week when most couples are having sex – is 10.24pm on a Saturday night, according to new research.
It was the peak time for love-making and usually followed a romantic meal and a spell watching TV.
The busiest time for sex comes just six minutes before the start of Match Of The Day – suggesting sex is more important than football to most couples or men don’t last very long in bed!
Saturdays are by far the most popular day for sex – chosen by 42% of couples, followed by Sundays (26%) and Fridays (22%).
However, the time when couples most desire sex and when they actually do it differs by almost five hours.
The time when we are most aroused is 5.35pm on a Saturday – but clearly there are fewer opportunities to have sex in the late afternoon.
The survey showed that our sex lives are a constant battle between desire and opportunity.
A third of us are most aroused first thing in the morning – yet just 12% make love at that time because of work pressures.
We desire sex far more in the summer – named as the sexiest season by 62% of respondents, followed by winter (20%), spring (14%) and autumn (4%).
The findings come in a survey of 1,000 people by IllicitEncounters.com – Britain’s biggest dating site for married people.
Around half of couples (45%) are so busy that they ‘schedule’ sex with their long-term partner or their lover in a diary.
Six out of ten couples have booked a hotel getaway specifically to get some time alone for sex and intimacy.
Alcohol is not a key component of most couples’ foreplay – with 60% saying they rarely drink before having sex. Less than a quarter (22%) said they often boozed before love-making.
The most popular activity prior to sex was a romantic meal, followed by watching TV, talking intimately, going to the pub and a night out with friends.
IllicitEncounters.com spokesman Christian Grant said that while Saturdays was also by far the most popular day of the week for sex, Friday was the most popular day for affairs.
He said: “People cheating on their partners prefer Fridays to Saturdays for illicit encounters for the very simple reason that they can use work as a cover.
“Having a few drinks with colleagues is by far the most popular excuse love cheats use to cover up for their affair. Obviously that is easiest to do on a Friday than a Saturday.
What this new research shows is that cheaters are getting the best of both worlds at weekends when it comes for sex – Friday nights with their lover and Saturday nights with their spouse!”
IllicitEncounters.com has more than one million members seeking affairs with around 20,000 couples active on the site each month.
Most members are white collar professionals with an average income of £54,000 a year.
 
What is your favourite day of the week for sex?

1 Saturday (42%)
2 Sunday (26%)
3 Friday (22%)
4 Wednesday (4%)
5 Thursday (3%)
6 Tuesday (2%)
7 Monday (1%)

What are you most likely to be doing before having sex?

1 Romantic meal
2 Watching TV
3 Talking intimately
4 Going to the pub
5 Out with friends

Over Half of Wives Want More Sex from their Husbands

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  • 57% of women (who have been married for over 5 years) are “dissatisfied” with the amount of sex they are getting
  • 62% are unhappy with their partner’s performance in bed
  • Half of women want to get intimate at least twice a month
  • 60% felt that a lack of intimacy has led them to want to have an affair
  • The survey comes from IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

Women across the UK are moaning and groaning, but it’s for all the wrong reasons. That’s according to IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, who surveyed nearly 2000 female members who have been married for over 5 years to find out how satisfied they were with the intimate side of their marriage.

57% of respondents reported a “dissatisfaction” with the amount of sex they were getting, while an even greater number, 62%, were unhappy with their husband’s performance between the sheets.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Christian Grant, said: “It doesn’t make for good reading. You’ll often find that, as a relationship goes on, the spark slowly starts to fade, and getting intimate can become more of a chore or force of habit. Evidently however, for many women that simply isn’t enough, and you can’t really blame them.”

As to how much counts as ‘enough,’ IllicitEncounters.com’s survey found that 50% of respondents felt that getting intimate at least twice a month was sufficient. 27% felt that once a month was enough, while 10% want to have sex three times a month. Of the remaining 13%, 5% want to get intimate 2-3 times a week, with 3% stating that more than once a week was enough.

The survey also showed that a lack of intimacy could potentially lead to many women cheating on their husbands, with over half (60%) of respondents touting the poor physical side to their relationship as their main reason for joining IllicitEncounters.com.

“Needless to say, a lack of passion in a relationship, whether that’s down to quality or quantity, could very easily prove to be a major stumbling block,” adds Grant.

“Saying ‘hey honey, you’re not quite good enough where it counts’ isn’t an easy thing for any woman to say to her husband, but at the same time, very few people will sit around and refuse to act on their instincts – they’re only human, after all.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 genuine UK users since 2004, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2004, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Christian Grant:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer