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KerryD - 17 Jul, 2025 - 01:54PM

There are chat apps now such as Wing Ai. Really hate them. It's fine to use for ice breakers ideas, but long AI generated profiles and messages are just a no. And why don't you read what the machine wrote before sending.

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Amandi1712 - 17 Jul, 2025 - 01:23PM

Any comment is a valid comment. From my perspective just easy chat, then maybe a meet up for a coffee, just to prove I have my own teeth and hair 😂. Then you connect or you don’t. This is not rocket science, it’s about instinctive attraction coupled with a need for lost intimacy.

Have a good day

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laugar164 - 13 Jul, 2025 - 12:53PM

Hey Enigma very true , how's my profile looking ,bonus it's not AI generated

Enigma.. - 13 Jul, 2025 - 10:18AM

@GBB

A majority of male members profiles up here north of the border are auto generated usually with nothing entered under “ideal partner” 🤷🏼‍♀️🙄.
The reasons most ladies will not reply to most auto generated profiles is because… if these men can’t be bothered to set up proper hand written profiles stating what they are looking for “relationship” wise and “partner” wise…
Then why should we be bothered replying to an auto scripted, boring, repetitive lazy man’s message 🤷🏼‍♀️😏.

Also the ponds drying up fast, especially in this heat lol, and I think you’ll find that the school is not as big as it seems or you think it is.
There’s definitely a need for some restocking 🤣 as most of the “options” are well past their use by date 😂😏😃😉.

The above was typed in my usual tongue in cheek manner but, as usual, factual… unfortunately 🫤

Personally my

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boav91 - 13 Jul, 2025 - 08:27AM

This site is to some degree reflective of the real world but also not so. Normally we get pigeon holed into our own little circles and don’t see all sorts of life. The online world is very different , you get people who are honest and players, mixed with people wanting affairs with those just here for a chat. It that proverbial box of chocolates you don’t know what you will get. Over the time heer I have met so many different types, I don’t think for me it is one thing that makes you go cringe, as it varies. The lack of honesty and integrity to what we both want I think does it for me. Now I am sure I won’t be everyone’s cup of tea either but hey different strokes. Took me a year to find someone and many failures before that . Matches do exist but just can be bloody hard to find sometimes.

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Paula99 - 13 Jul, 2025 - 08:22AM

GBB…

Sorry to disappoint you …but the issue isn’t gender related…it also depends where you are located…how much time you have to offer …if you have had a previous affair ..how many years ago …and your age ( Tongue in cheek)…..quality not quantity 😊

Ladies prefer a guy that makes an effort …it’s a good indication the OP is a ‘keeper’..

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Rare Breed - 13 Jul, 2025 - 07:17AM

This is easy. The first sent message (obviously copy and pasted to all and sundry) which describes War & Peace style what the sender wants to do to me in graphic detail. To be honest I usually don't even respond to say no thank you but now and again I do with a quip which goes somewhere along the lines of 'I think you'd be better placed in a 'massage' parlour mate', or 'I'll look up a sex chat 'phone number for you'. Being w*nk fodder is great when in a relationship but with a stranger? I might as well be earning money from it if that way inclined.

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Tanzanite1973 - 13 Jul, 2025 - 06:00AM

Leo-London,
I'm new on here too, and I view this site for being able to meet guys on here for 'an affair'. Ultimately looking for a sexual relationship with the right man.
Me personally, I'd want to ensure that there is attraction between us before moving on to sex. I'd only approach the subject once we'd met in person.
From your comment, I can only guess that you're asking for sex too soon. Arrange a social meet first to see how you and the lady get on.

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GolfBeachBeer - 12 Jul, 2025 - 11:21PM

I have to say from my perspective so far 95% of the ladies profiles are not actually thought out and are created using the IE setup.

I do understand the need for more ladies on the site, but its a bit of a pain to know that you have put loads of effort in both your profile and a message and you are a tiny fish in a large school.....

Jimbo1974534 - 12 Jul, 2025 - 06:23PM

To be honest. One sentence and nothing more seems a red flag. When the profile states intellectual conversations but talk like idiots or scammers is so frustrating. Bleeding hell, it's supposed to be a site for understanding adults not a playground for the thick!