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ExoticOrchid - 31 May, 2025 - 09:50PM

It seems to me, reading the recent comments here, some people bring their personal disappointments from private interactions onto the Forum ... if someone rejects you, take it on the chin like a man ... have some respect both for yourself and the other person. Simples.

It would also help if people read comments carefully before getting the wrong end of the stick and going on the attack and making a fool of themselves.

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Cheryl Kim - 31 May, 2025 - 01:12PM

People on IE who have actually had affairs share their experience on this forum, whether we like or agree with what they say. I personally have found it invaluable when first starting out. Experienced people may be blunt with facts that a newbie cannot yet see, but nobody is out to make your life difficult. It is all part of the learning about this lifestyle. You won’t suit everybody, and neither will everybody suit you. This is IE.

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MarkSWL - 31 May, 2025 - 12:39PM

Everyone is different and therefore the question encourages generalization that probably is misleading. We all just want that connection

FeldAii - 31 May, 2025 - 01:36AM

Looking for someone

Ian1123 - 30 May, 2025 - 11:12PM

ladies we all want the same thing and it's respect and to be desired not just physically but on all levels .. men women it's no different . I and don't shoot me fir it sometimes think ladies believe that men only want sex .. superficially perhaps but men i believe need reassurance more x

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Here we go 693 - 30 May, 2025 - 10:57PM

Surely all anyone wants on here is to find someone who appreciates them for who they are! We are all different sizes and shapes, experiences, hang ups, kinks, stories. We all fancy different things, or get turned on/off by different things. What's needed is understanding and respect, not finger pointing. We are all here for the same reason, something is missing from our married lives.

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tmn2024 - 30 May, 2025 - 10:31PM

Paula99 - 30 May, 2025 - 10:09PM

Precisely what I expected from you. Precisely.

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Stargazer9711 - 30 May, 2025 - 10:27PM

A man who notices and listens once for all! :-)

Paula99 - 30 May, 2025 - 10:09PM

tmn2024…

This is a chat forum and we all have different opinions….but when you join a chat group then you must have some respect …I still stick by what I said …Cancer completely miss understood my point totally and reverted to ‘defensive mode ‘ and made it personal ..clearly others agreed with me and only then did she decide it was light hearted….whatever she wants to do in the bedroom is her business but treating IE forum like some kind of dodgy sex chatroom is disrespectful..

As far as you saying you are non judgemental…you are already pre judging us..

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tmn2024 - 30 May, 2025 - 09:46PM

Cancer - 30 May, 2025 - 08:00PM

You absolutely hit the nail on the head with your "holier than thou" comment. For sure, there are people on here who come across like they're some kind of royalty in IE, like they're the font of all wisdom. When in fact they're no better than the rest of us who come here non-judgementally because we have some need or other.

It has often crossed my mind that it's no wonder some people land on IE, if they're as judgemental and pontifical in their home relationships as they are on here. Being on the receiving end of that becomes tiresome, enough to drive a wedge between two people. And low and behold, one of them arrives here. Or who knows - maybe even both of them do 🤣

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