I like being a mistress...
I was married for a while and when I divorced I decided that relationships aren’t for me. I can’t be doing with all of the angst and insecurities. In 20 years I have been the mistress/lover of 4 men. I like being a mistress. Just great sex and no laundry!! Your thoughts please. X
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justtheguynextdoor - 17 Mar, 2025 - 08:21PM
If it works it works! So long as you are happy I guess that is all that matters ☺️
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Man_Alive_2025 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 01:58PM
Paula99. It wasn’t a criticism. I was just stating what my experience was. I didn’t want to end it or, selfishly on my part, for it to end. What happened was she realised shortly after we started seeing each other that as a newly separated woman she wanted a ‘legitimate’ relationship with someone that was more available than a married man. And I don’t blame her one bit for that.
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LadyDe - 17 Mar, 2025 - 01:48PM
My husbands mistress is single and I don’t worry or feel threatened in the slightest …
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Paula99 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 12:33PM
ManAlive2025….Why does it appear to be the ‘females’ always want more?
Single women seem to get the blame for this but believe me there are some bloody unscrupulous married people in here….by the way I am not single. …married or not we all have a lot to loose some more than others but you have decided to join the club and obey the rules you must ..
Being a mistress isn’t what is cracked up to be ...for some it can be a lonely place …no one to talk too and you have your ‘absent ‘ times when your lover is with his family ..
For those that like the idea and having a no frills option then go for it ….😊
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sudboy70 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 12:29PM
Have to agree with man-alive both people know what they are in for and can put safety measures in place so their respective partners don't get hurt.
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Man_Alive_2025 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 11:09AM
As a married guy I think being with someone who is also married has a lot of advantages, especially, alongside the buzz of complicity, around the mutual understanding of the risks we are taking, wanting to protect each other at all costs and both understanding the planning thats sometimes needed in order to meet. Of course, seeing someone who is more available has its advantages too, but when I did that she ended it quite quickly when she realised she wanted something more permanent.
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Unhommesympa - 17 Mar, 2025 - 10:18AM
Sounds good to me, good luck to you 👍
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budgie817 - 17 Mar, 2025 - 09:19AM
Nothing wrong with that, only issue would be if it ever came to romantic attachment by either party. Just because it did’t work out before doesn’t mean it never will.
But there are clear advantages of having a relationship that is just a section of your life and has nothing beyond its defined boundary.
To have a part of life drama free and just for the exchange of pleasure can be liberating and healthy.
Good luck to you.
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giggly hamster - 20 Mar, 2024 - 12:03PM
Sod bringing back the 70’s
I’ve read the joy of sex and apparently I’ve got to have a beard and a thicket hedge down below.🥸
Nope.. nope, and thrice nope.
Clean shaven or stubble at the most and a waxed undercarriage for me I tell thee. Smooth runway, none of that undergrowth malarkey.
Legs&Eyes - 20 Mar, 2024 - 07:09AM
Loopey45
Seems the profile name extends beyond just a profile name.
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