Comments (92)

MagicMouse321 - 05 Jun, 2025 - 05:16PM

You’re worrying about negative "what if’s”

…what if it goes wrong, what if I don’t feel like it?, what if my tan streaks? etc

Try and focus on positive’s what if’s, if you insist on worrying.

…What if everything's fine, what if in 5 mins I just relax, What if we just get on really well, What if I actually have a lot of fun. What if I get a real buzz from it all. What if he really likes me. What if I really like him and it goes perfectly.

FunMachine - 05 Jun, 2025 - 12:44PM

Make a joke out of it, be a great ice breaker

MarkSWL - 03 Jun, 2025 - 01:28PM

I would not reschedule, if he is worth it he will understand and you could laugh it off. Might even help break the ice. I am sure you are being over cautious and that you look fabulous

Paula99 - 03 Jun, 2025 - 05:11AM

If it was me …I would reschedule the date ….I don’t use fake tan but if it’s applied correctly then it can look fabulous….but I have seen too many paint jobs that look dreadful…I am sure if you explained to your prospective IE that there is a GOOD reason ….maybe send a picture….then all will be ok…the more relaxed you feel about yourself will make the date better…..Happy fake tanning 😊

Asian Adam - 02 Jun, 2025 - 10:40PM

No you don’t reschedule, nobody is perfect and your date should appreciate you for who you are

Chevere - 02 Jun, 2025 - 10:25PM

Sounds like a great ice breaker and should spark fun chats 😁

I'd suggest you go ahead with the lobster tan!

1786594 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 01:14PM

Did you count to five mississippily??

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marklondonengland - 02 Jun, 2025 - 01:08PM

If this situation were even real then the obvious response would be to just go on the date and have a laugh about the situation, because if you are meeting someone you are interested in then you should both be able to laugh at a silly situation or disaster. But it's just a made up story so why are we bothering to comment?

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Kissme1973 - 02 Jun, 2025 - 08:05AM

Just be you as we all want to look and more importantly feel fantastic as that boosts our confidence however if the person that you are meeting isn’t as nervous as you I will be surprised.
It is a big leap of faith giving yourself emotionally or physically to someone else but it can be rewarding so relax have fun and see where it goes. X

on and on - 13 Feb, 2024 - 06:30AM

I hope it was a suitable conversation piece 🤣

I’m sure your glow was appreciated