When do you know……?
It is so difficult reading between the lines of text messages. Ladies, how do we guys know you are interested, or just being friendly? What vibes should we be looking out for, and what kind of responses strike a balance between being keen back but not disrespectful?
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kinkyfrisky - 10 May, 2022 - 11:43PM
I find it's a very fine line between forming an articulate, friendly message, specifically to the person whose profile I've just read all of (yes, I'm the guy that actually reads them all the way to the bottom) and not wasting a ton of time and words when the recipient either doesn't read it, or reads and doesn't reply......so when I DO get a reply, it's hard to resist getting my hopes up and going to heavy on the messages.....then being seen as badgering, lol
Paula99 - 10 May, 2022 - 09:16PM
You do need to text each other...its important to communicate....you don't need to share your whole life ..just the basic stuff....you can't sustain your affair if you don't have some kind of partnership and understanding of your IEs commitments and vice versa.
Chat on the phone...if you can....
Some people don't work in the way I have described..you may have an IE that wants mininal contact...if you are happy with that then all good..😊
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1494077 - 10 May, 2022 - 06:01PM
@MayIPls
Let him know exactly that. ‘Regular texts would be nice!’
Be direct 😊
You’ll know if he is willing to make the effort then.
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1483184 - 10 May, 2022 - 05:38PM
May I pls , it’s a booty call sex for minimum effort from him , this in no way is you ! . It’s him
1510149 - 10 May, 2022 - 05:18PM
So if someone says to you meet occasionally and you do but they don't seems to want to txt much in between how in i nice way would you say. Sometimes a text would be nice.
1490598 - 10 May, 2022 - 10:32AM
Just ask her bluntly if she is interested or not and if so you would like to either meet socially or move on.
1494077 - 07 May, 2022 - 08:22PM
@Sportster
Yes they are indeed. I take everybody as an individual. I was replying to the OP as he asked for a woman’s opinion.
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1382700 - 07 May, 2022 - 12:08PM
EO
fair. Guess you’re right
1117169 - 06 May, 2022 - 10:01AM
@Boredhouswife764
Although some women would like to believe otherwise, all men are different too.
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1494077 - 06 May, 2022 - 09:11AM
OP
Tough one, as all women are different, and looking for different things on IE.
Personally I just like a man to come as he is. I’m a bit of a nosey chatterbox anyway, so if a man reciprocates in an open fashion, then more than likely we will have a great time and quite possibly a meet. If, like what @UKF alluded to about getting vibes that someone isn’t forthcoming, chances are that our conversation won’t get off the runway. Personally I don’t like sexual flirting on the initial approach, but to each their own on that one.
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