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57, New Forest/London

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Married, Average body
5'7''-5'11'' (170-180cm)
Looking for: Friendship, Short Term Relationship, Long Term Relationship, Romance & Fun, Casual, See how it goes

Caucasian/White,  Non-Smoker,  Light / Social Drinker

Occupation:  Other
Education:  Doctoral Degree/Ph.D
Eye Colour:  Grey
Hair Colour:  Brown
Religion:  Agnostic/None

Looking for Female between the ages of 35 and 69

Star Sign: Libra
Last Active: Within 5 Days

About Me:

I am a happy, laid back independent confident man. I seek one woman of similar character for adventure, mutual fun, exploration, fulfilment, friendship all with discretion and respect. Mutual fun respect and pleasure are key to success.

I am quiet cerebral, curious and creative with an irreverent GSOH - an active mind. I am sensual and care about my partner’s needs and desires as well as my own. Humour and laughter are my aphrodisiacs. I will be your partner for secret pleasures and a good listening friend. We should both feel wanted and desired and look forward to a chance to meet again.

Well educated and travelled however not pretentious and find the fun in all aspects of life. I enjoy comedy, on screen drama (not in my personal life), food (healthy and with some imagination) and nice drinks. All quality over quantity although I am more likely to say yes than no.

Sadly in a platonic marriage I won’t leave but now with time and opportunity to seek missing intimate pleasures so seeking one woman only who is in need of a playmate. I come with an GSOH some worldly wisdom and eager to share laughter, intimate thoughts developing a physical and mental connection. Personality, humour and a positive attitude leading to finding chemistry.

Discreet (isn't that assumed on here?), respectful of boundaries and fully understand the rules. I am attentive and tactile by nature behind closed doors. Really enjoy kissing an underrated art (and touch/massage) BUT a meeting of personalities is just as vital and really an essential first stage.

I am semi retired so can meet within reason: daytime, evenings, weekend, even an overnight (would be real treat if things blossom). Willing to be adventurous and open minded, excited to meet someone who compliments me and spend time discovering each other. I am not looking for a quick hook up or ONS.

Location needs to work and I would like meet at least once month more if possible and practical. I do spend some time away from home. Hampshire, Dorset and Surrey (Western half) are easy and practical locations and I visit Central London most weeks for to work.

I have tried the site before so appreciate people who reply I do. But I sometimes wonder if my messages were even read. Hoping to meet someone interesting and not here to just play email ping pong but meet and find a fun fulfilling friendship 🤞😊.

First meeting somewhere neutral and relaxed to test chemistry and sense if there is a spark and a practicality to take things forward. Staying in touch as we get to know each other and between meetings is important, as I said no ONS.

I am 5 10 reasonably fit, exercise wise I enjoy walking in country or at the coast when I can (Tennis, golf occasionally otherwise gym about 3 times a week a chore but better when done). Love nature and being outside as well as food wine and watching a good drama or comedy.

My personality, intelligence, imagination and character are my best features but I am not plucked from the ugly tree just not a 25 year old Adonis anymore. First meet somewhere convenient, discreet and neutral as attraction in the end is about personal interaction.

Ideal Partner:

I am looking for just one, communicative, intelligent, good company and likes to smile, laugh and not too serious in nature but serious in finding a friend for intimate fun. Communication, conversation, and with mutual trust open to progressing to kissing and. uninhibited intimacy if chemistry is right. A friend, partner in pleasures and lover.

Someone who has at least thought this through. It maybe not your first time although wouldn't like you to have lost count.

Status is not important but availability and practical stuff is. As is passion and fun attitude about this. Be honest about what you really want. I am open minded and non judgemental lots of different situations bring people to here so be honest and about what you want if you don’t ask you will never know. I don't want strings that bind but there needs to be a connection and genuine mutual liking and respect. Not looking for ONS but mutual liking, a secret bubble providing us with the piece of life's jigsaw we both miss.

Someone who cares about their health and not upsetting apple carts. Ideally just wanting me for me and able to meet for long enough to have some quality time build trust friendship and with chemistry find quality intimacy. If you have a fantasy or adventurous desire that's fine tell me I need to understand you and as long as nobody is hurt I have an open mind just accept I might say no as I don’t have any fetishes or kinks as such. I don't have a "type" TBH physical attraction is a bit unpredictable but would like someone at least reasonably fit and who has energy and fun about their personality, good self-esteem if that makes sense.

Attraction is idiosyncratic and appearance is only one factor. Smiles, expressive eyes and face mean as much as anything and personality is the real deal maker.

Say hello I am genuine and will reply, be honest and if I say I am interested to meet I will meet.

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Nature, Arts / Crafts, Museums / Galleries, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Football / Soccer / Rugby, Golf, Sailing / Boating, Tennis / Racket Sports, Theatre / Ballet, Volunteer / Charity, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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