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Perhaps a little too cheeky...?

So got a little adventurous on video chat this week discuss various different saucy topics with my new IE - including certain positions. I obviously fancy him and want to take it further but can't for now. They have left me curious however.. would I be wrong practicing them with my husband in the meantime during lockdown?

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Cheesypuff - 06 Feb, 2023 - 12:51AM

The fact you're using the word "Saucy" leads me to believe it wasn't actually very "Saucy" at all.

Sexy Senorita xo - 16 Jul, 2022 - 09:37PM

Some of these comments were so good😂it must've really been interesting on here in lockdown. No way would I have practiced any new positions with my husband, he's a suspicious man at the best of times. Thank goodness, those that want to, can now all practice with their IEs in real life!

tea_coffee_me_ - 22 Apr, 2020 - 09:38PM

" Sexsy1xxx - 22 Apr, 2020 - 02:52PM
the whole reason Your on this site is to improve your sex life not Increase it 🤔"

Excuse you, there are more than 101 people on this site with more than 101 reasons why they are on here... including people who do not even want an affair!

Yes some people are here to HAVE a sex life, for some it is to improve it and others it is to increase it.
Many of those I have seen, they have a good relationship with their wives, I am extra.
You are not reasonable to tell people why they are here :-(

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Desire1963 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 06:06PM

That wd be your choice but I think most of us are on here cause we are all missing something......

RumplesBear - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:43PM

Avoid suspicion?

"Not quite sure what you're talking about, the whole country has been on lockdown and distancing?"

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restallion - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:29PM

Why not practice? Sounds a shame not to since you have the opportunity, and he can't say that you were practising elsewhere if you were locked in.

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strong and masculine - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:29PM

Any Scottish lassies around?

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1372619 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:25PM

Go for it - practice makes perfect

secretliaisons90 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:21PM

Agreed. I’d save the experiments for your new partner, to avoid suspicion at home.
Gives you something to really look forward to... :-)

Scooby to you - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:07PM

Speaking from experience I would say not, especially if he doesn't do anything experimental. He may start smelling a rat (so to speak)
You could maybe build up to it and see how it goes
Whatever you decide to do I wish you good luck x

ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:06PM

MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:01PM

It's like WhatsApp except you just need your email address and not your phone number [I'm assuming you have set up a separate email address for IE purposes!'].

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MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:01PM

Hi Exotic Orchid.
Thanks for that, excuse my ignorance but what is KIK medium?

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RumplesBear - 22 Apr, 2020 - 05:00PM

Mystery 647

That's why you try to go someone neutral or at the very least, massively reduces the risk of bumping into anyone either of you may know.

Think of your home town as a red zone. Don't go there. Or as they say: "never poop where you eat"

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ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:58PM

Phew ... that's a relief (no pun intended) ... 🙄😉😂

secretliaisons90 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:54PM

Hello all, and hi ab!

Maalik25 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:51PM

Hi everyone
I’m new here too

1377030 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:49PM

I say go for it.. during confinement, we need all the practice, excitement and workouts we can get.
For me it is about choosing a potential IE date and then playing out what I might do with them during lockdown sex according to their profile. It spices up things at home, and whet’s my appetite for when we can go out to play. x

Tallguy999 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:48PM

Are there any gorgeous girls from Stockport / Cheshire ?!?!

1379742 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:43PM

@foxydevil I am also new here 🙂

ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:43PM

MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM

Of course everything is a gamble BUT you try and minimise the risks as much as possible.
If at all possible, try and go out of your own area and always have a plausible excuse ready in case you do run into someone you know. I'm all for exchanging photos asap but only do so if you feel comfortable and can be certain that it is not someone you may know. I'd be more careful about phone numbers though. That's why kik is the best medium for IEs.

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lickingmachine - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:43PM

Anybody from a Manchester?

Deshilonda - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:41PM

How are you doing!!!

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1379742 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:40PM

Anyone in Cambridgeshire up for a dance after this lockdown is over?

1272141 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:40PM

What happens if things actually start to become good with dear hubby?

Deshilonda - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:39PM

How are you doing!!!

1376887 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:37PM

@exoticorchid yes my comment re missionary was said tongue in cheek. You can do deepstick too. :)

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1375666 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:37PM

@foxydevil.. welcome.. I’m a newbie too 🙂

ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:36PM

Foxydevilxxx - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:31PM

Hello and don't worry, it's working fine.

ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:34PM

Reading the comments both here and on various other letters since the lockdown, I have to say I am so happy to be single, haha.

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Farfromthemaddingcrowd - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:32PM

Afternoon everyone x

Foxydevilxxx - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:31PM

Hi everyone, not sure how this works x

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1325951 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM

Why not indeed? You have got over the moral hazard of having an affair so surely it makes sense to maximise your return... this is for you not him!

RichT0844 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM

Arabelle makes a really good point and one I will now be careful about. My wife is not at all adventurous so different positions tend to be played out with another. When it is good you think about bringing it home to spice up the home life but I had not thought about it raising suspicion. Note to self. Keep it missionary at home.

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MYSTERY647 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:21PM

Hi All,
Am new to this, if you meet someone in your own town/city.
Don't you get scared in case you meet someone you know.
How do you make sure of it not happening, and at what stage do
you exchange numbers photos etc.
Or is it just a gamble??

1375666 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:19PM

@arabelle.. doggie and missionary (legs on shoulders - feet in face)

@afish called Wanda.. I was gonna say 😂

Ps folks if anyone has any ideas of how to be discreet around your partner then feel free to save this poor soul.. I’m either being watched like a hawk or I’ve got a very bad guilty face..

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safehands123 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:19PM

Now there is a thought - what is the most unusual place you have had an IE

1369974 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:16PM

The grass is usually greener and likely much more exciting away from the field you normally graze in

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safehands123 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:15PM

hey all good, enjoying the sun

ExoticOrchid - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:15PM

Arabelle - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:05PM
"Anyway I thought once married we could only do missionary?"

You are joking, right?

Nikesmith - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:13PM

Hi all, how’s every ones Wednesday afternoon??

A fish called wanda - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:11PM

Practice with your hubby, but in your head your thinking of your IE, just don’t call out his name by mistake 😂

1375666 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:06PM

Hi All,

Hope you’re all well..

Oh I’d defo try with my partner beforehand.. practice makes perfect as they say 😉

1376887 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:05PM

An ex boyfriend had never taken me from behind, when he suddenly turned me over to do that one night, I knew he’d cheated. And yes it all came out in the wash. So I’d stick to what you usually do, so as not to arouse suspicion.

What are others favourite positions? Two of mine are me being on top and spooning.

Anyway I thought once married we could only do missionary?

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RumplesBear - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:04PM

Of course not.

Most reasonable price understand if you're living with/married with someone, there's going to be some sort of sexual activity; even if it's occasional or "going through the motions".

I've no doubt some people have drifted into utterly sexless states, but an IE hardly has grounds to lose their marbles if you get frisky in your real life.

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Zallam - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:03PM

Why not , then you get two for the price of one

1240822 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 04:01PM

Why not!

Delphina - 22 Apr, 2020 - 03:56PM

Why not? Go for it girl 😄

SimonAsh - 22 Apr, 2020 - 03:00PM

nothing ventoured nothing gained as they say.......

1262378 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 02:52PM

Wouldn't be much to look forward to, or if hubby plays along with the new positions why stay?

1353301 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 02:52PM

Hell no ..why would you want to experiment
With your partner if you intend sleeping with
Someone else , I couldn't the whole reason
Your on this site is to improve your sex life not
Increase it 🤔

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Ravi3000 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 01:10PM

Go on, enjoy with your husband.Everythig is fair in love and war.

Rexxx53 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 01:09PM

Practice makes perfect

1361858 - 22 Apr, 2020 - 11:53AM

Now this is a really tricky one but yes, perhaps it could really work. This has really got me thinking and I have a suggestion....

Assuming that you, your husband or both are good at DIY, I would suggest purchasing a large chandelier online. When it arrives, install it carefully in your bedroom. Lie on the bed, under said chandelier, adopting the missionary position, legs akimbo. Your husband having landed on the chandelier from jumping to it from the wardrobe, carefully aims himself and leaps from it, shouting, 'Geronimo' as he lands perfectly between your legs.... :-)

JohnSmith20042020 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 06:04PM

Go for it girl! Then you’ll know who’s better

ExoticOrchid - 21 Apr, 2020 - 05:48PM

Why not … he is your husband after all.

851951 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:50PM

If you practice them with hubby during lockdown you may find you won’t need an IE after All!!

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1371332 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:06PM

of course not !!!

Rosebud 737 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:02PM

Haha why not, it will make the time pass quicker!

1262378 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:01PM

And what would you have to look forward to? If hubby would be willing, why try elsewhere?

It depends on your reasons for looking elsewhere. Enjoy your choice whichever ways feels right

Lightmyfire936 - 21 Apr, 2020 - 04:00PM

Go for it .. we only live once and just maybe doing new positions with hubby might get things at home back on track

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