What is the secret ?
I am new here so I’m still learning the rules of the game. How ever I would
love to know the secret to getting a response to an initial message.
Looking at my in box it’s a sad collection of unanswered messages!
Hopefully the ladies can help ? What do you like to receive - short and to
the point or a bit of an essay? Pushy or reserved ?
Alternatively what do you look for in a profile ?
Then again it could just be me and the world is telling me something -
along the lines of - this is not the place for you !!
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boav91 - 07 Mar, 2024 - 08:52AM
Again as a guy it is to some degree about perseverance. I was on here for several months before anything really successful happened. Before that, , lots of being ignored with some v short chats. A couple progressed to bit more of a chat but did not really lead to anything, then one time it just clicked, and it continues to click.
I think from what I learnt women do get lots of messages. Some like men to persevere and others don’t. Not being an idiot and getting upset with people helps. Eventually it is about that chemistry. If you are genuine IMO pics of private parts should be reserved for times when you are in a private relationship and they are wanted.
When I stopped taking rejection or lack of response as a sense of a rejection of me more how this place works, and just enjoyed it for what you can get it got easier and I was more relaxed about it too.
Chatting on here too is useful as it gets some notice too. I felt like you for a while and nearly left twice but then it worked so good luck.
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Who dares - 07 Mar, 2024 - 08:36AM
As a man I find you have to be patient the ladies do get a few messages but eventually one will respond Cast your net wide the one thing that gets me is the very specific age ranges
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