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Ask me out!

I have a massive crush on someone here, but I'm a bit nervous to suggest a date. Been talking for awhile now, non stop! I keep catching myself smiling every time I get a message. I can't work out why he hasn't asked me out yet! What do I do?

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Frustrateddad1979 - 06 Apr, 2024 - 12:36AM

Sorry if this is lady chat but there are a lot of ingenious blokes on here wanting to do the collection, like pokemon. Look for a good connection, question them (aerial they pretending to like what you like). Ladies intuition and a bit of cludo n you'll find it.


Peaches1 - 05 Apr, 2024 - 08:43PM

Fob him off! Lots of chatters and fantasists on here. Dont really understand people would pay money to just chat but unfortunately some do and have no intentions of taking things further.

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ChocolateAubergine - 04 Apr, 2024 - 01:16PM

He hasn't asked you out for one of two reasons.

1) He is playing the field or not interested in anything physical from you.
2) You have not been clear about what you want from him and expect him to read your mind (ask him!).

If you feel you have addressed point 2 well and no mention of meeting or taking things further has happened, then you are probably wasting your time and should move on regardless how sh*tty it feels.

I wouldn't be hard on yourself or change your approach though. Keep being you and it will attract the right man as long as you respect yourself.

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Suzanne1983 - 03 Apr, 2024 - 06:48PM

Ask him. I dont think iv ever been asked. But i am wayyyy too forward

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Who dares - 03 Apr, 2024 - 04:25PM

Smiling Sarah cannot comment on other men but I am here for meets not endless chats

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Smiling Sarah - 03 Apr, 2024 - 03:25PM

Maybe he is just a Time waster like a lot of guys on here who just want to chat I think they get turned on by it 🤔 🤷

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mipaulac - 03 Apr, 2024 - 02:18AM

Go half way suggest an event or say your going to one .....hint hint


MkWatney - 02 Apr, 2024 - 11:55PM

It’s incredibly hard for guys to ask out women nowadays. It was bad enough when one might be in the same room but now it’s even harder.

My suggestion is to say how attracted to him you are and ask if you were to ask him out how he would react.


Ciao1970 - 02 Apr, 2024 - 06:20PM

He might be more nervous than you! Not every man is super confident.....like me! lol!


Paula99 - 02 Apr, 2024 - 04:23PM

Never mind a partner ….

From what I make of this …the only sure thing that people are looking for is the ‘lottery numbers ‘😂

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