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1672664 - 22 May, 2024 - 07:32PM

Somewhere for coffee and definitely somewhere public. I wouldn’t even entertain the idea of going to a hotel until I’d had a good few meets with them in a public place. As numerous other folk have already said, safety is paramount.

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Paula99 - 22 May, 2024 - 05:56PM

Coffee or a drink at a cafe/pub for an hour is plenty …you will know within the first 10 mins if you want to meet him again 😉…if not walk away ..

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jonsouth2020 - 22 May, 2024 - 03:53PM

coffee first. and that is a bloke speaking

then hotel. dayuse very good but be ready to state your name when asked by the receptionist, and you may not have already given your surname to your partner in crime. Then the receptionist might ask if your partners name. That happened to me at the Premier Inn and I had to stumble pretend I'd forgotten it, which was highly embarrassing, the whole thing has a walk of shame tendency to be prepared to brazen that one out

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1584369 - 22 May, 2024 - 01:11PM

Meet in a public place first before booking a hotel. Keeping safe is a priority.

marklondonengland - 22 May, 2024 - 12:58PM

A first meet in a hotel "day room" - good luck with that. You have not even talked with the person over a glass of wine, but you are already booking the Travelodge...

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EbonyDesires - 22 May, 2024 - 12:27PM

You haven’t asked for jumping into the sheets advice. But it may end up being a one and done if that’s the route you take. But there have been some great recommendations for booking a day room on here

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Secretmeetings - 22 May, 2024 - 11:37AM

A first time meet for me certainly wouldn't involve a hotel room, safety first.

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The Temptress - 11 Apr, 2024 - 12:31PM

Managed some messages with my soon to be meet, while both on holiday, he is currently near where I have a holiday home, but sadly I was away skiing as otherwise I think we might have planned a sneaky meeting. I do like the fact he took the time whilst away to message, it does mean a lot.
After our first outdoor adventure, I think we will be lucky as I have an airbnb I rent out so can tie that in and he has a private place, so if we do hit it off it could be easy to manage. Previous affairs have meant much more planning and adding hotels and travel in the mix. Not long now so fingers crossed we will click.

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Jasmine19 - 09 Apr, 2024 - 09:05AM

When I had my long term affair we used to book a room or airBnB depending how long we could meet for. Only occasionally went to extravagant hotels to keep costs low so we wouldn't get caught. Must say we didn't sleep together straight away we had a few meets before to make sure we clicked because didn't want to just sleep around trying to find someone to have an affair with.

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1661271 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 08:09PM

Try day use ie Southampton and evening rates ie ibis
Nice bed and decent shower

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