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Advice please :) I have started to speak with someone and we have moved to video chats. We definitely have ALOT of chemistry and I want to meet him. Anyone else experiencing the same? Are you waiting until after lockdown or have you already planned a date?

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1386735 - 21 Nov, 2020 - 08:46AM


Good for you. You’re right if all you get out of it is a night of great sex then amazing.
I just wouldn’t want anyone in here to get swept away with it and then get hurt.
Good luck 👍🤗😍

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Esiuol - 21 Nov, 2020 - 08:38AM

@your ultimate desire

I get you I really do. But I'm trusting my gut with this and it feels much more right than any other date I've been on. What is the worst that can happen? I get a night of unbridled sexual fantasy with a incredibly sexy man? I can live with that just for the memory of it.
I will keep you all updated. 😉

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1386735 - 21 Nov, 2020 - 08:28AM


Easy lady...I hope it all works out for you I really do...but men in here can be quite deceitful.
Try not to ge too excited because
1. It’s only your second date
2. He will say anything to get in your knickers
3. Take anything he says with a pinch of salt

Be prepared and you won’t get hurt. I hope it goes well for you I really do, but..... well come and report back in a months time

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Esiuol - 21 Nov, 2020 - 07:49AM

I just have to put this here. I have found the most amazing man on here. We were talking before lockdown then lockdown came and boom there goes our 'date'

However we have managed to meet for a walk and a chat last week and today we are going on our 2nd date. The sexual anticipation that is growing is off the scale but more than that I've we have found that we have a mental connection as well as the physical. He makes me feel amazing and the ease of lockdown cannot come fast enough.

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Connorsullivan - 20 Nov, 2020 - 12:56PM

No dates for me yet unless that inflatable one counts

ExoticOrchid - 19 Nov, 2020 - 08:55AM

Requited Lover - 19 Nov, 2020 - 08:00AM
"the second was an absolute nightmare and swore me off them forever."

A coffee mid-morning if possible for the first meet is always best ... should things go brilliantly, it can always extend to lunch ... if not, you have not wasted much time or worse, sit through an awkward couple of hours!

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1421094 - 19 Nov, 2020 - 08:00AM

I think having to meet for walks/coffees is a boon. It takes away that whole pressure to meet for lunch. I've had lunch experiences at both ends of the spectrum, one with my first lover which was brilliant and the second was an absolute nightmare and swore me off them forever.

I'm a huge fan of the coffee shop now.

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CeriseN - 18 Nov, 2020 - 11:15PM

So a combo...video chat with a coffee but in a park near a body of water.

1393321 - 18 Nov, 2020 - 08:46PM


I disagree with you about video chats meaning online sex. I always chat on WhatsApp video before I meet someone for a date. And the conversation usually is for about an hour, just like a coffee date but we're not both in Costa. I also do video chats with my family, my meditation group, my drama group and my writing group.

These days everyone is zoom meetings for work so a zoom date is the same, a very convenient way to see someone in real time when lockdown stops a face to face meet.

gemini2310 - 18 Nov, 2020 - 08:19PM

We can all feel chemistry when just chatting but does not happen very often when we actually meet we can build things up in our minds when just chatting

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