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The Temptress - 11 Apr, 2024 - 12:31PM

Managed some messages with my soon to be meet, while both on holiday, he is currently near where I have a holiday home, but sadly I was away skiing as otherwise I think we might have planned a sneaky meeting. I do like the fact he took the time whilst away to message, it does mean a lot.
After our first outdoor adventure, I think we will be lucky as I have an airbnb I rent out so can tie that in and he has a private place, so if we do hit it off it could be easy to manage. Previous affairs have meant much more planning and adding hotels and travel in the mix. Not long now so fingers crossed we will click.

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Jasmine19 - 09 Apr, 2024 - 09:05AM

When I had my long term affair we used to book a room or airBnB depending how long we could meet for. Only occasionally went to extravagant hotels to keep costs low so we wouldn't get caught. Must say we didn't sleep together straight away we had a few meets before to make sure we clicked because didn't want to just sleep around trying to find someone to have an affair with.

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1661271 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 08:09PM

Try day use ie Southampton and evening rates ie ibis
Nice bed and decent shower

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ExoticOrchid - 08 Apr, 2024 - 07:57PM

Enigma.. - 07:22AM

Indeed ... some are just too arrogant or too naive or both and only they "know better" ... I always cringe when I see those "declarations" ... ditto those who insist they have found "the one" before actually meeting in person just because the chats were so good and they have already connected ... ummm yeah sure OK 🙄

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Scott of the Antartic - 08 Apr, 2024 - 12:46PM

there is a highly respectable website run on a global basis Calle “Day use” Easy to use and reasonably priced.

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Enigma.. - 08 Apr, 2024 - 07:22AM

Us ”old hands” may have been on the site for a while.
Sure everyone is entitled to their own opinions. But…
Dishing out advise that is neither advisable or safe can, and unfortunately for some, did end up with them being left feeling hurt, humiliated, used etc, etc…
I’ve seen it before on Flirt Forum women declaring they’ve finally found the one. And some males too.
Meet up for the first date in a hotel room and have sex.
The following day they get ghosted or blocked.
Then they take to Flirt Forum to ask what they did or said wrong.
The answer is you made a bad choice and ignored good advice.
So think carefully before making your decision/choice.
Not everyone is who they seem.
Just saying 🤷🏼‍♀️.

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Silver Swan - 07 Apr, 2024 - 10:59PM

I mean.. I’d strongly recommend not leaping straight from chatting online to a hotel room? Uh.. perhaps approach this relationship incrementally: meet for a coffee. First. Somewhere busy. The , if it goes well, graduate to a wine bar or cocktail place. It’s important to read a person I. The flesh in a low pressure and safe environment BEFORE putting yourself in a more vulnerable scenario.

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Paula99 - 07 Apr, 2024 - 04:38PM

The advice in here is like Wikipedia…

Don’t believe everything you read …some people are bonkers 🤔

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AnotherTopChap - 06 Apr, 2024 - 10:25PM

What is all this. Why is everyone here. Do the sensible stuff then your still happy. Go for it. Find the hotel online before you meet. JUST IN CASE.

Babs willow - 06 Apr, 2024 - 09:54PM

Trust is a big thing as well and ask if they will be coming on their own or will someone be coming with them to make sure that they are okay xx