Comments (96)

Paula99 - 22 Mar, 2025 - 10:30AM

Hmmmmm….sounding a little Mipaulac there ..Doubleohseven …you will be doing it in the back of a van before you know it … 😂

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Paula99 - 22 Mar, 2025 - 10:12AM

Doubleohseven…

Don’t you just love it 😏

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Doubleohseven - 22 Mar, 2025 - 10:05AM

OP, of course you do! Because the metaphorical laundry is probably done by your (male) lover. FYI, your trouble-free bubble actually requires him going through a ton of trouble! He needs to:
1) Work his a** off. Earn well or get a raise (no pun). Your affair involves classy hotels, fun nights out, etc so he needs a ...
2) secret credit card: cardless statements only! To settle the balance, he needs a...
4) Secret bank act: to fund it secretly, he needs an...
5) ...investment account.
As you see, a money launderer (laundry again) has it easier than your lover...
In my experience, the mistress' ability to spend secretly is tiny. which is why the OP seems untroubled by the laundry items above. Plus, (usually male) lover has to prepare the romantic date:
6) find a cocktail bar / restaurant: check availability, read reviews, see pictures, repeat
7) shop for.toys: not Lego. Read reviews, order online for collection in person
8) Go to collection point, take to date, charge ahead of meet
.....

Kinky-Fun - 20 Mar, 2025 - 03:09PM

100%
I come from a culture where having a mistress in not frown upon like in the hypocrite Anglo sphere.

All relations evolve and you don’t need to destroy a marriage if you respecting each others and often involve children, families, friends, finaces, etc... because you lack sex or just intimacy. then you go marry again with your mistress feeling you re in love and the same things happen again because well every flame dies one day if not reignited. A mistress should never become a wife or it will defy the purpose.

I love having a mistress because I feel no commitments makes the relation pure as if I was love at first sight but a mature love, without the little thing that destroy relations over time.

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Funguy77 - 20 Mar, 2025 - 01:49PM

I like women who like being a mistress you get exactly what it says on the tin . Mutual respect and hopefully amazing sex

wb1112 - 20 Mar, 2025 - 12:50PM

The thought of having a mistress is very exciting. Even the word 'mistress' sends a shiver down my spine. Do you have more than one relationship at the same time or do you prefer exclusivity? x

Smilysal - 19 Mar, 2025 - 10:24PM

I totally agree with you. It keeps it exiting.

ExoticOrchid - 19 Mar, 2025 - 12:02AM

My comment from a year ago (7 March 2024 to be exact)(on Page 3) still stands! 😊

PS: For all the married men flattering themselves that a single woman will get too attached to them ... dream on fellas ... 🙄

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1762326 - 18 Mar, 2025 - 09:33PM

I've been the third person outside the marriage by choice for 2 years. Good sex and no commitment. I accepted I had to compromise and thats as it should be.

laugar164 - 18 Mar, 2025 - 03:17PM

Each to there own I say as long as both parties are happy and get what they want out of the affair then why not