When will I see you again?
I have met 4 beautiful ladies in the past few months since joining IE. I enjoyed all my meets enough to have a second date but have subsequently been ghosted and rejected by all of them. I have another first meet arranged next week. What can I do to increase my chances of a second meet and hopefully a longer term IE?
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laugar164 - 21 Jul, 2025 - 05:12PM
Ghosting is for losers. People should have enough. Courage to say thanks but your not my type unfortunately
It's about respect. In my eyes
Paula99 - 21 Jul, 2025 - 04:31PM
We have all been ghosted at some point …it’s just the way it is ….no use getting mithered about it ..
It’s their loss ….bunch of losers 😂
Life is a beach - 19 Jul, 2025 - 10:24PM
Most people wouldn't have a second date unless they liked someone.
Difficult to know what went wrong if they just ghosted you. I hate ghosting. I do prefer telling or being told!
Having a second date you have a big chance!
Show an interest in them, listen, don't complain about your life or your partner.
Be charming, be a gent.
Good luck!
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boyoboy1965 - 17 Jul, 2025 - 02:38PM
I always impress them with my encyclopedic knowledge of Benny Hill episodes, and my rendition of 'Ernie' then seals the deal.
"Do you want it pasteurised, 'cause pasteurised be best".
Or maybe not, I can be quite random (as evidenced above where Benny Hill flashed into my mind for no apparent reason), and some women like that, but the best advice I could give is to make them laugh. And make them feel special, because they are.
Doubleohseven - 17 Jul, 2025 - 11:07AM
P99, logistics is keeping us apart but eventually fate will unite us😄😄
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Paula99 - 16 Jul, 2025 - 08:21PM
DO7….swoon swoon ..
You have caught me ….😂😊
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hortonand - 16 Jul, 2025 - 09:06AM
Perhaps next time not ask to split the bill Lol
Just keep in touch and keep plugging away
Tanzanite1973 - 14 Jul, 2025 - 05:22AM
Ghosting is just rude, you at least should get a polite message to say you're not what they're looking for, didn't click, or whatever the reason was.
I don't like men who are pushy and too forward, and if the chemistry isn't there I won't have a second meet. Maybe you and these women just didn't click from their point of view?
Just be pleasant and polite and don't rush into anything.
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Doubleohseven - 14 Jul, 2025 - 01:24AM
Look at their eyes intensely.
Be charming, charismatic, funny...
Show your heart. Display your brain.
Touch their hand and, when you do so, give a slight electric spark
Neglected no more - 13 Jul, 2025 - 09:17PM
Don't be too full on. Most men i have come across are just too gushing and its a bit off putting. Not saying that you are.
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