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1639246 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 06:10PM

Eliza Boo (and Lola_flowers123) - I totally agree with that and was thinking it through after my last post. It’s more the relaxing into a relationship that I enjoy……the less risk you can add in the better. I’m just looking for female company as much as anything and it would be even better if it was socially acceptable.

Being able to segregate one relationship from the other and treat them almost as different worlds is the dream for me I think.

Lola_flowers123 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 05:36PM

Yes for me too

1447655 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 05:31PM

You know, the thrill of secrecy, that whole forbidden fruit thing, I just find it an annoying inconvenience. I wish we lived in a society where having time with a lover away from your family was generally given a blind eye and sort of accepted, like it is if you're an Italian politician. It's the person and what we have with each other that excites me. The process is just a ball ache.

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Paula99 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 03:36PM

Sisyphus51…???

I think you need antibiotics for that 🧐

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1639246 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 03:26PM

I love the bit from the first second of the first meet onwards. When you know for sure that each other are real and genuine (and human!). And even better when it grows into something more…..sharing something together that nobody else knows about. That’s really intimate.

All the stuff beforehand (messaging/ghosting/photo swaps etc) I can happily do without to be honest.

But you can’t have one without the other, which is why we put up with it.

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giggly hamster - 22 Jan, 2024 - 12:18PM

This isn't even a question.

Surely the answer is always a crazy, heart pounding insides doing twisticles yes.

1644662 - 22 Jan, 2024 - 09:37AM

Absolutely it’s a thrill - the temptation of forbidden fruit.

Muslim Wife - 10 Aug, 2021 - 10:15AM

yeah I hate to say it but the taboo aspects of the affair and the secrecy of it all is a huge turn on for me.

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1468440 - 09 Aug, 2021 - 08:10PM

For me its the excitement of meeting someone new, secret texting with the risk of getting caught, planning a way to meet all adds to the thrill

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1465714 - 30 Jul, 2021 - 12:55PM

I get sexually excited and turned on when going to meet someone I have never met before who has the same interests as yourself. You just go with the Flo.