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Cold feet

Does anyone get cold feet after arranging a meet? how do you deal with it..? I am serious about meeting someone just worried I will mess up and get caught

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Paula99 - 02 Oct, 2023 - 06:08PM

Not everyone is great at ‘creative writing’ and selling themselves…it’s not always the guys that have great profiles that produce the actual goods …if you can type a good profile but can’t get the style in the bedroom then it doesn’t make any difference…

Sometimes there are always exceptions to the rule !!!

….don’t use the profile wizard it’s copy and paste central..


Legs&Eyes - 02 Oct, 2023 - 11:15AM

Naughty in NW - 01 Oct, 2023 - 10:47PM

Thank you!...

Yes, its odd.... I always think someone must have a certain amount of self-awareness in these situations and at least 'know themselves' enough to string a few lines together, about who and what they are and what and who they want... its not hard! But I am endlessly amazed at the amount of 'wizard' profiles!

Id love to hear from any guy amongst us to say a lady had copied great chunks of HIS profile into her own... as the responses so far seem to show that its a one ways street of guys who cant write their own profiles!

Disclaimer - Not in ALL cases! Lol....


Naughty in NW - 01 Oct, 2023 - 10:47PM

Legs&Eyes

Great user name by the way! Yes, I've had a few guys copying great chunks of my profile. I messaged one (he had viewed my profile several times) and politely stated that he must have liked my profile as it was pretty much identical to his. His response was really rude, indicating that I had copied his. Yeah, right. 🤣

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Paula99 - 01 Oct, 2023 - 06:04PM

I remember a while back a guy contacted me and he asked me what I thought about his profile as he had been on a few dates and wasn’t successful…..I made a few suggestions and he changed his profile after asking my permission to use certain phrases..so I agreed..
I wished him good luck and I didn’t hear from him for about a year then I got a message saying Thankyou for your help and he had found his affair and it was still going strong …

As long as you respect the boundary then no words have been copied ….everybody wins 😁


Enigma.. - 01 Oct, 2023 - 03:38PM

@Legs&Eyes

It seems to be the “in thing” on this site to copy and paste (in other words steal) parts or nearly all of other people’s profiles.
I’m thinking of copywriting mine 😉.

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Legs&Eyes - 01 Oct, 2023 - 01:53PM

Paintednails - 01 Oct, 2023 - 09:06AM

Welcome!
Yes, Exotic is right, we are fellow members of the Singles Club... you've got a great profile!

And the paraphrasing bit made me laugh - as 1 guy here has copied 4 lines of my profile word for word and made them his own.. he forgot he'd done it but liked the words (I called him out on it)! Its still my words 3 months later - classy!

Anyway... we live and learn! Lol....


ExoticOrchid - 01 Oct, 2023 - 10:26AM

Paintednails 💅

Great profile, especially the paragraph about having an affair with you ... it is exactly what I (and Leg&Eyes too no doubt) would say as well! 👍

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Paintednails - 01 Oct, 2023 - 09:06AM

If you know what you want and really want what you think you want then you wouldn't have "cold feet". You are either ready or not, be honest with yourself.
If you are serious as you claim then just go for it, be yourself and have fun, good luck.

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Enigma.. - 28 Sep, 2023 - 06:11AM

That’s what had me laughing so much…

He left the site about 2 weeks after that.

I’ve had some weird and wonderful excuses cancelling or changing arrangements at the last minute.
But that particular “reason” still makes me giggle to this day 😃😂😉💋.

I should write a book 📖😉😏.

The Big Book of Excuses and Reasons…

Now that has best seller written all over it 😉😂👍🏻📖😏💋

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ExoticOrchid - 27 Sep, 2023 - 09:46PM

TBH - 09:31PM

Is it ... I thought it was in South America??? 🤔🤣

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