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Questions that make them go 🙄

I have been on this website for a few months with not much success. I get that ladies are approached a lot. What questions should I not ask to make it look like I am just another guy in the queue?

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Faramir791 - 13 Jun, 2025 - 02:43PM

Hey P99, have you tried golf? You might like it!


Scrappymog - 13 Jun, 2025 - 01:48PM

Bit harsh MLE..no need really.

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YourSecretLover - 13 Jun, 2025 - 01:31PM

Little bit of cheekiness sometimes helps, but be polite, and courteous, however the outcome.

It's quite small how different some reactions can be. I often want to say to someone the clues in the name' illicit encounters, it's not Facebook.



marklondonengland - 13 Jun, 2025 - 01:30PM

This question is in itself a confirmation that you can't start a conversation with someone new. If you need to ask on a forum how to ask a a question that someone might find interesting then maybe you need to look elsewhere... It's funny how many questions here can be answered simply by saying 'look in the mirror...'


Davidnormal - 13 Jun, 2025 - 11:55AM

Actually read their profile and see what they are looking for and what you have in common. I would always want to make a woman appreciate that I have read the profile and that there is a good reason why I'm making contact.... not just for some superficial reason. An interesting subject line helps too.

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Candothat4U - 13 Jun, 2025 - 11:23AM

Be yourself and if that’s not good enough then so be it , you’ll get found out sooner or later if you try to be somebody else

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Doubleohseven - 18 May, 2025 - 05:52PM

OP - Question not to ask: "What questions should I ask?"

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DramaFree&Easy - 18 May, 2025 - 01:54PM

@The Lush

It’s quite amusing to think that one could really annoy another with a mindless question like that.

The problem is, so few women respond and the competition is quite fierce..given the higher than usual membership fee, I can see why guys are inclined to spam pointless questions like that without realising the damage it does to their chances.

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The Lush - 17 May, 2025 - 04:59PM

"What are you looking for?" is the question that drives me nuts...

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Paula99 - 16 May, 2025 - 01:47PM

I think it would be easier to say …I have just got back from the sex shop …what would you like 👍

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