When do you know……?
It is so difficult reading between the lines of text messages. Ladies, how do we guys know you are interested, or just being friendly? What vibes should we be looking out for, and what kind of responses strike a balance between being keen back but not disrespectful?
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1117169 - 05 May, 2022 - 12:37PM
@NWH
Don't be a fool. She's just a chatter boosting her ego or alleviating her boredom. she isn't going to meet you or anyone.
Stop now and move on
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DorsetLass89 - 05 May, 2022 - 10:44AM
NWH
I hear you! I’m not always great at taking my own advice either, especially when you feel it’s going so well.
Sometimes we just need to remind ourselves that when the right one comes along (and they do!) it will be worth it
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FluffyClouds - 05 May, 2022 - 10:30AM
With regards to the the main question, surely when you swap pics, you should both say if there's any attraction. I don't think you need to read between the lines, surely? After a few days of decent messaging you should just ask for a meet, if they beat around the bush and avoid it, just move on. They're just here for the chat.
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1382700 - 05 May, 2022 - 10:26AM
DorsetLass89
Problem is some of us can’t help focussing on one person. I know it’s not clever to be sensitive on this site but I can’t help it. I’ve chatted with someone everyday for a couple of weeks. We get on really well but she doesn’t feel she has the time (and maybe the inclination) to meet. I’m finding it difficult to hide my disappointment.
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FluffyClouds - 05 May, 2022 - 10:25AM
Michael -
If she won't give you a pw for a pic then just abandon ship. She's not going to get very far with any man with that attitude. Who's going to meet her without knowing what she looks like?
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Kiara014 - 04 May, 2022 - 09:05PM
Speaking for myself this is my filter I only answer to guys who send me their pw along with a nice message after looking @ their profile & if I liked what I saw.. Otherwise, I don't engage on conversation..
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Chezley - 04 May, 2022 - 08:30PM
Paula
Such talk didn't originate from this forum.
And you're not likely to be familiar with it.
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Paula99 - 04 May, 2022 - 07:58PM
Chezley....
Not like you to use the chat forum vocabulary..?
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