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Enigma.. - 19 Jul, 2025 - 09:33AM

@boav91

My thoughts exactly…
Why is she just wasting this man’s time when she can’t meet up “for now” and still has an active “apparently” sex life with her husband.
Way to many time wasters on this site 🙄🤷🏼‍♀️.

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boav91 - 19 Jul, 2025 - 09:09AM

Everyone comes to this for different reasons and I am ott here to judge but if there is enough spark to want to try different sexual positions with your husband is there not enough there to not need an ie. In my situation at least if my wife had wanted to do that I would not have looked wider. I know and have read people on here suggesting that that would be as much me as her, which may or may not be true, but she has never showed much interest in exploring that side and as we got older she was just happy to cuddle then go to sleep. My with my ie, totally different. We get to explore all that, but I will be honest, and my ie knows this, if i could have got that in my marriage I would not be on ie.

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1660660 - 08 Jun, 2024 - 03:22PM

Depends on communication in advance. Setting the scene for some more adventure in the bedroom might allay some suspicion. Most stuff has already been discussed on mumsnet- easy to say you read it on there or something 🤣. But at the end of the chat, your partner might still not want to do it….

Paula99 - 08 Jun, 2024 - 01:49PM

I think there is a big difference between clever wit and use of word phrases that have a real meaning than ‘carry on jargon’ like oooo er Mrs..nice melons you got there..

😂

EmnEm123 - 07 Jun, 2024 - 01:28PM

Bookreader

Dreich. What's your point?

1665215 - 05 Jun, 2024 - 05:14PM

I love the term 'saucy' Em....I think for those in long term, maybe moribund, relationships the use of Carry On language can sometimes make us feel youthful again (albeit slightly un-PC)

whats the Scottish word....dreich?...

xxx

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CocktailsandFun - 05 Jun, 2024 - 05:10PM

Great question, and some great funny answers 🤦‍♂️, but i suppose nobody is right or wrong. I reckon that if i had done that, i would want to save it for my new little secret partner. I think it would just build up the anticipation and excitement more, so when the moment comes, absolute eutopia. Also, as some have said, isn't this all about being different and making you feel like that way again.

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lockdownloopy! - 05 Jun, 2024 - 04:37PM

tell him you need attention and what to try something different before you do it!!
you never know it you might be surprised

Cathal301 - 05 Jun, 2024 - 04:03PM

I took my I e to visit the staples close to where I live and we saw a horse and mare mating.It really turned us both on and later we copied the positions and it was sooo horny.Is that bad.

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EmnEm123 - 05 Jun, 2024 - 01:03PM

I'm Scottish, not sure if it's a word that the English use?

Saucy, come on. Is it a 1970's what the window cleaner saw movie?

Cheap lingerie and keys in a bowl anybody?

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