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Naughty in NW - 18 Apr, 2025 - 12:19PM

SirrahNek.....

Yes, you're right. The often fictitious description tends to be very similar across many profiles.

Slightly better than the spatchcock chicken look though........

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Bukowski69 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 11:44AM

I still believe the Internet is a good place to find a lovely match, but I also get frustrated that those that are successful probably spend days at a time on here. I have a life and so pop in. I have always tried to be polite and cannot believe a decent partner in crime is interested "Heys, Babes, YoW, or Come to the promised land" - but Hey Babes, I might be wrong Yow - in the promised land.

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SirrahNek - 18 Apr, 2025 - 09:47AM

CG28 - isn’t the description always the same anyway?
Ah. There. That's it. That's the shape we're looking for; the 'last-chicken-in-the-shop' look.

Chubby girl28 - 18 Apr, 2025 - 12:36AM

For me it's describing your genitals I don't want to know that right away haha

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Purple dreamer - 17 Apr, 2025 - 06:59AM

Not sure there are answers to this everyone is different

Paula99 - 17 Apr, 2025 - 05:09AM

Naughty in NW…

I couldn’t have said it better myself…

Right on the money 😊

Naughty in NW - 16 Apr, 2025 - 10:24PM

Personally, I don't have the time or inclination to reply to men who have clearly not read my profile properly. Worse still, they have read it and completely disregarded what it says!
If this is apparent I don't really care if they are hung like a donkey, genuine interest, initial profile compatibility and manners are far more important to me.

I would advise to read profiles a few times, pick out something that let's me know you have read it in your initial message and we'll go from there. There is nothing more off-putting than receiving a 'machine gun' message which is totally generic and impersonal.

Each to their own of course, just my views. Good luck out there guys and girls!

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1768358 - 16 Apr, 2025 - 09:46PM

From a woman’s point of you … just be you.
Show you have read their profile and just encourage them to visit yours without anything ott
A generic message that’s used for all is obvious and off putting. Short and sweet is best

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Man_Alive_2025 - 16 Apr, 2025 - 01:06PM

I tend not to ask any questions in my first message other than to say something like why not take a look at me?

But before that I’ll have read their profile carefully and will only message if I think I suit them and they suit me. And in my message I’ll make it obvious I’ve read their profile and I’m making contact because I think we’re looking for similar things.

So what I think I’m saying is don’t be generic, and tailor your message to the person you’re writing to

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SirrahNek - 16 Apr, 2025 - 12:40PM

I think that the first thing to accept is that you are just another guy in the queue. We all are.

The next thing to accept is that all women are different, with different needs and different dreams. There may be questions that one person wants to be asked that are absolutely out of the question for another. One size does not fit all.

Read the profiles carefully. Read between the lines. Ask questions accordingly. But don’t expect that you’ll magically jump any queues - that’s not your decision to make!

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