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Paula99 - 11 Jan, 2022 - 04:13PM

S n M is nothing like 50 shades ...the book just glamourised it but there are more creative authors ..she is no Jilly Cooper...mild kink is okay but the reality is much darker....I read a book last year by a clinical psychologist T. CRAIG ISACCS.....titled *In Bondage to Evil*.....not bedtime reading but makes an interesting concept...😁

ukhousewife - 11 Jan, 2022 - 03:02PM

I think many do feel its cool to say it, I personally like a man to be dominant but not in the S and M way, make decisions and be decisive yes please but get a paddle or whip out and Im gone.

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ExoticOrchid - 08 Jan, 2022 - 11:06PM

AAGilfan 04:56PM

Oh so funny ... 🙄

AAGilfan - 08 Jan, 2022 - 04:56PM

Exotic Orchid You are so right! Just look at that bloke from Windsor - ugly deluded personality, unemployed, penniless and living off the State and handouts from mum, living in some old house on a big estate, look at how he is being hounded for abduction and rape. You couldn't make it up..... 😉

Old Sapper - 09 Dec, 2021 - 07:44PM

!Zippedup08 - 07 Nov, 2021 - 12:06AM

Fifty Shades of Grey a tedious and torturous read… as for the film!!!

Never read the book, but agree 100% about the film!!
Calling it shite is to insult good farmyard manure!

Countess J - 13 Nov, 2021 - 08:58PM

Normal sex? My normal may not be your normal and vice versa. I doubt seriously in this day and age that such language is even appropriate in describing non vanilla liaisons. I and I alone am capable of defining my happiness. Trust me when I say that normal never enters the discussion. However the words refreshing, kinky, titillating, happily, no regrets, breathless, different are used vigorously.

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Youandme2 - 12 Nov, 2021 - 09:13PM

I guess alot of people crave what they're not getting at home...so not surprising that many people are interested in fulfilling their fantasies. They. Can pretend to be Christian Grey when they're actually Phil Mitchel 😃

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Eliza Boo - 12 Nov, 2021 - 03:17PM

Could it be the proposer of this question was trying to suss out who's vanilla and who likes all the flavous?! I mean, it's one way to separate the wheat from the chaff, or should I say chafe?! 😉

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CharlieT17 - 08 Nov, 2021 - 09:00PM

I’ve noticed it only on very few female profiles.
Exciting when it does of course.
Interesting that you’re looking for something to blame about this ………

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Countess J - 08 Nov, 2021 - 01:10PM

As a Female with an extremely Dominant personality I crave men who genuinely straddle that submissive fence. I've tried vanilla dating and it did not work. It took coaxing from a girlfriend to make me see that I could acknowledge this desire in my profile and not feel deviant. Yes, that is what I was called by a man for whom I dated because I expressed a need to humiliate, punish and control submissive men. I am ecstatic when I see others so open about their kinky lifestyle. It's nothing to be ashamed of nor would I ever apologize for it.

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