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Arista - 26 Oct, 2024 - 03:02PM

??affairs?? on here not really just quickies, surely

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Paula99 - 24 Oct, 2024 - 04:25PM

Enigma is correct about the ‘office routine ‘ its applies to both sexes…who is going to wait around for your prospective affair to ‘get his/her life in order??

In fairness to Unwoke …I can see what he is getting at ….but you must be already in your ‘office routine ‘ and not starting off…

Personally if a guy can’t produce some real evidence that he’s available on a certain days as he usually goes to the workspace/ climbing wall/book club/golf etc etc etc..then it’s a non starter …!!!

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Enigma.. - 24 Oct, 2024 - 07:34AM

@Unwoke!

Good idea about working in the office.

But ask yourself this!?! 🤔.

How many female members would be willing to wait for weeks until you establish your office routine!?!

I certainly wouldn’t 🫤.

Paula99 - 24 Oct, 2024 - 05:29AM

My thoughts into this question remain the same whether is 2021..2024 …the more you make your lifestyle/affair ‘normal’ then this doesn’t arouse suspicion…go to the gym /pool….learn to paint/ other pastime…these should be intergrated into your ‘usual pattern’…only then will you have legitimate reasons to be away from the home…it’s like most things you have to put a plan of action …if questions do surface…. such as my friend from work goes to that ‘book club’ ..what are you reading etc etc?????
Know your audience 😁

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Delicious Chaos - 23 Oct, 2024 - 02:29PM

Unwoke of course it works both ways but generally and if you want to take out a survey, I can guarantee it’s a high percentage of men who really have no clue and with respect if you don’t really know how or when you are going to find the time to embark on an affair you shouldn’t really be here.
Of course you know!

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1661843 - 23 Oct, 2024 - 11:51AM

Delicious Chaos

From the other side of the fence I've come across a fair few women who haven't given it a great deal of thought too!

But to be fair, until and unless you've tried it, you can't really know for sure what sort of investment is necessary for a satisfying affair.

1661843 - 23 Oct, 2024 - 10:42AM

The trick I've always found is to not do anything that can't be broadly described as 'normal'.
If you don't normally go into the office it'll appear suspicious.
Maybe start going into the office (genuinely) on random days each week then, once this has settled into a regime that is 'normal', you'll be able to flex it to accommodate your lover.
A word to add to your everyday lexicon - 'compartmentalise'!

Delicious Chaos - 22 Oct, 2024 - 11:32AM

From Ross I applaud your last post. I’ve come across a lot of men who really don’t have a clue about how they are going to get this to work and for me I don’t even entertain them.

It’s great to hear a man talking a lot of sense :-)

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1715305 - 21 Oct, 2024 - 09:31AM

The same comments come up time after time after time.

1704344 - 21 Oct, 2024 - 09:13AM

Nothing to stop you from buying a Ringo and cinema ticket and not going….

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