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Distance & IEs

How do you feel about the distance between you and a potential IE? For example, I receive messages from men who live in other parts of the country but travel with work to my area. Personally, it makes me feel like they're looking for a hook up in every port they travel to. Is it better that they live in your county or the next? Can an affair be better and more fulfilling the nearer the person lives?

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Fluffy Sunshine - 23 Dec, 2023 - 09:58AM

Like others have said if your IE is too far, it can then become so infrequent when you see each other, it’s hardly worth it. There again , you don’t want an IE who lives too close as you risk getting caught far more easily.


1635363 - 22 Dec, 2023 - 05:43PM

In the Scottish highlands ie are never going to be close but at least it not the other end of the uk
Someone in the Highlands would be nice or Moray

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1575033 - 19 Dec, 2023 - 12:47PM

Specific dates are best, up to one hours travel for each party, from experience,
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takidemir - 12 Dec, 2023 - 12:20PM

You don't want to eat the same cake every day. Tasting different things, even once in a while, can be beneficial and increase your appetite. you should try it. medenitaki


1493674 - 12 Dec, 2023 - 10:32AM

There are hardly any ladies within practical meeting distance (40 miles) of me these days, so no IE meets happen anyway.


marklondonengland - 11 Dec, 2023 - 11:33AM

This entirely depends on how often you want to meet and how much flexibility you want. Some people prefer to book time well in advance and some prefer the ability to do things spontaneously. Distance doesn't matter if you can plan. I met an IE here once who actually lived in the US - she had registered here while she was in the UK visiting her sister. We got on well and I started visiting the US every other month, and her coming to the UK every other month. That worked for a some time, until we both went into new relationships and ended the IE.


Enigma.. - 11 Dec, 2023 - 11:16AM

Hmmmmm…. 🤔

So you’ve found someone so you no longer have to search on the site.

Yet are now using Flirt Forum as an reason to still be online.

“I only come onto the site to take in Flirt Forum” 🙄.

That old chestnut 🥱😂😉😏.

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Happy Henry - 11 Dec, 2023 - 09:49AM

@Paula99

I didn't mean next door .. lol ... But close enough not to have to make risky excuses ... Personal arrangements very much depend on particular personal circumstances, so i guess its each to their own ...

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Paula99 - 11 Dec, 2023 - 05:32AM

Bunnyman007…

A hour away works perfectly..

Happy Henry …

Closer than that??? Hmmmm..you won’t be so happy when your marriage falls apart ..you are tempting fate and yes the stakes are ‘too high’ …use your 🧠 not your the one in your trousers 😂

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Happy Henry - 10 Dec, 2023 - 10:46PM

Closer is, for me, definitely better. It is more intense, more connected, and so much more a real part of your life. Maybe because the stakes seem higher, the illicit-ness is also hightened ... Win Win .... ;-)

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