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Chubby girl28 - 05 May, 2025 - 08:36PM

I would say yes, coming from a bigger lady here I would hate a conversation to be going great then later down the line he finds out I'm bigger and he doesn't like it and it ruins a connection. I believe physical attraction is definitely just as important as emotional connection. You can fall for someone emtionally and if not physically attracted to them it can end in heartbreak the same goes vica-versa or whoever it's spelt. X

SirrahNek - 05 May, 2025 - 04:32PM

Emnem Although I did once know a (very elegant) woman who was over six foot in her stockinged feet, and used to accentuate it by wearing lethally high heels to work. Her boyfriend was a diminutive scouser (also a very nice chap). It must have been like a chihuahua mounting a wolfhound.

It takes all sorts.

EmnEm123 - 05 May, 2025 - 03:43PM

tmn2024

Well, no, just no!

I'm 5'10", why would I be interested in a guy who is 5'6"?

And why would you be interested in a woman who towers over you?

You're completely missing my point.

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SirrahNek - 05 May, 2025 - 03:36PM

tmn2024 Betcha it wouldn’t spike at all. Quite apart from the old adage, underpromise and over deliver, I don’t think it makes that much difference. Message on the forums. Be positive. Be engaging. Make an effort. That’s what’ll cause a spike.

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Paula99 - 05 May, 2025 - 03:24PM

Tmn2024…

Changing your fixtures may get you a temporary upsurge in your in box but it still won’t guarantee you an IE ..and it still won’t get you a sustainable/fulfilling relationship..

Any woman in her right mind would take a look at your posts and think ….’’ Anger management “

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tmn2024 - 05 May, 2025 - 11:24AM

EmnEm123:

You've put an idea in my head. As an experiment, I could change my height on my profile to 6' plus with an athletic body, and measure the difference in my response/success rate versus the 5'6" I've currently got with an average body on my profile. I would actually love to do it because it go a long way towards proving my point, or not.

Of course I'm not going to do it because that would be dishonest and misleading. And in the long run, all that would happen is that I get a name around here for lieing about my physical attributes.

However I am so confident that my suspicions would be bourne out that I would be willing to put down a €100 bet that my response/hit rate would instantly spike.

cutenessburnt - 05 May, 2025 - 06:34AM

Peaches 1

I don't know what men mean when they say they love curves, because I got curves.
My balustrade is a place of safety.
Especially in a dim light.

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EmnEm123 - 04 May, 2025 - 04:48PM

tmn2024

I have lost count of the number of times that I have posted here that women are absolutely not bombarded with messages, any women claiming otherwise are just big hits for themselves, and liars.

bigbandito

I have to disagree with you.

I like tall men because I am tall, that's it, nothing to do with perceived strength or being well endowed.

I'm pretty sure that the women on here would agree that most men's 'endowments' are pretty much of a muchness.

It's rare for either very large or very small.

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boav91 - 04 May, 2025 - 08:42AM

WE all have different likes and dislikes, no problem with that at all, more the statements on the profile dont match the reality of what happens but to quote the Beautiful south

'Cause we love our love in different sizes
I love her body, especially the lines
Time takes its toll, but not on the eyes
Promise me this, take me tonight

After that I will just carry a step ladder with me

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Dave 2025 - 03 May, 2025 - 11:30PM

Peaches 1.

Just seen your post and you want a man's perspective when they say curves what are they referring too.. .

Well I can not answer every man's view but for me the womans body is full of curves and it's not all about the boobs. More importantly all bodies differ from on female to another and their profiles differ with size which makes it so fascinating and beautiful. So the undulating changes from bottom to waste front and back up all the way to the neck are a world to explore and enjoy. Soz so to answer your question I definitely don't just mean boobs when I refer to curves.. For many men the more fuller women are more attractive for that reason .
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