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Clickable Connection - 23 Apr, 2025 - 10:10PM

@Purple Dreamer - good common sense advise

ExWRAF ret 2 - 22 Apr, 2025 - 11:44PM

There is a site called day rooms all hotels

SirrahNek - 22 Apr, 2025 - 10:05PM

There’s a lot of common sense here (and entertaining bants), but PurpleDreamer has dropped a really useful tip - and thank you for that. I realise that not all common sense is particularly common, but it is available to all. Useful websites though? That takes knowledge. Thank you.

1610442 - 22 Apr, 2025 - 05:56PM

If your both local go out for a walk I mean dogging 🤦🤦🤦 totally meant walk the dog . 🦮🦮🦮

brilliantdisguise - 22 Apr, 2025 - 03:38PM

Hotel on a first date, could be a problem if you do not fancy each other in the flesh and about as romantic as curb crawling

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Purple dreamer - 22 Apr, 2025 - 03:14PM

I would always suggest a public venue for the first time met
When you need a place there are hotels that do day letting there is a site called dayuse.co.uk

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Dave 2025 - 22 Apr, 2025 - 02:19PM

I'd strongly recommend an open public place obviously not too close to home for obvious reasons.
Take it steady I'm sure you will guage each other say over a coffee.
Might be worth while agreeing some ground rules before you meet so to manage expectations.
However enjoy the excitement and experience there's nothing better than a discrete meeting with a lovely lady friend to boost your battery. Xx

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Old Sapper - 25 May, 2024 - 07:06AM

Quite an old post this one, 2021 in fact.
I wonder if the original poster did meet up and what the outcome was?

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1494077 - 23 May, 2024 - 09:14PM

The Temptress - 23 May, 2024 - 03:13PM

Sounds like you really have something good going there! As you have wished it for yourself; long may it last!

The Temptress - 23 May, 2024 - 03:13PM

I am so glad we had our first meet as a relaxed out door adventure doing what we both love. Now we have moved on, and we are planning to meet if our schedules align in London. I want to spend time with him but we have decided we will both keep our own separate hotel bookings (both will be there under the guise of work) and arrange to meet up (not sure I am comfortable about spending the night together still all quite new). So far things are heading in the right direction. I surprised him at work with a little care package (and a long mac think I might have blown his mind). I think with any meets just think of your safety and do not rush or be pushed into anything you are not comfortable with.

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