Comments (34)

The Joy of Impotence - 26 May, 2023 - 08:13PM

And what are you trying to recreate by being on IE?
Your previous divorce proceedings!

1598075 - 16 May, 2023 - 11:27PM

Why don’t you ask him. None will have a better answer than he will

1585013 - 03 Apr, 2023 - 02:13PM

For 30 years I have just been with my wife .. I don’t think I would try to recreate the mess I have made of that ..

If he’s trying to add good bits . Say yes please .. but hopefully it’s not too stepford wives for you

Cheesypuff - 02 Apr, 2023 - 02:42PM

Paula99 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 07:32PM

And kinky

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Paula99 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 07:32PM

Hot Spic…

The servers need to pull the plug on that God awful place ..aka Mumsnet..
Make no bones about it the ‘ladies’ on here are far more intelligent 🤔

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1586130 - 31 Mar, 2023 - 04:59PM

I agree with Ferrari. It's one for a counsellor. Some of the advice here comes across as very "mumsnetty".

Caroline Red - 30 Mar, 2023 - 11:38PM

sounds like there are three people in your marriage. You, your husband and the ghost of his wife. Spooky!

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1586130 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 06:14PM

ooh... that's a deep one.

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1587581 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 10:59AM

Have you discussed this at all?

Is your relationship strong enough that you can talk openly to one another?

If you can, I'd start with some form of mediation, councilling, marriage guidance. I guess it comes down to if you want to reamin in the relationship or not.

What is your motivation to join IE?

More questions than answers I'm afraid but designed to get you thinking.

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1588499 - 30 Mar, 2023 - 10:16AM

Wow, what a delicate and touching question. Looking forward to reading the replies. (No experience here.)

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