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marklondonengland - 11 Dec, 2023 - 11:33AM

This entirely depends on how often you want to meet and how much flexibility you want. Some people prefer to book time well in advance and some prefer the ability to do things spontaneously. Distance doesn't matter if you can plan. I met an IE here once who actually lived in the US - she had registered here while she was in the UK visiting her sister. We got on well and I started visiting the US every other month, and her coming to the UK every other month. That worked for a some time, until we both went into new relationships and ended the IE.

Enigma.. - 11 Dec, 2023 - 11:16AM

Hmmmmm…. 🤔

So you’ve found someone so you no longer have to search on the site.

Yet are now using Flirt Forum as an reason to still be online.

“I only come onto the site to take in Flirt Forum” 🙄.

That old chestnut 🥱😂😉😏.

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Happy Henry - 11 Dec, 2023 - 09:49AM

@Paula99

I didn't mean next door .. lol ... But close enough not to have to make risky excuses ... Personal arrangements very much depend on particular personal circumstances, so i guess its each to their own ...

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Paula99 - 11 Dec, 2023 - 05:32AM

Bunnyman007…

A hour away works perfectly..

Happy Henry …

Closer than that??? Hmmmm..you won’t be so happy when your marriage falls apart ..you are tempting fate and yes the stakes are ‘too high’ …use your 🧠 not your the one in your trousers 😂

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Happy Henry - 10 Dec, 2023 - 10:46PM

Closer is, for me, definitely better. It is more intense, more connected, and so much more a real part of your life. Maybe because the stakes seem higher, the illicit-ness is also hightened ... Win Win .... ;-)

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1635369 - 10 Dec, 2023 - 10:34PM

Had a friend who said it was better to have an affair at least an hour away from where you lived! Less risky and not necessarily having to look over your shoulder so to speak 😉

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1632457 - 10 Dec, 2023 - 10:12PM

If I make a connection here I'm happy to travel, I think reading the comments you could build a wonderful connection, if the distance is good it would be good.

But then as somebody else said, travelling for 200 miles or more it could create so passionate buzz, you'd have more time to make sure the place was perfect, the little bits of attention to detail were right.

In this day and age, technology allows you to connect like never before, but the in the flesh can take on a whole new meaning.

So personally, either is good - I enjoy time in my car,

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Tiger89 - 10 Dec, 2023 - 10:01PM

I think distance adds excitement, freedom and a layer of discretion. Personally I would love an IE romance bubble - our own world far away/ cut off from life.

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MichaelL39 - 10 Dec, 2023 - 09:27PM

I think if you’re happy having an affair with someone you shouldnt judge them for having more than one affair or a girl in every port.
I’m
Like to meet Pollymay
But her location is Town so I don’t know which town that is ?

1626541 - 10 Dec, 2023 - 06:11PM

thats not greedy!

but i guess if you had an amazing chat and connection and meet and they were miles away...well..thats been my journey..but like i said before..i cast the net wider only to find a person 4 miles away...anyway i shouldn't be on the forums..though maybe i can be now, there is no need to do the searching is there x