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Loopy045 - 14 Mar, 2024 - 08:49PM

I am a guy but I've noticed that most men here screw it up and makes it more difficult for all of us here because:
1) They don't know how to speak with ladies...hello baby or showing your d...k won't do what do you think you're in the jungle?
2) They're boring because unless you look like Brad pitt or just buying the girls attention with money (which in any case won't be the good quality girls so no thank you ) you need to HAVE HUMOUR
3) You have to understand a a woman''s NEEDS and put yourself in her shoes it is not only ABOUT WHATYOU WANT but about why you would want this girl to speak to you

I have been here for 5 days and I've noticed that alot (not all) women here feel entitled..yeah 6ft..6 figures,, 6 packs..and the alpha like the guy who has all this would be here or he was we would just hunt ALL those girls f
Those women treat guys like garbage because your attitude guys allows them to

In the end I can not force to like me but I won't tolerate arrogance and disrepect as I always repect l

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Legs&Eyes - 14 Mar, 2024 - 11:58AM

What a guy shouldnt do, is answer all questions asked with one word answers....
then when challenged on it, call ME 'lost on here' (as I've been here for a year)....

When I pointed out he's not asked how many encounters I've had in that time - he then called me 'defensive'!

Today, he messages to say 'I'm so pleased you're ignoring me'.. and blocks me. Which is a blessing really as he would have had to find a new adjective to describe today's response...

So.... if a guy can work out how to be a bit interactive (read my profile), a bit interested and can be polite - and not rude - then that works for me!

But honestly guys - throwing words out like 'you're lost' and 'you're defensive' will hardly engage!

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Legs&Eyes - 14 Mar, 2024 - 11:46AM

BraGirl...

Nope, not him! Lol.....

#TheresMoreThanOne

:)

Paula99 - 12 Mar, 2024 - 06:37PM

Shaved smooth …

Vanishing applies to both sexes…but we do appreciate that we have another life in this equation and having a little patience does work …happy hunting ..😁

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BraGirl - 12 Mar, 2024 - 05:28PM

@Legs&Eyes I guess if one is Sporty and a Stranger it can happen. 😊

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more 2 give - 12 Mar, 2024 - 05:23PM

I found it overwhelming when I first joined, I sent a wide spread of messages and had a few conversations going at the same time.

With experience I'm a little more selective, take my time and build up the conversation.

It's not easy, even when you progress beyond a chat to a social meet, there's a high probability of rejection, depending on how good looking you are.

But with perseverance hopefully you find what you're looking for.

Shavedsmooth - 12 Mar, 2024 - 05:11PM

If you are getting any replies then you are doing well. If you do manage to get a conversation then do expect they will just vanish. I was messaging a lovely lady who did apologise for having to go. I have to say I was extremely impressed. I’m hoping she will be back tomorrow

Triumph2000 - 12 Mar, 2024 - 03:24PM

Being careful is paramount but what works is getting on together and making a connection. I've a fantastic friend through meeting here.

Purple dreamer - 12 Mar, 2024 - 01:46PM

Myself I prefer a hello and general how are you and hopefully the conversation will go from there
I never respond to the ones who start with sex or immediately head that way yes i know we are here for illicit encounters but if you were chatting me up in a pub would you start with something like "I want to fuck you "

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1642435 - 12 Mar, 2024 - 12:57PM

If you’re a man under 50, over six feet tall and living in London you have a chance of getting a reply, if not join the queue with the rest of us 60+ 5’8 midgets living in the sticks

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