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Watch Out Fellas – Women Use Halloween as the Perfect Excuse to Cheat!

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Trick or cheat? Cheat, apparently, as thousands of women admit to having an affair on Halloween night.

IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married people, surveyed over 2000 women and posed the question “Have you ever used Halloween as an excuse to cheat on your partner?” 70% of women replied with a resounding yes, while the remaining 30% said no.

Why Halloween? Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters, Socrates Pyliotis, explains: “Halloween acts as the perfect opportunity for women to meet other men. Most men are always curious as to what their partners are up to on a night out, and they wouldn’t normally permit them to dress promiscuously. On Halloween, however, women can wear what they like and completely get away with it. Sexy kittens, sexy mice, sexy nurses… I’ve even seen the odd sexy granny or two! Anything goes.”

Alexandra, a 31 year old retail assistant from Romford, echoed these thoughts: “My boyfriend would never let me leave the house most nights – I’m always judged for the way I dress. Sometimes my skirt is too short, or my top is too low cut, but on Halloween, no-one seems to care! I can dress how I like and go out without him batting an eyelid.”

“Women love male attention,” added Pyliotis, “and men find an attractive woman in a sexy outfit an irresistible treat for the eyes.”

“Not all women have illicit intentions, but those that do are finding that Halloween provides the perfect excuse to go behind their partner’s back. They don their kitten outfit, slip outside the house, and their boyfriends and husbands are none the wiser.”

NOTES TO EDITOR

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s leading and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information, contact Socrates Pyliotis:

Email: press@illicitencounters.com
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

‘My Wife Is Not Enough!’ – Bond Flick Triggers Surge In Username Changes On Marital Affairs Site 

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The username’s Bond, James Bond. Yes, the men of IllicitEncounters.com have been gripped by Bond fever, and with Spectre due to release in the coming week, the UK’s leading dating website for married people has seen over 1000 of their male members adopt a username based on fiction’s coolest hero.

IllicitEncounters’ spokesperson, Claire Page, stated “There isn’t a man alive who doesn’t want to race around the streets of London in a shiny new Aston Martin with a gorgeous girl by his side. Cars, women, good looks: Bond has always represented what all men want.”

“He’s the epitome of cool,” adds Page “so it’s only natural that our men want to show that they too have got a licence to thrill, and their username is a good way of doing just that.”

“We’ve had everything,” explains Page. “The early birds snapped up ‘James Bond’, ‘Goldmember’, ‘007’ and every possible variation, but there are some very witty men among the IllicitEncounters membership.”

“’Divorce Another Day’, ‘Cheat and Let Die’, ‘Diamonds Are Forever, Marriages Aren’t’ and ‘A View to Thrill’ certainly had a lot of us at I.E. HQ impressed, but our personal favourite has to be ‘My Wife Is Not Enough’.”

“We’ve also had a few lads try to get away with the slightly raunchier ‘007inches’ or ‘James Bondage’ – nice try, fellas.”

Spectre is due for release in the UK on October 26th and, continuing with Bond tradition, it contains its fair share of beautiful women, none more so than the self-proclaimed Bond ‘woman’, Monica Belluci, who stars alongside Daniel Craig this time around.

“There’s more to James Bond than just Bond himself,” says Page.

“Monica Belluci might be slightly older than the Bond girls of recent years but she’s no less vivacious and beautiful, and that’s prompted the women of IllicitEncounters to join in with the fun.”

“We’ve seen plenty of Jane Blonde’s, Octopussy’s and ‘Pussy Galore’s’ join the site in the hope of finding their own 007.”

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: press@illicitencounters.com
Office: 020 7729 6098
Twitter: @cheatsafer

Hacking Scandal Sends Thousands of Men Running for the Hills

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The infamous Ashley Madison scandal, which saw the personal data of millions of its users compromised, has left its closest competitors short of male subscribers.

Illicitencounters.com, the UK’s leading dating website for married couples, have reported a major decrease in their male subscribers. A significant amount of male members have also either abandoned the site or requested a permanent deletion of their account, with as many as 2500 less men registering to the site.. A 35% drop month on month.

The website also noted that an average of just 200 men were signing up to the website on a daily basis, down from the average daily expectancy of 450.

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com, Claire Page, stated: “In light of recent events, we’ve found ourselves directly and negatively impacted. We’ve always proudly held a relatively even ratio of men to women, but our male user base has taken somewhat of a blow.”

Simon Francis, CEO of IllicitEncounters.com, added, “To be quite frank, the likes of Ashley Madison have ruined it for more honest sites like ourselves. We don’t store card details or even ask for our customers real names and any personal data is securely encrypted”

However, Illicit Encounters still boasts a healthy community, with 30,000 active members in the last 30 days alone and, surprisingly, women have found themselves more eager to have an affair.

The website has seen an increase in the number of female members, a 10% increase in new female subscribers month on month.

“While we’ve lost some of our men, our female members have remained consistent,” Francis explains.

“People who join our website do so with the intention of rekindling their love life and sparking that passion that has disappeared from their current relationship, and that hasn’t changed.”

“We’re proud that, unlike most of our competitors, our site only allows for real, genuine people, with no bots or fake profiles to be seen.”

“We’re still seeing several new women signing up to the website on a daily basis, with our current female members continuing to update their profiles, renew their memberships and actively participate in searching for their ideal partners.”

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7729 6098

Twitter: @cheatsafer

Monday 21st of September gets top marks for parents seeking affairs

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Every year the UK’s largest extra-marital affairs site IllicitEncounters.com sees an increase in parents joining the site on this date and this year is set to be no different.

Dubbed Funday Monday, the 21st of September in particular sees some of the most traffic, with an 8% increase of members joining year on year on this day (2014 vs 2013).

Perhaps we are seeing an increase of members joining around this time as the stay-at-home parent may be feeling lonely without the children or other half around. The school term will have well and truly started and a routine set up, with the lonesome parent stuck at home while their spouse is out working. Maybe boredom has a part to play in parents wanting to play away.

Harriet a member on the site said “I started looking for people to have affairs with after one particularly awful summer holiday. My partner who works full-time failed to see that I was working 24/7 round the clock around our 3 kids – he resented me because he felt that I got to stay at home and do nothing! I resented him for not being able to see the amount of hard work I did put in – ensuring the children were looked after and the house seen to.

Anyway, after a few weeks of the kids being back at school, curiosity got the better of me and I tried IllicitEncounters.com. After years of dreading the Monday morning alarm to get the children ready for class, suddenly I was waking up with an exuberance of energy – eager to drop them off and go see my lover! The children are still collected on time and dinner is always waiting on the table for when my husband gets home. And although he continues to think I do ‘nothing’, I no longer get upset about it – I would much rather he thought I did nothing than knew what it was that I actually get up to!”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “Although cheating is frowned upon in schools, it turns out the rules don’t apply to parents who are all too eager do the school run – itching for that one step closer to freedom. Whilst the children are busy learning, the parents are taking the opportunity to invest into a little extra-curricular mischief. Can you blame them? Holidays are all about keeping the kids entertained, and with them back in school and the breadwinner busy at work – lonely housewives are getting theirs. After the hustle of bustle of the summer holidays, they deserve it! Don’t you think?”

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7729 6098

Twitter: @illicitclaire

​Why do people have affairs? Not because of sex!

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Commitment is the rule of thumb for most relationships, and yet infidelity is the unspoken fact.

IllicitEncounters.com has discovered that most people have affairs because they are seeking companionship rather than sex.

Despite the recent hacking scandal of a similar dating site – people joining extra-marital dating sites are still on the rise.

With over 1,000,000 members and approximately 7% of the married population using IllicitEncounters.com – perhaps it’s time we began to tackle the reasons why more people are having affairs rather than condemning the affair itself.

The affairs site screened 400 of its members and found a re-occurrence of certain issues that lead people to have affairs. The top 5 scenarios were-

Companionship

– A lack of emotional intimacy is the cause of straying for so many adulterers. Many members complain of feeling invisible to their partner – undervalued, unappreciated and taken for granted. Many people choose to have an affair to feel that emotional connection once again.

Family

– Contrary to popular belief, many affair seekers choose to have an affair because they do not want to break up their family. Their relationship may have disintegrated, and although no longer a happy husband and wife – they may still make a good father and mother. Many adulterers choose to take on an affair because they do not want to abandon their children, having an affair allows them to fulfil needs without upsetting the balance.

Financial Reasons

– The people that fit into this bracket tend to be very unhappy in their marriage, but for financial reasons they cannot break it off. They may have invested their money into joint ventures such as buying a house or starting a business, they may be financially dependent on their other half or they may simply end up worse off if they were to abandon the marriage.

Permission

– A lot of people using extra-marital affairs sites have express permission from their spouse to do so, many belong to open relationships for example. There is also a high number of members on the site that belong to the ‘carer’ category where for medical reasons the partner who can no longer engage sexually with their spouse will give permission for them to seek out an extra-marital relationship.

Sex

– Sex plays a significant part in why people choose to cheat. However, it was also the least quoted reason out of the 400 people interviewed. Sex is an important factor in any relationship, and for many married couples their sex life can dwindle, some people have also said that they have stopped fancying their partner as the years have gone by. Missing the passion and excitement a new liaison can bring can tempt a spouse to seek out a lover to ignite that spark again.

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “Most people don’t take on an affair lightly; it is usually a last resort. Nobody gets married and immediately looks forward to cheating on their partner. However, it seems now in this modern day and age that an affair is a natural progression in a long-term relationship, and occurs due to a number of factors such as personal needs and external life influences.

Once a relationship becomes long term, many marriages end up becoming more like business partnerships – you have joint finances and a joint responsibility to bring up your children – however the companionship and sex may have become rather lacking.

Maybe the people who allow each other to have an affair have got it right – building on an already strong foundation of trust, the ultimate support would be to give your partner the green light to explore where an affair-journey may take them. The bottom line is people have a multitude of reasons to embark on an affair. People join married dating sites and cheat because they can – and maybe it’s time we let them.”

Results


The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7729 6098

Twitter: @illicitclaire

Cheat Smart with CheatSafer.com

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A new fool-proof guide to infidelity has launched offering handy tips to adulterers on how to conduct their affair without running the risk of being caught.

Cheatsafer.com has been produced by IllicitEncounters.com, the UK’s leading married dating site, as a handy guide for it’s 1 million plus members.

A recent independent survey by IllicitEncounters revealed that a third of people think they married the wrong person whilst another third admitted they felt they had lost all their independence since getting married.

With cheating on the rise, IllicitEncounters.com believes that, rather than berating married dating websites, it’s time people realised that cheating is part of everyday culture and has been for centuries. Cheatsafer.com ensures that people can have a safe affair and at the same time keep their marriage strong.

Taking on an extra-marital relationship can be the most rewarding and fantastic decision a married person ever makes, but they need to know how to do it right –CheatSafer.com has done all the hard work and created the ultimate guide to keep affairs secret.

CheatSafer.com offers general tips such as how you spend your money and how to interact with your spouse while having an affair as well as how to keep your pc or phone from getting you caught by your significant other.

IllicitEncounters.com CEO Simon Francis said “In light of recent scandals relating to online dating websites, we thought it was time to do something positive for the married dating community. With over 50% of people admitting to cheating on a partner, having an affair should not be such a taboo. We’ve had many customers thank us stating that their marriage is stronger as a result of their affair.

CheatSafer.com ensures affair-seekers follow the rules in order to not get caught and hopefully strengthen their marriage.”

CheatSafer.com’s top tips for a successful affair:

Don’t take off your wedding rings, you might lose them. If you are both wearing wedding rings you will look like a married couple anyway so there’s no need to hide this.

  • NEVER visit each other’s marital homes.
  • Clear your computer history regularly so that there is no evidence of your web activity.
  • Set up a unique email account that is only for use with your mistress/histress or on married dating sites
  • Have a burn phone – a cheap phone that you don’t take home or keep private. This phone should never cross into the life of your marriage.
  • Receive paperless bank and telephone statements.
  • Don’t store any evidence. No pictures, no cinema stubs, no receipts. Dispose of everything
  • Location – think about where you’re meeting. Don’t go local, distance can allow for better anonymity.
  • Make sure you do not drastically change your day-to-day routine. If you change your normal schedule too much this will arouse suspicion.
  • Be Discreet. The number 1 rule to having an affair is to not talk about it. Don’t tell anyone – not your co-worker, not your friend, not your hairdresser. The less people know the less likely you are to be discovered.

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7729 6098

Twitter: @illicitclaire

Cheating men don’t watch porn! But they did when they were faithful.

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Monogamous men watch pornography, but those that are unfaithful don’t. Over half of adulterers admit they’ve stopped watching porn since having an affair.

Research from UK’s largest extra-marital dating site IllicitEncounters.com reveals that you are 38% more likely to watch pornographic material when you are in a devoted relationship.

The affairs site surveyed 1,400 of its male members and found that 72% admitted they watched porn regularly (between 1-3 times a week) prior to engaging in an affair, compared to just 34% since having cheated on their partner.

The study also questioned users on their porn habits and the majority kept it a secret from their spouse (68%). Most married men said they wouldn’t watch porn with their wife (84%) however, more than half would be happy to watch porn with their mistress (64%)

Jonathon a male member using the site said “I’ve been with my wife for 12 years, and probably stopped having sex regularly halfway through our 12 years together. I guess that coincides with the time I began to watch a lot more porn a lot more often. If you’re not getting off with your wife, how else are you supposed to? Now I’ve been seeing other people, my sex life has been revived and I don’t feel the need to watch it anymore.”

“It boils down to the Coolidge effect.” Psychologist Lucy Redford said “Men who have the same sexual partner experience a decline in arousal over time; however, when the same man is introduced to new receptive females he experiences a renewed sense of sexual excitement. The bottom line is multiple partners keep a man’s interest, this can devoid the need to self-entertain through the medium of pornographic videos.”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “Men are visual creatures, and how can you expect a man to be turned on by the same person eternally. People are pleasure-seeking creatures, we’re never truly content or satisfied, we’re always seeking more – naturally when a man is no longer finding sexual satisfaction in their significant other they may attempt to feed their sexual appetite elsewhere – let them have porn!

What infidelity does is creates a sense of newness and defeats the point of watching porn, that is, until the novelty wears off. Porn is of course very stimulating, but so are new and exciting sexual partners.”

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

​Forget the diet, have an affair!

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If you’re on the hunt for a lover, don’t diet! Affair-seeking men prefer voluptuous women.

IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest married dating site has discovered the key attributes that cheating men look for in a mistress.

The affairs site surveyed 1500 of its male members who are actively pursuing an affair to discover what they seek in a potential lover. The study reveals the majority of men prefer bigger ladies over women who are slim or toned.

Curvaceous came on top with 34% of the vote, beating Petite (24%) and Athletic (14%)

The findings also revealed Blue to be the most popular eye colour (27%) and men also preferred Blonde’s over any other hair colour (29%) for their mistress.

Sex appeal is naturally important to anybody looking for a sexual partner, what is interesting is that a large proportion of men are looking for a curvaceous, blue eyed, blonde. With 72% of the men surveyed in their 40s, perhaps they are rooting their fantasies back 20 years ago with films like Basic Instinct starring Sharon Stone, popularising the blonde bombshell archetype of a female.

Harry a member of the site said “I think most men are naturally attracted to curvy girls, they’re head turners. Ultimately this is about sex and curvaceous woman have sex appeal – no man can truly say he doesn’t find it difficult not to look at a woman with big hips and a voluptuous décolletage. Personally, I think big women are sexier and more confident – far more enticing then a stick insect, let’s be honest. My wife is quite the opposite, slim and conservative – but I’m not with her for the sex.”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “It’s important to know that the male age demographic of affair-seekers is typically older, and these men will have been growing up when curvy women were celebrated, Marilyn Monroe, Cindy Crawford, Pamela Anderson – to name a few.

Curvy women are more aesthetically pleasing and look healthier, who would want Keira Knightly when they can have Shakira – the proof is in the pudding!

Its time women stopped dieting and starting embracing their sexy natural figures, anyway, everybody knows bigger women bounce better in bed – and sex burns calories.”

Full Results

What body type is most attractive?

Athletic 14%
Cuddly 12%
Curvaceous 34%
Petite 24%
Don’t Mind 16%

What eye colour attracts you most to a woman?

Black 7%
Blue 27%
Brown 9%
Green 17%
Grey 18%
Hazel 14%
Don’t Mind 8%

What hair colour attracts you most to a woman?

Auburn 9%
Black 14%
Blonde 29%
Brown 24%
Red 8%
Don’t Mind 16%

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

Affair Seekers Make Passes at Girls Who Wear Glasses

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Affair Seekers Make Passes at Girls Who Wear Glasses.

It was once believed that men don’t make passes at girls who wear glasses, it turns out the saying is rather outdated as more and more people find the bespectacled look attractive.

According to new research conducted by IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest extra-marital dating site wearing glasses can increase your likelihood of having an affair.

The study surveyed 800 of its members and found that 74% of affair-seekers wore glasses compared to 69% of the general public*

The study also found that 82% of members thought glasses looked attractive.

In addition those surveyed were asked how much they spent on glasses and found that a woman spends £120-£150, whereas a man would only spend £50-£90.

It is interesting to note that more of the cheating population wear glasses then those that don’t. Perhaps the fact that a large proportion of men and women find glasses attractive means that those who wear glasses have more sexual interest than those that don’t – making them a target for someone wanting to live out a fantasy with a bespectacled lover.

Fredrick a male member on the site said “I love a woman in glasses. It makes an otherwise tame girl look a little wild and powerful – glasses immediately make someone look more confident and intelligent. Smart teamed with sexy is unbeatable. Every man’s thought about sleeping with a girl in frames, there’s just a certain je ne sais quoi about the whole thing”

Claire Page spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com said “Er, yes please! Men in glasses are divine, Ryan Gosling, Brad Pitt, David Beckham? Hello! It’s interesting to note that more of the cheating population wear glasses then those who don’t – with such a large proportion of people agreeing that glasses are sexy, it is hardly surprising.

Glasses are becoming a sex symbol – women who wear glasses feel more powerful and seductive, and men are obviously lapping it up, we’ve all heard about the secretary fantasy. Someone wearing glasses may also be more tempted to have an affair as they will potentially receive more attention than someone glass-less! Let’s just say the days of 20:20 vision being hot is well and truly not, give me a four-eyed god any day”

*Britain’s Eye Health in Focus

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire

Techies are logging on to married dating sites!

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IllicitEncounters.com the UK’s largest married dating site has seen a 12% increase of IT workers joining the affairs site to seek out a lover.

The affairs site currently has 13,200 active users who work in Information Technology, with a spike of 12% in the last year alone. Interestingly the year before IT workers using the site were on the decline by 5%.

The most significant rise of techies signing up to the site is seen in London – possibly coinciding with many of the hot new tech start-ups popping up all over East London, creating a tech-savvy culture hub of likeminded individuals. Most notably Silicon Roundabout aka Tech City in Shoreditch, here many major tech companies reside; it is also a very sociable part of London that has a plethora of bars and clubs.

Perhaps the common IT guy is now far removed from being cooked up in a stuffy dark room with only his high spec screens for company, and is instead placed in a high rise, air conditioned tech hub with plenty of places to seek out further entertainment once the office closes for the day.

Sam, a 36 year old Software Specialist who uses the site, said “My life and job is very orderly. I have a 9am-6pm job although I often work late, I have a coordinated family life, and work is financially rewarding and very stable. I do feel under pressure to do well at work and provide for my family, and I feel quite anxious in proving for myself in day-to-day life.

It means when I do have some freedom, I want to do something a little out of character – it’s exhausting always doing what is expected of you. I like to meet new and interesting girls to feed my need to learn and grow – it takes a very unique man to limit himself to one woman for their entire life. I guess I get the best of both worlds, tell me one man who wouldn’t want that?”

Spokesperson for IllicitEncounters.com Claire Page said ‘The IT guy used to be the janitor-looking creep who came to fix whatever computer issue you were having back in high school. That IT guy no longer exits, now he is a liberal, beard brandishing, and smart talking Mr. Cool from the tech department – and boy do we like to break our computers to have them come lean over and fix them! Why are more techies cheating on their partners? Simply because the World Wide Web has made it easier and more discrete, and nobody knows how best to cover up their tracks or clear their browser history then the IT guy!”

The UK’s Leading married dating website IllicitEncounters.com

IllicitEncounters.com is the UK’s largest and longest running dating site for married people. With over 1,000,000 members across the UK, you’re sure to find your perfect match.

Established in 2003, we have been providing a meeting place for like-minded married and attached people for nearly 10 years. Our members have one thing in common – they are all looking for a little romance outside their current relationship. Whether that’s the occasional bit of flirtatious chat, a regular coffee date, or a full-blown affair, that’s up to them.

For comments, case-studies or more information contact Claire Page:

Email: presspr@illicitencounters.co.uk

Office: 020 7953 7167

Twitter: @illicitclaire