Perhaps a little too cheeky...?
So got a little adventurous on video chat this week discuss various different saucy topics with my new IE - including certain positions. I obviously fancy him and want to take it further but can't for now. They have left me curious however.. would I be wrong practicing them with my husband in the meantime during lockdown?
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Cheesypuff - 06 Feb, 2023 - 12:51AM
The fact you're using the word "Saucy" leads me to believe it wasn't actually very "Saucy" at all.
Sexy Senorita xo - 16 Jul, 2022 - 09:37PM
Some of these comments were so good😂it must've really been interesting on here in lockdown. No way would I have practiced any new positions with my husband, he's a suspicious man at the best of times. Thank goodness, those that want to, can now all practice with their IEs in real life!
tea_coffee_me_ - 22 Apr, 2020 - 09:38PM
" Sexsy1xxx - 22 Apr, 2020 - 02:52PM
the whole reason Your on this site is to improve your sex life not Increase it 🤔"
Excuse you, there are more than 101 people on this site with more than 101 reasons why they are on here... including people who do not even want an affair!
Yes some people are here to HAVE a sex life, for some it is to improve it and others it is to increase it.
Many of those I have seen, they have a good relationship with their wives, I am extra.
You are not reasonable to tell people why they are here :-(
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Desire1963 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 06:06PM
That wd be your choice but I think most of us are on here cause we are all missing something......
RumplesBear - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:43PM
Avoid suspicion?
"Not quite sure what you're talking about, the whole country has been on lockdown and distancing?"
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restallion - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:29PM
Why not practice? Sounds a shame not to since you have the opportunity, and he can't say that you were practising elsewhere if you were locked in.
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strong and masculine - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:29PM
Any Scottish lassies around?
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1372619 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:25PM
Go for it - practice makes perfect
secretliaisons90 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:21PM
Agreed. I’d save the experiments for your new partner, to avoid suspicion at home.
Gives you something to really look forward to... :-)
Scooby to you - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:07PM
Speaking from experience I would say not, especially if he doesn't do anything experimental. He may start smelling a rat (so to speak)
You could maybe build up to it and see how it goes
Whatever you decide to do I wish you good luck x
ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:06PM
MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:01PM
kik
It's like WhatsApp except you just need your email address and not your phone number [I'm assuming you have set up a separate email address for IE purposes!'].
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MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:01PM
Hi Exotic Orchid.
Thanks for that, excuse my ignorance but what is KIK medium?
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RumplesBear - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:00PM
Mystery 647
That's why you try to go someone neutral or at the very least, massively reduces the risk of bumping into anyone either of you may know.
Think of your home town as a red zone. Don't go there. Or as they say: "never poop where you eat"
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ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:58PM
Arabelle
Phew ... that's a relief (no pun intended) ... 🙄😉😂
1377030 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:49PM
I say go for it.. during confinement, we need all the practice, excitement and workouts we can get.
For me it is about choosing a potential IE date and then playing out what I might do with them during lockdown sex according to their profile. It spices up things at home, and whet’s my appetite for when we can go out to play. x
1379742 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:43PM
@foxydevil I am also new here 🙂
ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:43PM
MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM
Of course everything is a gamble BUT you try and minimise the risks as much as possible.
If at all possible, try and go out of your own area and always have a plausible excuse ready in case you do run into someone you know. I'm all for exchanging photos asap but only do so if you feel comfortable and can be certain that it is not someone you may know. I'd be more careful about phone numbers though. That's why kik is the best medium for IEs.
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1379742 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:40PM
Anyone in Cambridgeshire up for a dance after this lockdown is over?
1272141 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:40PM
What happens if things actually start to become good with dear hubby?
1376887 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:37PM
@exoticorchid yes my comment re missionary was said tongue in cheek. You can do deepstick too. :)
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1375666 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:37PM
@foxydevil.. welcome.. I’m a newbie too 🙂
ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:36PM
Foxydevilxxx - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:31PM
Hello and don't worry, it's working fine.
ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:34PM
Reading the comments both here and on various other letters since the lockdown, I have to say I am so happy to be single, haha.
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Foxydevilxxx - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:31PM
Hi everyone, not sure how this works x
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1325951 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM
Why not indeed? You have got over the moral hazard of having an affair so surely it makes sense to maximise your return... this is for you not him!
RichT0844 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM
Arabelle makes a really good point and one I will now be careful about. My wife is not at all adventurous so different positions tend to be played out with another. When it is good you think about bringing it home to spice up the home life but I had not thought about it raising suspicion. Note to self. Keep it missionary at home.
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MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM
Hi All,
Am new to this, if you meet someone in your own town/city.
Don't you get scared in case you meet someone you know.
How do you make sure of it not happening, and at what stage do
you exchange numbers photos etc.
Or is it just a gamble??
1375666 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:19PM
@arabelle.. doggie and missionary (legs on shoulders - feet in face)
@afish called Wanda.. I was gonna say 😂
Ps folks if anyone has any ideas of how to be discreet around your partner then feel free to save this poor soul.. I’m either being watched like a hawk or I’ve got a very bad guilty face..
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safehands123 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:19PM
Now there is a thought - what is the most unusual place you have had an IE
1369974 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:16PM
The grass is usually greener and likely much more exciting away from the field you normally graze in
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ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:15PM
Arabelle - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:05PM
"Anyway I thought once married we could only do missionary?"
You are joking, right?
A fish called wanda - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:11PM
Practice with your hubby, but in your head your thinking of your IE, just don’t call out his name by mistake 😂
1375666 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:06PM
Hi All,
Hope you’re all well..
Oh I’d defo try with my partner beforehand.. practice makes perfect as they say 😉
1376887 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:05PM
An ex boyfriend had never taken me from behind, when he suddenly turned me over to do that one night, I knew he’d cheated. And yes it all came out in the wash. So I’d stick to what you usually do, so as not to arouse suspicion.
What are others favourite positions? Two of mine are me being on top and spooning.
Anyway I thought once married we could only do missionary?
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RumplesBear - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:04PM
Of course not.
Most reasonable price understand if you're living with/married with someone, there's going to be some sort of sexual activity; even if it's occasional or "going through the motions".
I've no doubt some people have drifted into utterly sexless states, but an IE hardly has grounds to lose their marbles if you get frisky in your real life.
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1240822 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:01PM
Why not!
1262378 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 02:52PM
Wouldn't be much to look forward to, or if hubby plays along with the new positions why stay?
1353301 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 02:52PM
Hell no ..why would you want to experiment
With your partner if you intend sleeping with
Someone else , I couldn't the whole reason
Your on this site is to improve your sex life not
Increase it 🤔
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1361858 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 11:53AM
Now this is a really tricky one but yes, perhaps it could really work. This has really got me thinking and I have a suggestion....
Assuming that you, your husband or both are good at DIY, I would suggest purchasing a large chandelier online. When it arrives, install it carefully in your bedroom. Lie on the bed, under said chandelier, adopting the missionary position, legs akimbo. Your husband having landed on the chandelier from jumping to it from the wardrobe, carefully aims himself and leaps from it, shouting, 'Geronimo' as he lands perfectly between your legs.... :-)
851951 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:50PM
If you practice them with hubby during lockdown you may find you won’t need an IE after All!!
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1371332 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:06PM
of course not !!!
1262378 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:01PM
And what would you have to look forward to? If hubby would be willing, why try elsewhere?
It depends on your reasons for looking elsewhere. Enjoy your choice whichever ways feels right
Lightmyfire936 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:00PM
Go for it .. we only live once and just maybe doing new positions with hubby might get things at home back on track
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