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1449137 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 09:38PM

Anton555 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 08:48PM

Your IE won't last forever, if you are close the end will hurt and unlike normal relationships you will have no one to talk to about your feelings.

Be selfish and focus on yourself and try to see this life from a different angle. I urge you to talk to someone, ideally a professional and begin to build your self esteem, confidence, happiness and motivatation.

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Anton555 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 08:48PM

Thank you for your comments about my issues and I will take them on board

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1329251 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 05:54PM

I've always loved that side of it, being a married man's little secret. The way I saw it in my teens(albeit I know I was very naive) was that I was getting what his wife didn't want or like anymore. That buzz of being in the house when the cat was away......but I suppose in hindsight the risk was all his end of the day x

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1459578 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 04:10PM

There's definitely a thrill in meeting up with someone who might become a lover...knowing that both of you there's curiosity and anticipation...it only grows when you start to become intimate. For me there's that thrill of the first kiss with a new lover.. discovering how they move and what they get turned on by.

I'm not sure if say it's a fetish but if you in a sexless marriage it's certainly hard to live without once you've tried it.

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1462366 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 03:57PM

yep very true

Princess0121 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 02:30PM

Back to the subject in question.

I do agree that a secret affair is exciting and if you meet a nice partner in crime then it can be a wonderful experience.

It's a nice feeling knowing someone desires you and can't wait to make passionate love to you.

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Princess0121 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 02:27PM

Anton555
Your comment is honest and indeed sad. You should try and speak to someone close to you about it. As long as you are in good health with no major medical conditions then you should make the most of it.

There are always avenues where you can find the help you need. Alternatively, if your IE makes you happy then good luck to you. Just remember it's always a temporary fix and work hard on finding a more permanent solution to your problem.

Best of luck

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Llonelyman - 06 Jul, 2021 - 10:18AM

I love meeting. It gives me a rush

truth and logic - 06 Jul, 2021 - 08:17AM

@sigmaguy...rather a odd comment for a man on a married dating site, sounds almost like you dislike the actions of the very women you want to meet.

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1117169 - 06 Jul, 2021 - 07:44AM

@Anton555

Please believe that better times can be ahead if you want them to be and happiness can be found if you look hard enough for it and work at it. Happiness comes from within and you must not look for others to provide it.

Try to resist those negative thoughts. Many people feel like you have sometimes.

Read " The Rational Male" It might open your eyes!

The more you

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