When will I see you again?
I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?
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Funguy77 - 24 Mar, 2025 - 02:44PM
By the way I re joined on Thursday last week had a chat with a lovely lady we agreed to meet on the Friday just to say hi and confirm we are genuine we then meet for coon sat afternoon then f@@ked the s@@t out each other by 4pm and agreed to see each other more
That’s how it’s done 👍😛
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Imagine this… - 24 Mar, 2025 - 01:10PM
4 meets? Well you can certainly give me some tips on messaging as I’m on zero…so you are doing far better than me pal ;)
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Funguy77 - 23 Mar, 2025 - 03:17PM
Everyone makes basic mistakes in the beginning. We are all guilty of talking about ourselves as we all think our lives and we matter but in reality no you F@@g don’t lol . It’s the sad truth make peace with it then you can move on and grow as a person. Try listening then you may find common ground and interest and respect. Or just keep it to just sex after all that’s why we are here. Don’t lie you know it’s true.
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EmnEm123 - 23 Mar, 2025 - 02:19PM
If you get to a second meet with four people and are ghosted by them all them all you must be doing something wrong.
For me that could be bitching and whining about your partner, no-one wants to hear it, it's hardly conducive to having a good time.
Keep it light, it's just a couple of dates, no-one needs to know every single detail about you at that point.
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New-Lover - 23 Mar, 2025 - 11:35AM
Communication. Let them know what you want, when you are free for the odd chat and show your romantic side.
Make a plan with them of how often they hope to see you and see if you can fix it.
Kent Classy Gent 69 - 23 Mar, 2025 - 11:24AM
I always make it very clear I'm not interested in ONS.,the fact is the chemistry has to be there. If it's a first meet you need to be on the top of your game. You actually treat each meet like that. It has to be amazing or what's the point.
I've only not had a repeat meet twice which disappointing. I made it clear I was really looking for more. I'm still in regular touch with one of then though. So I did get a friendship so that's nice
justtheguynextdoor - 23 Mar, 2025 - 09:28AM
Just stay in the game. Expecting too much too soon will only lead to disappointment. It can take time and multiple dates to eventually find what you are looking for. Just try and enjoy the journey as much as possible!
SirrahNek - 24 Feb, 2025 - 11:38AM
Way back before I got married I got used to dates that went nowhere - I didn't expect every date to lead to a relationship. Sometimes you just have a nice evening, and then that's it - compatibility is not guaranteed. It takes all sorts.
One of my best dates ever (which led to serial one night stands with the same woman, ONS because we weren't committing to each other) was in a London bar where I hadn't clicked with my date, and she hadn't clicked with hers. So we swapped. And it shouldn't have worked because were very different with few shared interests. But we made each other laugh. And that, sometimes, is enough.
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