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Ask me out!

I have a massive crush on someone here, but I'm a bit nervous to suggest a date. Been talking for awhile now, non stop! I keep catching myself smiling every time I get a message. I can't work out why he hasn't asked me out yet! What do I do?

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Paula99 - 12 Apr, 2024 - 05:56PM

Sorry wrong abreviation ..

Should be Future Liver Reminant …😊

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Paula99 - 12 Apr, 2024 - 05:46PM

FLD…

Fatty Liver Disease…😂


1614937 - 12 Apr, 2024 - 05:04PM

GrahamFitz - 12 Apr, 2024 - 03:40PM

Female Led Relationship


GrahamFitz - 12 Apr, 2024 - 03:40PM

@TakingOrders what does FLR stand for?


GrahamFitz - 12 Apr, 2024 - 03:37PM

I'm going to recommend the YouTuber thedadvocate again because she advises women to just straight up ask. Often the guy might think you're not interested, or might be tied in knots about all the ways he might be seen as a creep. But if the woman asks, that's a clear green light and he'll be all in.


Bikerdude69 - 12 Apr, 2024 - 12:16PM

Give him a little push


TakingOrders - 11 Apr, 2024 - 09:35AM

Or perhaps he secretly wants an FLR???


TakingOrders - 11 Apr, 2024 - 09:27AM

An ultimatum I think - unless you just want a friend?


Enigma.. - 08 Apr, 2024 - 07:34AM

If I were you, like most women on the site now, I’d set a time limit.
If in say 3/4 weeks you haven’t started communicating through another medium WhatsApp, kik, telegram etc…
Haven’t exchanged photos.
Haven’t had a couple of phone calls or video chats.
Haven’t mentioned meeting up or made arrangements to meet up.
Mark him up as a time waster and move on.
Message him why you are no longer interested.
If he then starts messaging etc… about meeting up.
Don’t reply.

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Beckysharp - 06 Apr, 2024 - 03:49PM

I agree with others- he just wants a pen pal. Chatting all the time but hasn’t even suggested a coffee suggests to me he doesn’t want an affair (with you).

It’s risky getting so attached to someone you have never met though…

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