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EmnEm123 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 09:40PM

Not sure if the OP is M or F but if it's a M he would have to remember that it would be easy for a woman to set up another profile, free!

Don't know how much men pay but surely they're not throwing money around to check up on people.

It doesn't seem that anyone has met up, can't expect exclusivity. Who knows if one or both will flake.

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Paula99 - 11 Apr, 2024 - 05:46PM

Honesty is not the best policy….🤔

London70xxx - 11 Apr, 2024 - 05:04PM

I’d say be honest. If you don’t want to be exclusive fine but say so. If that means they choose not to see you then it is what it is.

Jasmine19 - 09 Apr, 2024 - 09:13AM

Depends if you're hoping they're being exclusive with you or ok with them being in touch with multiples too. If you're keeping your options open let them know you're chatting to another so you're all on the same page

SunnyDaze743 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 11:22PM

You don’t need to follow someone else’s rules.

CaptureMe - 08 Apr, 2024 - 08:48AM

Be yourself...after all being on her is secretive enough ! So surely being more secretive won't be too much would it ?
Go with whst you feel is right ... who knows what other person/s want ....

GemStone69 - 08 Apr, 2024 - 01:03AM

I’d keep my options open and see what develops, but I also find it a bit rich being asked to be exclusive on a forum for married people wanting affairs!

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Prof Sarah Beauchamp - 05 Apr, 2024 - 12:34PM

Am I being slightly cynical about this post, they both just happened to ask at the same time to be exclusive? Think I will take this with a pinch of salt.

For the OP unless you have met either of this people then keep options open.

ChocolateAubergine - 04 Apr, 2024 - 05:19PM

Everyone is different. Go with your own moral compass and try not to hurt anyone.

Want to lie? lie... but do not be misled by some of the comments below about potential IEs being "unreasonable" in requirements... it is an immature way to think.

You are essentially lying because if they find out they will finish things faster with you than a virgin visiting a prostitute. Get comfortable with that and move on dont become toxic or entitled about your rationale.

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Ssrah 2.1 - 01 Apr, 2024 - 12:57AM

What do you want to do? Just do that.

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