Ipseity

About Me:

Who am I? I am someone who likes to ask questions. I like to learn about people, my environment, myself. I ask questions because I like to find out answers. Knowledge is power and I like to feel powerful, but not over powerful or disempowered. Equality is important to me.
I am a feminist. Don't all run away. Let me explain.
For me a feminist is a woman who respects and likes men (I like men a lot) but who also expects to be respected by men. I don't want to be the little woman (well maybe behind closed doors); but equally I dislike women who blame men for all their woes and want to be rescued. I desire a friendship based on mutual respect where I am appreciated for my brain as well as my body and that the combination is a strong chemistry when matched with your beautiful brain and unique body.
I am interested in men from any cultural background. What turns me on is intelligence and empowerment.
I like to explore the edges of my personality, emotionally, sexually, intellectually.
I am interested in learning about what makes you who you are and then looking at how we might rub up against each other and challenge each other to new experiences whilst being warm, supportive and stimulating.
All whilst not rocking your current boat.
Is that possible I wonder? Mmmm. Another question. Do you have the answer I am looking for? I spend a lot of time at the gym trying to tame my natural curves. With a degree of success. I am neither a skinny Minnie or a fat lump. I like wine and good food, but have found that if I stay committed to my personal trainer I can manage to have my cake and eat it so to speak.
I am deeply committed to ageing gracefully (I.e. no Botox or surgery) but also want to not slide into old age without a care for my appearance. I take great pride in still liking what I see when I look in the mirror (in candlelight...just joking)
I have shoulder length blonde hair and a big smile. I wear clothes which I feel sexy in which is important to me, but I do like to be naked in the right company, although I will always arrive wrapped in something desirable and not just the fur coat.

Ideal Partner:

Who do I want? Someone stimulating who has lived a bit and likes a strong conversation, and who likes women. Really likes women and is not threatened by opinions which differ. Someone who wants to laugh their socks off and who likes to make love with the lights on. Not necessarily at the same time:-) Someone to be a lover and a friend. Someone who has a good sense of self care. Looks are in the eye of the beholder and I have generous eyes.

Other Interests:

Museums / Galleries, Music - Classical / Opera, Music - Blues/Jazz, Literature / History, Gym / Aerobics, Martial Arts, Movies / Cinema, Cooking, Food and Wine

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