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About Me:

Ok, I've had varied careers, have travelled a lot and have a demanding occupation at present, which can monopolise my time. Like everyone here - by and large - I am in a long term relationship which has become routine and I am finding that I need intimacy and stimulation that is lacking for me. My available time does vary but doesn't really prove to be a major problem - available time in the week and weekends, varies with planning . Whilst I don't dress like an inappropriate teenager, I wont embarrass you!

Not the first time here for me - it does work. I know the rule book, so all good there. A secret other, to have a private existence at times that can evolve and explore.

If any of this resonates for you - then get in touch!

Ideal Partner:

So what am I looking for? Someone with whom to confide in at times, have secret meets, times together that provide a welcome escape that will hopefully develop into a secure and illicit relationship. Sound achievable? It is, I assure you.

And who am I looking for? Whilst I appreciate beauty and good looks as much as the next man, it is true to say that intelligence, wit and a likeminded sense of humour are as attractive to me as anything.

I have been in this situation before and can manage the obvious deceit - an unfortunate word but the truth of it. If you're here on a repeat visit, you may be thinking that lightning could not possibly strike twice - but hey SOME of us must be the real thing, surely?

Almost every profile here mentions 'discreet' (or worse still discrete). I understand why, but as we are all here, we just have to trust each other on this. I have a lot to lose and no intention of putting it at risk. I'd like us to feel 'safe' . . . . safe from the outside world but with no boundaries between us inside it. You won't get a message from me at inappropriate times - I know the score.

PS.. fine if you want to waste your time and your money but please don't involve me.. if 'we' like each others profile and pics then lets get on with a date, I am not here to endlessly message, sorry but had enough of all the time wasters.. you know who you are and unfortunately there are so many of you..

Other Interests:

Nature, Hiking / Camping, Politics, Literature / History, Ice / Snow Sports, Movies / Cinema

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