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Cold feet

Does anyone get cold feet after arranging a meet? how do you deal with it..? I am serious about meeting someone just worried I will mess up and get caught

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HotChoco - 15 May, 2020 - 10:28AM


With a username ‘ Hornyfuck3r ‘ I don’t even dare to click that profile..... given the site where we are 😐

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ExoticOrchid - 15 May, 2020 - 10:25AM

Just remember the first meet is JUST for a coffee/tea/drink [delete as appropriate] with NO obligation on either side. Choose a location you are comfortable with as well as being somewhere you can have a reasonable explanation for should you meet someone you know. Another useful thing is to have Plan B … a coffee shop at a retail park if possible is handy … you can always go shopping if either he/she doesn't show up or to treat/console yourself if the meeting went well or didn't go as you had hoped. At least you haven't had a completely wasted journey either way! [spoken like a true shopaholic :-)]

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Yorkshirerugby - 15 May, 2020 - 10:00AM

Any ideas on how I change my profile name Teicu


Yorkshirerugby - 15 May, 2020 - 09:58AM

Always open to advice Teicu. As I'm new to this scene I wasn't sure where to pitch myself. Let's be honest it's about trying to sell oneself for a mutual benefit and indulgence. To brighten up our lives

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Songbird478 - 15 May, 2020 - 09:57AM

I think this is a fairly human reaction... I think being honest with the person you want to meet helps. You can talk through it together, which is better than the many ghostings that occur on this site.
As for ‘messing up and getting caught’, this is just as likely to happen with online antics... you’ve made a decision to join this site for a reason, hopefully the risk with be rewarded...


Someone To Love - 15 May, 2020 - 09:47AM

feeling nervous/worried is natural, but remember it's also just adrenaline and you can manifest that into anticipation and excitement instead... before you know it the feelings are positive and exhilarating not scary and intimidating ;-)


851951 - 15 May, 2020 - 09:47AM

Hornyfuck3r
Can I suggest a name change? It may do wonders for your search

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Yorkshirerugby - 15 May, 2020 - 09:44AM

I don't want to just jump into bed with anyone though. I am horny a lot but that doesn't mean I will get it on with anybody or everyone. I would actually like to have a connection with the person I'm meeting.

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1382700 - 15 May, 2020 - 09:40AM

With a username like Hornyfuck3r I doubt you should worry

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Yorkshirerugby - 15 May, 2020 - 09:33AM

Just seeing what is out there and if I want to take the next step. Not sure how the whole affair thing works. How far I should be looking to ensure I don't know anyone who etc.

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