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Paula99 - 19 Dec, 2024 - 02:31PM

Some members will answer your messages …the majority don’t …we can’t always engage with everyone on here..there aren’t enough hours in the day ..take everything with a pinch of salt and try not to get would up about petty things …
No one likes a winger ….🙁

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Enigma.. - 19 Dec, 2024 - 10:43AM

Jessica…

Wow… 30+ messages per day.
That’s probably because you live in or around a large city.

I live a small town about 35 miles south west of Glasgow.
I’ll be lucky if I get 7-10 messages in a week lol.
Most of those are usually from males who are not within reasonable travelling distance or outwith my lower and upper age limits 🙄🫤.

1725148 - 19 Dec, 2024 - 10:16AM

Just chat, normally, relaxed, calm, and if it goes somewhere, great, if not, oh well, just don’t be one of those whiney arses, complaing and crying about the cost and no replies and blah, blah, f*ckin blah!!

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JessicaRampantRabbit - 18 Dec, 2024 - 09:17AM

Hi guys. Reading through some of the other comments, I can see it is hard for you. Obviously, I don’t get much contact with the girls on here, so only really knew what I did.
Hopefully a few helpful thoughts:
1. Admin. Not sure about other women, but I get a LOT of messages, often 30+ individuals messaging per day! Realistically, I can’t build or maintain a relationship with that many people. So, basically if I message back at all, I’m probably interested!
2. Intentions. I have a loving relationship…with my husband! I’m here for something naughty and outside of this, so if you’re looking for a soulmate, friend, penpal, I’m probably not going to engage. I’ve tried to be clear on my profile about this, so maybe take in what girls are saying. Looking at the other replies, I accept some girls don’t operate like this!

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1208523 - 18 Dec, 2024 - 08:23AM

I think if you have been chatting for a while your instincts will give you a good gut feeling about who you are chatting with and wether you should continue.

Purple dreamer - 18 Dec, 2024 - 08:02AM

Think it is just as hard for us ladies , response can be hard finding that balance but if the conversation flows is always a good in my book

Paula99 - 29 Sep, 2024 - 10:00AM

Loverablenut1..

Unfortunately there are ‘players ‘ here as in real life ..

This applies to both sexes …😕

1709307 - 28 Sep, 2024 - 12:09PM

It’s hard to tell when you meet how people feel . I met a guy for lunch , he was charming. I went to the bathroom at the same time and he came on to me with a very passionate kiss. We then went to another bar where he rubbed my inner thigh. Apparently he was giving me a good time but not attracted to me. Just testing if he was. ! Strange for an intelligent guy. So my evaluation is you never know !

FluffyClouds - 10 Aug, 2024 - 03:52PM

People are different, but I've found there are plenty of men who just like to talk and nothing else. Talking for days and days. Are they here to meet women or not? 🤔Talking forever doesn't guarantee you a positive outcome...it's the first date that's the most important.

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xxxaffair - 10 Aug, 2024 - 10:11AM

Have you been in the situation where you wasn't feeling it and you stopped making the effort to respond quickly, or you swapped passwords and their pictures didn't do it for you? You might be the kind of person that says what you're feeling and end the conversation or you drift away (aka ghosting).

It shouldn't be necessary to read between the lines. If she's interested then the conversation will flow and develop. If you get that far then ask the question do you want to meet otherwise what's the point; she probably doesn't need a pen pal.

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