Like Dave Grohl and Kyle Walker’s lovers, women having affairs fear pregnancy drama

* News that Foo Fighters’ Dave Grohl cheated on his wife and fathered a baby with his lover has sent shockwaves worldwide.

* In both the case of Grohl and Manchester City footballer Kyle Walker, the men have decided to stay with their wives, abandoning their lovers.

* 45% of women admit that they have had a pregnancy scare whilst having an affair, and 83% of those feared being ditched by their lover if they were having a baby.

* Study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s largest extramarital dating site

Celebrities like Dave Grohl and Kyle Walker have made headlines for fathering secret children during their extramarital affairs, sending shockwaves through their marriages and their public lives. But while the world watches these high-profile dramas unfold, many women caught up in affairs are facing a very similar, terrifying reality – the dreaded pregnancy scare.

Affairs can be thrilling and full of passion, but the fear of an unplanned pregnancy can turn that excitement into a nightmare. In a recent poll from affairs site IllicitEncounters.com involving 2,000 women, 45% of female members admitted to having a pregnancy scare during their affair. Many of them found themselves panicking over the possibility that they could be carrying their lover’s child, just like the situations that have rocked the lives of Grohl and Walker.

For many women involved in affairs, the fear of becoming pregnant by their lover is all too real. While the media focuses on the chaos caused when famous men like Dave Grohl and Kyle Walker father children with their mistresses, what’s often missed is the emotional turmoil for the ‘other woman’.

One member currently using IllicitEncounters.com, who wanted to remain anonymous, shared her anxiety during a scare: “I missed my period, and my heart sank because I hadn’t had sex with my husband for months. The thought of being pregnant with my lover’s baby and having to explain that to my husband was horrifying. It was weeks of stress until I found out it was a false alarm, but I genuinely thought my world was about to explode.”

Of the women who experienced a pregnancy scare, 83% feared their lover would abandon them if they fell pregnant. Just like in the cases of Walker and Grohl, the man is often torn between his family and his mistress, and many choose to return to the safety of their marriage.

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com said ‘The fear of falling pregnant during an affair is very real – many women in these situations have found themselves wondering what they would do if that scare turned into a baby. Would they be left alone to raise a child while their lover returns to his wife? 

In both the cases of Dave Grohl and Kyle Walker’s drama, it’s the mother of the child born outside of the marriage who is abandoned, while the men continue to play happy families with their wives – so this really is a legitimate fear.”

Study reveals nearly everyone is guilty of mentally cheating during sex

* Following the hotly anticipated release of Gillian Anderson’s new book WantIllicitEncounters.com has unveiled a revealing study on sexual fantasies.

* New research shows that a whopping 90% of people have thought about someone else whilst having sex with their partners at some stage of their relationship.

* Men are more likely to fantasise about celebrities, whilst women are thinking about ex partners – and surprisingly, farmers.

* Scenarios at work are the biggest turn on for men, and sun-soaked beaches are the number one location for female fantasies.

A shocking new study has uncovered that nearly everyone is guilty of mentally straying during sex. 

The research was conducted by extramarital dating site IllicitEncounters.com following the release of actress Gillian Anderson’s highly anticipated book, Want – a collection of steamy sexual fantasies compiled by actress Gillian Anderson, which has sparked fresh conversations about the hidden depths of human desire.

Polling 2,000 participants – evenly split between men and women – IllicitEncounters.com, which will be celebrating its 20th birthday in October, revealed that a staggering 90% of people have fantasised about someone other than their partner while getting intimate at some point in their relationship. 

In fact, 86% of men and an astonishing 97% of women admit to letting their imaginations wander to someone other than their partner while having sex.

For men, celebrities dominate the fantasy world, with 19% admitting to thinking about famous faces. Ex-partners and coworkers also feature prominently, at 16% and 15% respectively. 

Women, however, are more likely to fantasise about exes (22%) and coworkers (19%), but the real surprise? Farmers make an unexpected appearance, ranking fourth among women’s most fantasised about figures. This curious attraction may be tied to the ongoing public fascination with Jeremy Clarkson, who was recently crowned the UK’s sexiest man for the second year running by female users of IllicitEncounters.com.

When it comes to the settings for these fantasies, men imagine steamy scenarios at work (25%), in a park (18%), or even on a plane (12%). Hotels also make an appearance, and some fantasise about romantic rendezvous in lifts and even police stations. 

For women, it’s all about sun-soaked beaches (23%), work-related trysts (19%), and hotel escapades (15%). Clearly a fan of the outdoors when it comes to getting intimate, fields, parks and forests are also featured in the most popular fantasy locations.

Surprisingly, the vast majority of people – 89% – don’t view fantasising about someone else as cheating, and only 11% see it as a form of infidelity.

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, commented on the results of the study, “Mental fantasies are a natural part of human sexuality. While they might seem like a form of cheating to some, for most, they’re simply a way to explore desires and enhance sexual experiences. 

It’s important to communicate with your partner and understand each other’s boundaries and expectations, but now there’s confirmation – if you’re thinking about someone else during sex… it’s normal!”

“I’m a domme – people pay me to make them suffer but my long-term partner has no idea”

* Jennifer, 30 from Brighton, has been in a committed relationship for 11 years, but leads a double life as a dominatrix, fulfilling her clients’ extreme desires without her partner’s knowledge.

* She caters to successful, high-powered men, including doctors and executives she meets on extramarital dating site IllicitEncounters.com

* Jennifer’s partner remains completely unaware of her secret life, which she believes is the only way to fulfil her unique sexual needs while maintaining her relationship.

On the surface, Jennifer, 30 from Brighton, seems to have it all – a long-term relationship of 11 years and a stable, normal life. But behind closed doors, she’s living a double life that would shock her partner to the core. By day, she’s just your average girlfriend, but by night, she transforms into a ruthless dominatrix, making powerful men pay to be humiliated and degraded – all while her partner remains blissfully unaware.

Jennifer’s journey into the world of domination started six years ago when she realised her relationship was falling flat in the bedroom. “I figured out that I need a domme/sub dynamic instead of a regular relationship,” she spills. “Right now, I juggle around three regular subs at a time.”

And these aren’t just any men – they’re high-flying professionals with big bank accounts and even bigger secrets. “I’ve never met a submissive on IllicitEncounters.com whose wife has a clue about his kink,” Jennifer reveals, referencing the affair website where she meets her clients. These men, often doctors, lawyers, and financial execs, are desperate to be dominated in ways their wives could never imagine.

For Jennifer, the thrill isn’t just in the whips and chains – it’s in the power play. “The real satisfaction comes from the power exchange, not the physical acts,” she explains. “When we’re in session, these men worship me like a queen. The power rush I get knowing they’ll do anything I say is intoxicating. They love being humiliated, and I love being in control.”

But here’s the kicker – her partner has no idea what she’s really into. “He’d be horrified if he found out about my secret life,” Jennifer admits. “But this is the only way I can satisfy my cravings. My subs and I get to indulge in our twisted dynamic, and it doesn’t interfere with my home life.”

And if you think these men just want a quick thrill, think again. Some are shelling out serious cash to bow down to Jennifer. “I’ve had subs pay as little as £30 just for a chat,” she says. “Others send me ‘tributes’ – that’s cash or gifts to show their appreciation. One guy even offered £300 a month for regular sessions, but I had to turn him down. And when I’m under the weather or on my period? Some of them send money to cheer me up!”

Jennifer’s story exposes a hidden world where powerful men submit to their darkest desires in secret. A recent survey conducted by IllicitEncounters.com found that only 34% of 1,600 people polled feel comfortable discussing their sexual fantasies with their partners. And for those who do, a staggering 29% end up having a negative effect on their relationship.

Sex and relationships expert Jessica Leoni isn’t surprised by the secrecy. “Kink-shaming is clearly a big issue in some relationships. It’s alarming how many people can’t be honest about their desires with their partners. Even worse, when they do open up, it often backfires and hurts the dynamic between two people who should be able to be open about everything.

Stories like Jennifer’s are quite unique, but it’s great to know that people feel like they can be their true selves when using IllicitEncounters.com.”

1 in 4 women use Ring doorbell to catch cheating partners, study reveals

* New research has been released following news that a Premier League footballer was caught cheating on his wife after she reviewed their Ring doorbell footage.

* 65% of women have caught their partner cheating thanks to technology.

* Ring doorbells are now the number one way women are busting their partner’s affair (24%).

* 38% of women suspicious of their partner’s shenanigans have gifted them gadgets that make it easier to discreetly keep tabs on them.

* Study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s largest extramarital dating site

In a world driven by technology and AI, keeping secrets under wraps has become more challenging than ever – especially for those cheating on their partners.

It turns out the pursuit of secret affairs has become a high-stakes game, with an ever-increasing chance of being exposed, and it’s all thanks to tech. 

New research by extramarital dating site IllicitEncounters.com found women are turning into digital detectives, with 65% saying they busted their partner’s affair by using technology.

38% of women even admitted to gifting their partners gadgets that could help them keep an eye on what they’re getting up to.

The study which involved 1,500 members of the website was conducted following news that a Premier League footballer was caught cheating on his wife after she went through footage recorded on their Ring doorbell.

The poll found that Ring doorbells are the top way women are discovering their partner’s affair (24%). Alexa is also a top choice (18%) followed by Whatsapp and social media alerts popping up on lock screens (13%) which are a big give away when it comes to exposing cheats.

There are more novel and much more sophisticated ways people are getting caught out these days too – Fitness watches (8%) and Find My Phone location tracking (7%) also made it on the list of how cheats are being busted by their wives. 

On the other hand, old-school methods like checking browser history (11%), emails (9%) and call logs (5%) are still trusty ways women are discovering their partners are love rats.

And 2% of people even admitted to using AI voice cloning (2%) to discover whether partners are being unfaithful.

Jasmine, 37 from Somerset, a member of IllicitEncounters, shared her story on the topic saying, “ I never imagined I’d discover my husband’s affair through our Ring doorbell. I was checking the footage to see if a package had arrived, but instead, I saw him sneaking a woman into our home while I was out. 

My heart sank as I watched them walk in, laughing and holding hands, like they’d done this before. The betrayal was right there in front of me, undeniable and painful. 

Rather than tell my husband what I saw, my immediate reaction was to have a revenge affair. I don’t feel particularly guilty about it because ultimately if he does find out, I’ve got video evidence of what he’s been up to.”

Fiona, 37 from Windsor, another member of the extramarital dating site who took part in the study said, “I found out my partner was cheating on me one weekend when I went to visit my mum in Cornwall, and it was all thanks to Alexa. I’d had my suspicions about what he was getting up to, so as soon as I got home I took a peek at the voice history log.

That’s when I found out he’d asked Alexa to play our ‘sexy’ playlist we’d put together – a bit weird because as far as I knew, it was something we’d only listen to when things got steamy between us. I discovered you can actually listen to Alexa recordings, and when he asked to play that specific playlist I heard a woman laugh in the background.

When I brought it up, he unsurprisingly came clean about it straightaway – I mean he couldn’t really deny it, the proof was there!”

Sex and relationships expert for IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni, commented on the study, “Technology has advanced in ways we could never have imagined over the past few years, and in some cases it’s made it super easy to catch cheaters in the act – though I have to say, it doesn’t appear to be having an effect on the number of people having affairs as the figure continues to rise.

The Premier League footballer caught out by his Ring doorbell scored an embarrassing own-goal, but the results of our study show he’s not the only one. It’s also a bit of a modern-day cautionary tale: if you’re going to break the rules, don’t forget the cameras are always watching!”

Results

Have you ever caught your partner using technology?

Yes – 65%

No – 35%

How have you used technology to discover your partner was cheating?

Ring doorbell – 24%

Alexa – 18%

Phone notifications- 13%

Checking browser history – 11%

Checking emails – 9%

Fitness watch – 8%

Find My Phone location tracking – 7%

Call history – 5%

AI voice cloning – 2%

Other – 3%

Experts warn of infidelity surge as temperatures set to rise during ‘cheatwave’

* Rising temperatures are set to cause a wave of infidelity in the UK.

* Hot weather leads to an increase in feel-good chemicals in the body, leading to boosted libidos.

* The ‘cheatwave’ is causing people to take more risks and wanting to try something new, with activity on extramarital dating site IllicitEncounters.com set to soar.

As the mercury rises, so too could the risk of infidelity. According to sex and relationship expert at IllicitEncounters.com, Jessica Leoni, warmer temperatures are sparking a cheating frenzy across the UK. 

It’s not just the thermometers that are rising; the heat can also turn up the heat in our love lives, often leading to risky behaviour. Leoni explains that hot weather increases levels of feel-good chemicals like dopamine and serotonin. This boost can lower inhibitions and heighten arousal, making people more likely to engage in infidelity.

“Heatwaves can act like a powerful aphrodisiac,” says the sexpert. “They lower our self-control and make us more likely to give in to temptations.”

It’s a phenomenon that the UK’s leading married dating site sees when temperatures soar. Last year, IllicitEncounters.com reported a 64% increase in activity during the June heatwave, and this year they are bracing for a repeat performance.

“We’re already seeing increased engagement on our website as temperatures creep up” Leoni warns. “It’s a clear sign that the ‘cheatwave’ effect is kicking in again.”

In a poll of 800 new members on the extramarital dating site, 76% cited the weather as playing a role in their decision to sign up, and 69% agreed that higher temperatures made them more likely to take risks and try something new.

Several factors contribute to this steamy ‘cheatwave’ trend. Hot weather means more social events, more revealing clothing, and more opportunities to meet new people. Leoni points out that these factors combined with the physiological effects of heat can create a perfect storm for infidelity.

“Cities are especially prone to this phenomenon,” she explains. “The vibrant social scenes and the sheer number of people increase the chances of flirty encounters. However, rural areas aren’t immune – any place where people are more active and social during hot weather can see a spike in cheating.”

Over half of women are turning to psychics to catch cheating partners, study finds

* A new study has revealed that women are turning to the spirit world for answers to their relationship woes. 

* 52% of women have sought help from psychics and clairvoyants in the hope of discovering whether their partner is being unfaithful.

* Of those, 68% said their suspicions about their partner’s infidelity were confirmed and 61% of those who spoke with psychics reported feeling more anxious and insecure after a reading.

* 1 in 5 women revealed they avoid seeing psychics completely, fearing they’ll discover the worst.

* Study conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s largest extramarital dating site.

Forget hiring a private detective or trawling through phones, a growing number of suspicious women are turning to the supernatural for answers when it comes to matters of the heart. A new study has revealed that psychics are becoming the go-to detectives for uncovering infidelity.

According to a survey by the UK’s largest extramarital dating site, IllicitEncounters.com, a whopping 83% of the 1,500 female members polled have questioned their partner’s fidelity at some point in their relationship.

Traditionally, people have turned to private investigators or relied on tech to uncover the truth. But, it seems the digital age is giving way to a more mystical approach.

In fact, more than half (52%) sought guidance from psychics to validate their concerns about their partner. And for 68% of them, those crystal-ball gazing sessions confirmed their suspicions. 

While some found the answers they were seeking, not everyone walked away feeling better. In fact, 61% of women who used psychic services reported feeling more anxious and insecure about their relationships afterward. 

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com commented, “It’s fascinating to see the rise in women turning to psychics for answers about infidelity. 

It’s a trend that highlights the deep need for certainty and validation in relationships. When people feel their relationship is at risk, they’ll often go to great lengths to find the truth, even if it means consulting the mystical world.”

Interestingly, of the 52% who turned to psychics for relationship advice, Scots are the most likely to want clarity, with 43% admitting to seeking supernatural guidance. This is compared to 31% in England, 16% in Wales, and just 10% in Northern Ireland. 

Caroline from Aberdeen, a user of the married dating site who took part in the survey, said, “I suspected my partner was being unfaithful for quite some time. I tried everything: checking his phone, analysing his behaviour, even installing a tracking app (which, by the way, I’m not proud of). Frustrated and desperate for answers, I booked a session with a local psychic.

During the reading, she revealed details about my partner’s recent activities and it all just added up. Armed with this new insight and confirmation that he was cheating on me, I actually didn’t confront him. Instead, I decided to get back at him by having my own affair. 

I never imagined I’d find out the truth through a psychic, but in the end, it gave me the closure I needed.”

“HRT Boosted My Sex Drive – Now I’m Having an Affair Behind My Husband’s Back”

* Nikki, 51 from Berkshire, reveals how she feels ‘reborn’ after being prescribed HRT by her doctor, leading to a life-changing libido lift.

* The married woman describes how her sex drive ‘went through the roof’ and led her to join extramarital dating site IllicitEncounters.com

* She explains that the combination of HRT and joining IllicitEncounters.com has transformed her life, and how after 10 years of being celibate she is making up for lost time with a vengeance.

A wife has revealed how HRT had a dramatic impact on her sex drive, leading her to have multiple affairs with married men.

Hormone Replacement Therapy (HRT) is making waves in the UK, not just for alleviating symptoms of the menopause, but for significantly impacting women’s sex lives. According to the Department of Health and Social Care, around 15% of women aged 45-64 in England are currently prescribed HRT, and this figure continues to rise. 

Nikki, a 51-year-old woman from Berkshire, started taking HRT nine months ago and it was at that moment she found herself at a crossroads. Feeling desperately unhappy and trapped in a stagnant marriage, she joined IllicitEncounters.com to shake things up and find some joy. Her loneliness in her marriage was the main driver, but she was also battling classic symptoms of perimenopause like brain fog, insomnia, aches and pains, and an almost non-existent libido.

Her journey with HRT began after a candid conversation with her doctor, who suggested the use of hormone patches which turned out to be a rollercoaster ride. “The dose might have been too high because I felt like a Duracell bunny – constantly energised and with an insatiable libido. It was as if I was high on life, but it was too much,” Nikki recalls. 

This surge in sexual energy is not uncommon; a recent poll of 800 women on IllicitEncounters.com who are currently taking HRT revealed that 86% have seen a libido life since starting the therapy.

After discussing these intense effects with her doctor, Nikki was recommended a Mirena coil combined with oestrogen gel – the results were nothing short of life-changing. She found herself with the perfect amount of energy, her sleep patterns improved, and her libido was through the roof. “For the first time, I genuinely felt alive and intensely sexual. The confidence boost was undeniable; I felt more attractive, lost weight, saw my hormonal skin clear up, and even my hair became thicker,” she says. 

In fact, according to IllicitEncounters’ poll, 68% of women taking HRT reported a significant improvement in self-image and confidence, while 71% felt more sexually satisfied.

Nikki became obsessed with sex, thinking about it constantly. Masturbation became a daily necessity, and she began exploring with toys and watching porn for the first time in her life. After years of a dormant sex life, she was making up for lost time with a vengeance. 

Unfortunately, reviving her sex life with her husband was out of the question. Being much older than her and struggling with erectile dysfunction for years, Nikki’s husband forced the couple to live a celibate life for over a decade. It was only after taking HRT that she realised that she needed more.

Nikki’s experience aligns with findings that 59% of women say their partners couldn’t keep up with their increased sex drive after taking HRT, prompting them to look elsewhere for sexual fulfilment.

Joining IllicitEncounters, Nikki sought not just an emotional connection but physical satisfaction too. “When I met my lover, he turned out to be incredible in bed, giving me sensations I had never experienced before, likely because I was perpetually aroused. We are both eager to explore new things and fantasies together, something neither of us anticipated finding on IE,” she shares. 

This combination of HRT and IllicitEncounters has been a revelation for Nikki, making her deeply question her marriage. “At 51, I feel like I’ve been reborn, and I’m increasingly convinced that I shouldn’t have to stay in a stale and unfulfilling relationship. HRT has given me a new lease on life, and my affair has shown me what I’ve been missing. It’s a complex situation, but one thing is clear: I refuse to go back to feeling lifeless and unfulfilled,” she concludes.

According to Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, “Nikki’s story isn’t uncommon. Not only can HRT alleviate the uncomfortable symptoms of menopause for many women, but it can also rejuvenate their sex lives and self-confidence. For some, like Nikki, this newfound vitality has led to significant changes and challenges in their personal relationships.

HRT is not just a remedy for menopause symptoms but a catalyst for transformation, leading women like Nikki to rediscover their desires and redefine their lives.”

Today is the peak day for affairs as schools break up for the summer holidays, study finds

* Dubbed ‘Frisky Friday’, there is expected to be a 74% rise in people seeking an affair as schools break up for the summer holidays.

* A whopping 41% of cheats will be meeting up with their lovers at lunchtime today, whilst 7% have admitted they’ve planned a sneaky weekend away before spending the next six weeks with family.

* For cheats who won’t be able to see their lovers this summer, they’ll be using discreet apps like Telegram (42%) and Signal (31%). Whilst others have set up private email addresses (28%), bought a separate phone (8%) and even plan on passing on messages through mutual friends (5%).

* The study was conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s largest extramarital dating site.

As the temperature rises and schools close their doors for the summer, there’s more than just holidays on the horizon. Today is the day people are most likely to cheat – dubbed ‘Frisky Friday’, the 19th July promises a flurry of secret meet-ups, as love rats scramble to spend time with their lovers before settling into full-time family mode over the summer break.

According to statistics from the UK’s largest extramarital dating site, IllicitEncounters.com, the first two weeks of July have already shown a 26% increase in activity. However, the real ‘cheatwave’ is predicted for the third week, with user activity expected to spike by 55% and that’s due to peak today, as a whopping 74% rise in user activity is anticipated.

So, when exactly will these secret liaisons take place? According to a poll conducted by the affairs site involving 1,500 of its members, ‘Frisky Friday’ is looking to be a packed day for love rats. The majority of trysts are set to take place during lunch breaks, as 41% of cheaters slip away from their desks for a bite of forbidden fruit. 

A substantial 30% have scheduled evening meet-ups, sneaking in some passion before heading home to their unsuspecting partners. 

Others will be kick starting their day with an early encounter, as 22% plan on engaging in morning mischief.

The boldest of the bunch, making up 7%, are planning entire weekends away, fully immersing themselves in their extramarital escapades.

Maintaining these secret relationships over the summer holidays, with less freedom for parents and playing happy families becoming their priority, cheaters have revealed which methods they’ll be using to keep in touch with their lovers.

Instant messaging apps Telegram (42%) and Signal (31%) are the top choice for love rats looking to stay connected with their illicit partners over the summer break. 

Dedicated email accounts created with the sole purpose of keeping in touch with lovers for secret correspondence will help 28% of love rats maintain a cloak of secrecy.

8% of cheats will be using burner phones to maintain contact with their paramours, whilst 5% will be enlisting mutual friends as go-betweens for an extra layer of discretion this summer.

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com, commented on the ‘Frisky Friday’ phenomenon, saying, “When the school year wraps up, parents often find themselves with less freedom as the kids are around constantly, and it all becomes about keeping up appearances and family getaways.

On top of that, warmer weather and the excitement of the summer season often lead to increased risk-taking behaviour. We see this ‘cheatwave’ every July, and it seems that this year more people than ever before will be making the most of ‘Frisky Friday’, so couples should keep an eye out for those furtive glances and unexplained absences – today is set to be a day of discreet dalliances and secretive shenanigans.”

Results

When will people be meeting with their lovers on ‘Frisky Friday’?

Lunchtime 41%

Evening 30%

Morning 22%

Weekend away 7%

How will love rats maintain contact with lovers over the summer?

Telegram app 42%

Signal app 31%

Private email address 28%

Separate phone 8%

Contact via mutual friends 5%

Other 6%

Study reveals the surprising effect that Euro 2024 is having on marriages

* An unexpected wave of people have flocked to IllicitEncounters.com since the start of the Euro 2024 tournament – with a shocking 69% of women seeking an affair while the football’s on, up 19%.

* Activity on the married dating site spikes daily between 7pm and 11pm since the start of the tournament, with messaging peaking during halftime.

* Scotland’s last-minute defeat on Sunday saw record numbers of Scots using the site, after their disappointing exit from the tournament.

* The top three cities with the highest increase in site activity during Euro 2024 are Glasgow (42% increase), Aberdeen (39% increase), and London (36% increase).

* ‘Football widows’ are suffering most, with 76% admitting that feeling excluded and ignored by their football-obsessed partners drove them to seek attention elsewhere.

* Poll conducted by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s largest extramarital dating site.

Ah, the Euros! A time for camaraderie, national pride, and… unexpected infidelity? According to experts, the Euro 2024 tournament has sparked a surprising increase in extramarital affairs, particularly amongst women. As the football frenzy grips Europe, it seems the beautiful game might be playing havoc off the pitch as well.

A significant spike in activity has been observed on the UK’s largest extramarital dating site, IllicitEncounters.com between 7pm and 11pm every day since the football tournament began, coinciding with the evening match slots – a surge especially prominent during matches featuring England and Scotland. 

It seems that when the referee blows the whistle, some fans are more than ready to blow off steam in other ways, with data showing a 45% increase in messaging during football games this week, with peak activity during halftime. 

Scotland’s dramatic last-minute defeat on Sunday and subsequent elimination from the Euros saw a record-breaking increase in online activity among Scots, as disappointed fans turned to their devices in droves seeking comfort.

In fact, the top three cities experiencing the highest increase in site activity during Euro 2024 are Glasgow (42% increase), Aberdeen (39% increase), and London (36% increase), with the highs and lows in England and Scotland’s matches clearly having an effect in these urban hubs.

With partners glued to the screen, many women have found themselves becoming ‘football widows’. As a large number of men become completely engrossed in the beautiful game, women are finding themselves with an unusual amount of free time, and as the saying goes, the devil finds work for idle hands. Mix in a dash of loneliness, a sprinkle of neglect, and a hint of resentment, and you’ve got the perfect recipe for a wandering eye. 

According to a poll of 500 new female members using the affairs site, 76% admitted that feeling excluded and ignored by their football-obsessed partners drove them to seek attention elsewhere.

The preference for football over intimacy is also creating a notable divide in many relationships, with 54% of women stating that their partners become unbearable while watching football, leading to an uptick in arguments during the tournament.

For men, “going to the pub” has become the ultimate alibi, with a whopping 68% using this excuse throughout the Euros, providing them with the perfect cover to slip away for a few hours without arousing suspicion.

Jessica Leoni, spokesperson at IllicitEncounters.com, explains, “Football, for many men, becomes an all-consuming passion during these tournaments. When intimacy and communication are benched, it creates a massive divide in relationships.

Since Euro 2024 began on June 14th, we’ve seen a huge surge in new members joining our site, with a particularly interesting twist: 69% of these newcomers are women. Typically, we see a balanced 50/50 split, but the tournament has completely flipped the script.”

Jennifer from Dundee, who joined IllicitEncounters.com during Scotland’s match against Switzerland last week, said “My husband has always been a big fan of football, but the Euros has pushed our relationship to the limit, and he’s never been more obsessed. 

It’s like he transforms into a different person during matches. He just yells at the TV and snaps at me for the smallest things, and that’s when I realised how isolated I felt in my own home.

When I joined the site, I didn’t want to cheat – I was just desperate for some form of connection and attention, and finally that’s what I’m getting!”

Josh from London, who joined the site six months ago but is using the Euro 2024 tournament as an excuse for meeting his lover, said “My wife thinks I’m a footie fanatic, but I actually couldn’t care less about who wins the Euros. 

I was feeling trapped and unfulfilled in my marriage. Joining the site was a way to find excitement and passion again, and when the Euros started, I realised it was the perfect chance for me to meet up with my lover without getting caught.

My wife’s so understanding when it comes to my ‘football nights’, and she doesn’t question it when I say I’m heading to the pub to catch the match. It makes me feel a bit guilty, but the thrill of my double life is too strong to resist.”

UK’s Sexiest Politicians For 2024 Revealed

* Nigel Farage and Suella Braverman are officially the UK’s sexiest politicians.

* With 23% of the female vote and 21% of the male vote, Nigel Farage and Suellla Braverman top the list.

* The Tories beat Labour as the sexiest overall party.

* The results come from a survey of members on IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people.

With the general election just weeks away, IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, has asked its members to take part in a poll to find out which politician they find sexiest.

In a surprise twist, the ever-controversial Nigel Farage, leader of Reform UK, has clinched the top spot, capturing 23% of the female vote. 

Not far behind, rugged and ready Conservative Johnny Mercer snagged second place (18%), with his military background clearing striking a chord with the ladies.

Hot on his heels is Labour leader Keir Starmer, who pulled in 16% of the vote, followed oddly, by Jacob Rees-Mogg (12%) whose old-school charm is seemingly setting hearts aflutter.

Conservative Ben Everett, who came under fire for posting ‘thirst trap’ photos on Instagram in November last year made the top 5 with 9% of the vote.

Sadly for Prime Minister Rishi Sunak, his star seems to have dimmed since 2020, when he topped the poll, this year gaining just 3% of the vote.

For men, the sexiest female politician is, rather controversially, Conservative Suella Braverman (21%).

Close on her heels is Labour’s Rosena Allin-Khan with 19%. Dr. Allin-Khan’s blend of compassion, intelligence, and striking looks clearly makes her a standout politician.

Conservative Esther McVey and former GB News presenter rounded off the top 3 with 15% of the vote.

Overall, the Tories came out on top taking 51% of the total vote share across both male and female categories, making them the sexiest party, compared to a disappointing 28.5% for Labour.

Jessica Leoni, sex and relationships expert at IllicitEncounters.com said, “The latest poll on the UK’s sexiest people in politics has thrown a bit of a curveball with Nigel Farage and Suella Braverman crowned the reigning hotties.

When it comes to what makes politicians sexy, it’s not just about looks – it’s about swagger, confidence, and a dash of power that gets the heart racing. Nigel Farage, with his unapologetic, cheeky grin and devil-may-care attitude, seems to channel that bad boy charm women can’t resist – and his appearance on ‘I’m A Celebrity Get Me Out of Here’ last year clearly worked wonders for his image.

Meanwhile, Suella Braverman’s poised, no-nonsense demeanour exudes a fierce passion and authority that’s seemingly undeniably attractive for a lot of men.

Politics isn’t just about policies – it’s also a stage where charisma shines, and let’s face it, a little bit of controversy adds a spark of sexual intrigue too. 

Our poll will be running for our members right until election day, and I have no doubt we’ll see these politicians shuffling up and down this list based on their actions over the next couple of weeks!”​

Results
Sexiest 
Male Politicians
Nigel Farage, Reform UK – 23%
Johnny Mercer, Conservative – 18%
Keir Starmer, Labour – 16%
Jacob Rees-Mogg, Conservative 12%
Ben Everett, Conservative 9%
Ed Miliband, Labour 7%
James Cleverly, Conservative 4%
Rishi Sunak, Conservative 3%
Ed Davey, Liberal Democrats 2%
Other 6%

Sexiest Female Politicians
Suella Braverman, Conservative 21%
Rosena Allin-Khan, Labour 19%
Esther McVey, Conservative 15%
Penny Mordaunt, Conservative 14%
Angela Rayner, Labour 9%
Laura Trott, Conservative 6%
Dawn Butler, Labour 4%
Anum Qaisar, Scottish National Party 3%
Lisa Nandy, Labour 2%
Other 7%