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1529050 - 10 May, 2023 - 10:10AM

I agree Blue eyes, Enigma and Boav..

Start of short, flirty and fun (like me!), as it progresses a bit more - it's nice to find out what you have in common, what interests you have etc. Not huge fan of what do you like sexually messages - lets discuss that when we meet! But for me whilst messaging is fun - much better to meet and chat in person :) as I think has been said on another thread messages can get misconstrued.

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boav91 - 10 May, 2023 - 09:30AM

Ooh I struggled here. I like banter and going with the flow but then Apparently I misread the signs and got too keen. There is no non verbals here so how do you read the room.

One of the best times I had here, before I got too keen apparently , was a free flowing bit of chat and banter one evening for about an hour. Cheeky fun, flirting, some other things too. If nothing else I think we both enjoyed that.

I think for me be clear in communication and don't think the other person has understood things.the same way. If it is too little or too much say so then if they still don't follow back away but be honest and see where it goes.

In my case keenness led to being blocked so now I can't even explain about misunderstanding which is a shame. Good communication is key

Enigma.. - 10 May, 2023 - 09:12AM

I prefer a mix of humorous and cheeky banter and also intelligent conversations. They stimulate not only my mind but my body 😉😀.

Being able to talk about everything and anything is refreshing, stimulating and important to me.

If all someone can chat about is their boring day at the office or football or even the site 🥱🙄😴… To me they are not really interested in me, don’t know what to talk about or have nothing else to talk about.

As for the sexual chat… it gets boring, monotonous, less stimulating and more off putting after you have read the same innuendos and sexual comments over and over again 🙄🥱🤷🏼‍♀️.

Just my opinion.

Plain talking Scottish woman here 😉😉

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Blueyes335 - 10 May, 2023 - 09:11AM

Short with banter is a good start. But once you get a 'feel' of who's at the other end, deep and meaning get its own direction. Yes, I'm still referring to conversation when I say feel. 😉

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Caroline Red - 10 May, 2023 - 09:01AM

im a woman so i like chats that are 99% about me..

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