In it for the thrill
I get a rush from the secrecy of an affair - it's a thrill. Does this happen to anyone else? Nothing gets me going more.
Interested to hear peoples opinions on this one, is it a normal fetish?
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luckystar20 - 28 Jul, 2021 - 05:44AM
l am old school.. l like the traditional way of dating, meeting someone, i.e they call it wooing between a man and a woman get to know each other First establsh a rappo, establish if there is a spark between each other - its the basic rule of lying a foundation before any intimacy happens .Why? Coz the foundation is what is going to build a solid link between a man and a wife -. l enjoy the thrill of the chase - build up to finally getting initimate between a man and a woman. The desire to want someone HOT overrules any desire in the entire world, it is priceless, better still if the spark is mutual "instant sparks" - then it turns into "liquid hotsex" .Thereafter, everytime a man and a woman sets eyes on each other - they are all over each other like a "rash" .This feeling is so hot "just touching each other melts each otehrs hearts -having hot sex anywhere -standing up pinned against the wall, on the floor, on a table etc "oh la la "
Nadia747 - 27 Jul, 2021 - 07:44PM
Me too , I sometimes struggle to get my breath for a few seconds until I tell myself to relax.
I get excited and the feelings is like ( breath in and breath out.
Otherwise I get very disappointed when a man approaches with ( I don't want anything serious, discretion at all the times no leaving anything behind....guess what before I know he now falling for me ( I love you already said ) ooh !!! a bit like a S.A fridge magnet.
Yeah yeah- I don't want anything serious well - can we have sex , hold hands?
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Hornybloke 241 - 21 Jul, 2021 - 01:35PM
The buzz of excitement from meeting someone who is attached is beyond words
orchid1967 - 16 Jul, 2021 - 11:17AM
completely agree with Mandy62. I don't have time for a full time relationship and the 'baggage' that can come with it.
At the present time an affair ideally suits my situation. This may of course change, but Hey! I'm a woman and we change our minds!
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1463136 - 16 Jul, 2021 - 06:05AM
As someone who, as an independent woman, chooses to have a lover rather than a partner I can only speak for myself. I don’t want the added responsibility of another persons life or the angst and insecurities of a full blown relationship. I don’t have the time to devote to it. So, for me, a lover is ideal. I get everything I need and no extra laundry etc (Although I do get through clean sheets at a rate of knots). To say it is all about the thrill, I feel, is a little simplistic. We all go into this for many reasons.
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Borderline847 - 16 Jul, 2021 - 01:24AM
I still get excited after 9 years of an on off IE relationship although I treat every meeting as if it will be the last. On an enforced break at the moment due to holidays and health and family issues!!
1459408 - 14 Jul, 2021 - 01:12PM
Now come on everybody although we may say to ourselves I don’t really want to be on this type of site deep deep deep down inside we do all of us female and male
It’s for the fun it’s for the excitement it’s for the rush it’s for the not knowing it’s for the mind on mind the body on body the skin on skin We all have our own foibles some foibles more acceptable than others
So let’s keep all the semantics out of it we’re all cheaters and so long as we don’t hurt the other people in our lives then we will continue to do this until we decided enough is enough and go fully back to our other lives. So please keep it real everybody keep it real oh yes and as we all like to say have fun
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WolfDancer2015 - 13 Jul, 2021 - 11:23AM
Have to agree with this. The idea of a sceret liason, and the assoicated messages, phone calls and of course meets, brings back much needed excitement. There is a thrill when you see a notification to say you have a message.
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