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Performance Ratings???


I read something in the papers recently about people secretly giving performance ratings to their lovers and it made me think. Do you do that?  Also, if your lover is insecure enough to ask, would you be honest or would you say of course you are top rated to make them feel better? Discuss!

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marklondonengland - 25 Oct, 2023 - 07:11PM

I'd ask "are we really still teenagers?" If you need to give a performance rating then you have a serious problem about connecting with another person. In any case, the best way to improve how someone rates you in bed is to just ask her what she likes or wants - then do it for her. That will make her text you again...


Paula99 - 23 Sep, 2023 - 12:06PM

Smooth operator…how are you going to measure your traits? ..I have used famous people

Sense of humour ….Rowan Atkinson/Dawn French

Personality…Joanna Lumley /David Tennant

Integrity…Nelson Mandela/The Queen

Looks…hmmmm no comment as this is one of the reasons that ratings have been criticised

More thoughts people ???


Mstok427 - 23 Sep, 2023 - 07:13AM

If you haven't got anything good to say then say nothing.

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1616715 - 05 Sep, 2023 - 09:44PM

Tacky.
Wth rates their lover? Do they rate romance?
Do they rate kindness, consideration...?


laugar164 - 25 Aug, 2023 - 12:02PM

What is a good performance rating
If a guy is not performing as you want is it his fault could it be your fault performance for me is based on what you both want out of it. Communication is key otherwise you get a bad performance.

An example one lady might love how you kiss the next may not just my thoughts

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Paula99 - 25 Aug, 2023 - 05:35AM



Women are guilty of lying back and thinking of England too ….

For some guys they have spent a lifetime of being chased so why change the habit ..

Works both ways 😕

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mipaulac - 24 Aug, 2023 - 08:41PM

naughtynisha - 23 Aug, 2023 - 09:45PM

A lack of squirting orgasms then ?
Perhaps could satisfy yourself with two men at once😉😂


Paula99 - 24 Aug, 2023 - 02:32PM

AsianGent 1986…

Define a bad performance?

Ist time ‘nerves’ do happen but it doesn’t mean we don’t give the guy a second chance to redeem himself😉

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AsianGent1986 - 24 Aug, 2023 - 10:30AM

I don’t think it is insecure to ask for critiques, especially with a new lover. Ultimately every woman is different and what works for one doesn’t for another.
Ultimately as a man you should want to pleasure that woman. The problem is that anyone can put in a bad performance and often that means you don’t get a 2nd crack at the whip.

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naughtynisha - 23 Aug, 2023 - 09:45PM

Most men do not know what they're doing honestly. I've yet to find a 10 on 10

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