020 3633 0493 020 3633 0493
uk flag Used by over 1,666,609 genuine UK users since 2003

Flirt Forum

< Flirt Forum

Should I keep my options open?

I am currently speaking to 2 people I met via IE, they have both asked me to be exclusive. Should I keep in touch with both of them or decide on just one?

 7 members like this.


Sorry, you can not comment on this.


Comments (123)

catnip86 - 31 Mar, 2024 - 11:54PM

Discuss it with them openly - this is what I do. IMHO, what they are asking for is unreasonable.

 1 member likes this comment.


Maasai77 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 11:17AM

Keep in touch with both and find the right one.

 1 member likes this comment.


Paula99 - 30 Mar, 2024 - 09:18AM

Thoughts ..interesting concept..

I had a serious debate with a male friend about this subject matter and it does seem that not all women think alike ( guys also) oddly enough šŸ˜‰..my friend is an intelligent guy and knows his stuffā€¦so he would like to replicate what he had ( some years ago ) with a lady that didnā€™t do exclusivity and neither did he at that timeā€¦I had my own opinions and doubts about thisā€¦he has been straight up about this which sometimes promotes the old adage ā€˜honesty is not the best policy ā€˜ ā€¦the guy himself is very genuine but I did remind him that his ā€˜nicheā€™ relationship would mean he would be fishing in a ā€˜small poolā€™ ā€¦I do admire him for sticking out for what he requires in an affair and his ability to know what he wants and how to achieve it ..šŸ˜Š

 1 member likes this comment.


Thinkingwomanshunk - 27 Feb, 2024 - 01:52PM

Until the deed is done keep your options open.
Unless it ends up a one night stand, i.e. you are dumped within a week.
After the second time be exclusive


BellaX592 - 27 Feb, 2024 - 01:08PM

I'd say that's definitely a choice for you to be making and not one that should be decided or even requested. I'm guessing maybe safety could be their concern but it's absolutely your choice.

 1 member likes this comment.


thirdkind - 27 Feb, 2024 - 10:42AM

Hmm, thatā€™s a choice for you to make, not for them to request! x

 2 members like this comment.


Everyriver - 25 Jan, 2024 - 09:37PM

Lucky you speaking to 2 people. In the Highlands there are 368 females of which 7 are actually active. Try to get someoneā€™s attention and absolutely zero response. If they arenā€™t login on how are you going to start messaging.


Enigma.. - 25 Jan, 2024 - 07:25AM

Good morning peopleā€™s of Flirt Forum.
Did anyone actually manage to get through their breakfast this morning without practically choking on their coffee, juice or food with laughter šŸ˜‚.
I see we have a comedian, and Iā€™m using the term very loosely, on the thread.

One wonders why some of the ladies on this site, have become, soooooooo choosy and fussy with whom they message, chat or wish to get involved with!?! šŸ¤”.

Before you all start to debate the answerā€¦. (Drum roll please)ā€¦. Most of us, I should imagine, already know the answer šŸ˜.

Perhaps a certain male should take a look at his profile and have a long hard (no pun intended) think about what he has ā€œcomposedā€.

Said profile gave me the best laugh, so far, Iā€™ve had this year šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‰šŸ™„šŸ˜šŸ˜.

Just a wee bit of advice. Youā€™re welcome šŸ˜‰šŸ’‹.

 6 members like this comment.


bobbig777 - 24 Jan, 2024 - 09:34PM

Wishing i had this scenario. Devon and Cornwall is dry, lucky to find anyone online never mind 2 to vhose from and have to pay the same membership fees. Wont be getting anymore from me upon expiry this time.
Enjoy them both as you never know when the opportunity will happen again, pecker up and explore

 2 members like this comment.


Paula99 - 24 Jan, 2024 - 03:32PM

Hottie Spicy..

You seem to be getting a lot of attentionā€¦are you enjoying it šŸ˜

 2 members like this comment.

Currently online:
Registered Users: 747

secure discrete friendly